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    Default Ex-stripper has depressing club experience!!!

    I was home over the weekend for Mother's Day, and hit an area strip club with an ex. It was perhaps the single most depressing strip clubbing experience of my life.

    The dancers were all, and I mean ALL, really sullen and depressed-looking, even the hot ones. We couldn't find someone to give us dances, even though we made it clear we were prepared to spend a few hundred bucks. We left spending only the cover, one-drink minimum and a few dollars tossed onstage to the girls joylessly gyrating to mind-numbing techno.

    It was so bad that I actually thought to myself "If I had to go back to this I would fucking kill myself". Most of the time when I've gone to clubs since retiring, I've missed at the very least being on stage, (the custy's not so much) but this weekend I just wanted to get out of there. And this is supposed to be one of the best area clubs!

    Any other ex-dancers had similar experiences? Or has anyone else just ever been really psyched to go to a club and just had it be majorly anticlimactic and just plain sucky?
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    Default Re: Ex-stripper has depressing club experience!!!

    Sounds like you were visiting the clubs in Eugene, Oregon! I actually found a club in the area with happy, cute dancers, but most of the time it is just depressing to visit a strip club in this city.

    I save my strip clubbing for when I'm out of town.


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    Yeah, my old home club. It used to be so much better, now it seems that everyone is on zombie mode...and we couldn't get anyone to dance for us no matter what!! We went with me, scorpio and 6 other guys. I did overhear some dancers in the bathroom complaining that no one was spending money. I just looked at them all wide-eyed and said, "Wow...you really are blind..."

    Morons. The guys I was with would have spent lots of $$$ and 2 wanted to hit the VIP...but the girls were too busy standing around complaining about how there was no money to be made to actually go out and make some!

    Sad.

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    That sucks, and is weird. What city and club? I want to go there and make some money, lol. Yay to no competition!

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    are you sure they wernt all on drugs? lol i cant imagine a whole club full of dancers looking like zombies!

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    No, they didn't looked drugged-out, just bored off their asses.

    The club was Delilah's Den in South Amboy, NJ. Scarlett, don't know if it's an issue, but the club is fully nude and rather high-mileage.

    I know that at least up until recently, a dancer could make $500-$1K a shift pretty easily. I don't know if it was an off night I went on, but that definitely didn't look to be the case this time around.
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

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    I've noticed girls are fricken LAZY. The other day a girl went up to me and asked me my secret to success. "....I...hustle?" and she went, "Bah, that's too much work."... and... o.O;; Okay. I don't even think I make much. I just always LOOK BUSY at least. >_<

    Edit: Note I make like $300-400 a night usually and fricken girls are only make $100 barely. WTF?!
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    yes...Yes...YES...girl, I feel ya...same exact story. Shit, I even felt the need to get up there and take advantage of the money just WAITING!!

    Bitches be lazy these days.......

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    Maybe that's why I make money? Because I never sit around?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mermaidnz
    are you sure they wernt all on drugs? lol i cant imagine a whole club full of dancers looking like zombies!

    I was working and couldn't go, but last weekend my boyfriend and a big group of friends stopped by a club here in LA toward the end of their night on the town. Well, he called me the next day totally baffled b/c, as he reported, all the girls were in really grumpy moods and many of them LOOKED LIKE ZOMBIES!!! As if they were zoned out or something, which doesn't surprise me b/c many, many girls that I know and work with are big into Klonopin and Xanex at the moment to get them through their shifts. Here's the kicker, my boyfriend wanted to get a lapdance before he and his friends left and the one girl he asked looked at him lazily, hesitated, and said "No...that's okay," before turning and walking away.
    "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually who are you not to be?" -- Marianne Williamson.

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    Default Re: Ex-stripper has depressing club experience!!!

    I live and work in NYC which is where ninadaisy is from, right? I have worked at three clubs in the city, each one with a completly different attitude. I found that Scores, at least the scores on the westside is a high energy club. The girls with no energy just don't make it there, so the competition keeps everyones spirits high. well not everyone, but most. We all have our days but don't rule out every club! Great dancers are out there looking for your money... don't worry!

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