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    I recently became a member of a swingers club here in miami called MIAMI VELVET ( great super funn place by the way) me and a few girl freinds from the club go there its great and cheap compared to other clubs its a ( B.Y.O.B) club so you bring your own drinks that mneas they wont stiff you with high drink prices,, ladies get in for free every night, valet is only $3.00 and the best part of all you can get as wild as u want the min. you walk thur the doors you can run aruond naked and have sex any were its all very legal. is anybody else here into swingers clubs??? or has partied at a swingers club before ?? let me know ok !! hugggs and kisses

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    Default Re: Swingers Clubs Like It Or Hate It??

    Well, I've seen 'em on tv. Seriously, on VH1. I read an ad for, an have an application for, one in the Chicago area. It's a lil' different, toned down from what you describe. It's held monthly on a Sat. nite, in a meeting room at a local hotel, has cash bar, no nudity b/c of alcohol served. It is free for women, not sure about drinks. And I think they have a DJ. They also have Halloween, Christmas, etc partes. ALso have a rented stripper for the nite, dancing. You can dress up wild or mild. I think women can also danced topless if they want. I've never gone, it sounds interesting, though I'm personally not into the bi/threesome scene. You can wear a color name badge indicating what you're into, men, women, etc.


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    tv! lol I happen to be a swinger, and go to the three local clubs around here from time to time. Never been to Miami Velvet, since I live on the other side of the state, but it kinda sounds like Pleasure Palace, which is the number one swingers club in the Tampa Bay area. Each one's different, but it's usually pretty laid back and casual. The whole point of "the lifestyle", as swingers call it, is for couples to meet up with other couples, and sometimes singles, (though, IMHO, if you're single, it's gauche to say you're a swinger in favor of just saying you're in the lifestyle), mainly for the purpose of sex.

    However, the way me and my man do it (and we've been doing it our entire 4 1/2 year relationship) is for friends first, sex second; hence why most good swingers clubs have a BYOB side attached, for those clubs where alcohol and nudity can't mix. (Miami doesn't have that problem, so that's why Velvet's set up the way it is.) But, most importantly for those, like yourself, who go more for the BYOB than for the swinging- no polite swinger is going to do more than flirt with you unless you specifically say that it's okay. This goes for both guys and girls. For example, there was this couple at Illusions (the BYOB side of Pleasure Palace) one time, and she was kinda cute, so I was flirting with her, and she politely told me that they were just there to hang out and not really into swinging. Okay...no harm, no foul, and nobody got offended. So, as long as you explain what you're there for and what you're not, everything should be fine. But, for the most part, swingers clubs are mainly for those people in open relationships where jealousy isn't an issue. If wife swapping isn't something you're comfortable with, you're better off not going, regardless of the BYOB status.
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    YOU absoulutley right ( CHRISTY ) its not for everybody, me and my partner - its not a man its girl( im lez) she also dances at my club, we understand the whole swingers life style and concept, we have done 3 somes and exchanged partners from time to time. and yes its very important to comunicate with other that approach you at a swingers club and let them know exactly why your there, casue some reg.couples( ussualy the males) think that if they approcah you that means your ready to exchange partners, NOTTT!!!, eveybody body is in there for a differnt rreason,, but who ever is tired of the same reg-dance club crap, try a swingers club its a tottal differnt world, and ( CHRISY ) since your in tampa not to far north of miami, if you ever get the chance to come down here stop by( MIAMI VELVET ) you'll have a great time, its very upscale, super tight security and they love couples or singel women compared to other clubs its really cheap to party there.

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    My fiancee' and I went in one in Phoenix. There liquor isn't allowed. We're not into swinging, but wanted to see what goes on.

    One fat guy was in the hot tub jacking off, and in a room on the side several guys were sitting on the couches with their pants down to their knees stroking away.

    A few couples were in there and one guy came up to us to probe us. Not our scene, and it seemed like it is a cliquey environment, but I can see how it could be fun for those into swinging and open sexuality.

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    I know a lot of swingers and poly folks, but it so isnt my thing. The closest I get is going to a Bliss Club event or something...
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    I've always been curious to go to one but I don't know if I'd want to do anymore than watch. One of my friend's husbands wanted me to go with him because he was curious too but I think it would be weird to go to a swinger's club with my best friend's husband.

