I'm wondering if any of you girls have had this situation happen to you:
I have a guy that is essentially a regular. He doesn't spend a lot, but when he comes in he usually gets some dances. He and I actually have a mutual friend, so we have stuff to talk about - plus, he took my cat off of my hands because she needed a good home. Anyway, we've gotten to the point where he thinks of us as being great friends. I do not see it this way, because he drives me nuts. He knows that I am married, so he wants to maintain some type of "friendship" with me, although our mutual friend says that he is obsessed with me (which I believe, because he emails me constantly about random crap and tries to come into the club as much as possible). However, we are now in the sort of gray area where he won't buy drinks for me (which is not good because when we sit with a customer we get fired if we don't order a drink. This is of course under the assumption that the guy will pay for it. Usually the waitress will give me my money back later, but he is still being cheap), and sometimes he just comes in to talk. I knew he was going to come in yesterday, so I figured I could at least count on some money. I even blew off some customers that probably would have gotten dances, because I didn't want to ignore him and potentially lose his business. He pretty much talked about the cat the whole time, bored me to death, and then left after fucking wasting my time. He thinks this is ok since we are "friends".
Now, I'm a very non-confrontational person. He is a nice guy, so I don't want to be mean and tell him not to come see me anymore, especially since he probably will buy dances again at some point. I don't really think that there is much of a way to handle this situation, except for to be honest with him when he is at the club and tell him that I need to hustle real quick or whatever, but if you girls have any tips I would really appreciate it. Mostly, I'm just ranting and wanted to know if anybody else out there has experienced the same thing, and if so, what happened, etc.



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