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    (TINA) the club you went to seems very sleezzy and dirty yuck!! if you want to have a nice experience in a swingers club please stick to the upscale clubs with many stricked rules, the 1 me and my freind are members of ( MIAMI VELVET) is very upscale to be a memeber its cost 250.00 a year they screen every memeber to make sure no bad people get in, unescorted singel men arent allowed in even if they got $1000.00 in there pockets its very,clean & they have very stricked rules escpically for singel men,,, they want to keep there club for couples and singel women not turn it into a gay haven for older men( yuck) lol we love it we go there just to hangout some times, you have tons of freedom, & fun dont be discourged about going to a swingers club casue of all the sleeezy clubs out there

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    My husband and i went to one in Palm Springs. Conceptually, i liked the idea, but in reality not so much. There was only old people and creepy single guys there. We kept to ourselves. Unfortunately, most of the people i've met that are into this don't attract me

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    Default Re: Swingers Clubs Like It Or Hate It??

    No one has mentioned anything about condoms etc.

    Other than the BYOB, and men walking around nude, this sounds like a couple of "strip" clubs I've been in. LOL
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    I went a few times to one in L.A. Good times to be had, but the other swingers there were almost universally overweight, middle-aged, and unattractive. At one point there was a group having an orgy right next to us, and they spent the entire orgy talking about the traffic problem in L.A. - yes, WHILE having an orgy! It was about the UNsexiest thing I've ever seen.

    We would still go if it was cheap, but they charge $200 to attend each weekly party.

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    Never been to one, but curious. Theoretically, my boyfriend and I have an open relationship, but have only been with one other person. It wasn't a bad experience and we often talk about doing it again, but I guess we're both picky people. A lot of the polyamorists I've met remind me of people you'd run into at a D&D convention. (Don't flame me, wizard people!)

    My boy checked out a "couples" club with friends a few years before we met. He said there were very few women there, only one he considered attractive, and the line to talk to her was pretty long. Doesn't sound like too fun a scene. Glad you found a nice one, though, Madam Lizz.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FrustratedBunny
    I've always been curious to go to one but I don't know if I'd want to do anymore than watch. One of my friend's husbands wanted me to go with him because he was curious too but I think it would be weird to go to a swinger's club with my best friend's husband.
    What your friend's hubby tried to do is usually a bad sign anyways...My question for him would be that, if he's curious, why didn't he just ask his own wife to go with him? Chances are he already did, and she's not into it...if that's the case, true hardcore swingers wouldn't have anything to do with him...we don't like cheaters any more than the rest of the world.

    And yes, generally speaking, the condoms use or not is generally a couple by couple thing. And don't be discouraged by the way a lot of swingers that go to the clubs look like...chances are the nice, hot looking ones might come in, or they could be like the multitude of couples we meet that prefer to meet couple to couple via the swingers sites out there and skip the clubs altogether.
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    My guy and I swing (I hate the term, it sounds too much like the 70's "I just wanna bang someone other than my wife" thing. We prefer smaller settings to the big house parties/clubs as they tend to have to much of a "meat market" feel to them. Not anything against the clubs/parties we've been to mind you, it's just a personal preference.



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    Yes, a couple of years ago my my hubby and I and another couple that are friends of ours went to a swingers club in Atlanta. When you walked in there was a normal bar but you had to bring you own actual liqour and they provided the mixers and would make the drinks for you. They also had music playing with a dance floor and big screen televisions with porn playing on them. There were very few people hanging out in this area so we proceded to the back area which was clothing optional and you could wear a towel or bathing suit maximum or of course go nude. We opted to go with towels around us and there was nude bar and that was packed with all sorts of people. In the back was a swimming pool and jacuzzis. We went in the jacuzzi together along with another couple my friends knew who joined us later on. It was fun we basically just sat and chatted. I made out with a girlfriend of mine once but other than that it was uneventful amongst us. However, between the nude bar and pool area where small room with mattresses laid out and there were some couples having sex. There were windows so you could watch them. It was interesting but we didn't meet many people of our type there. Good thing we were all together I guess.

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    What your friend's hubby tried to do is usually a bad sign anyways...My question for him would be that, if he's curious, why didn't he just ask his own wife to go with him? Chances are he already did, and she's not into it...if that's the case, true hardcore swingers wouldn't have anything to do with him...we don't like cheaters any more than the rest of the world.
    no, my friend (his wife) would never be up for that! She is very uptight about things and he says he likes to talk to me because I'm open minded but still, there is talking and then there is doing and those are two different things. I hope he is just curious and would never actually want to do anything with me but I really don't want to find out. The way he said it was he really didn't know anyone else but me who would go to a swinger's club and so that's why he asked me but I told him it was just too weird to go with him. He and my friend live far away too so it's not really an issue.

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    i heard somewhere about swinging. It looks interesting..

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