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    I let my b/f use my car yesterday morning at 7am.he said "i gotta run up the street real quick" so i gave him the keys. I figured maybe he was goin to get me some mothes day flowers or somethin. well when he didnt come back at 10:30am, i called his phone but no answer.all day. i have not heard from him and its the next day at 5pm. His phone is dead since last night. I called the police station to see if might have been picked up. I called highway patrol to make sure there wasnt any accident involving my vehicle. I drove around in a friends car a little bit ago to see if he was in any areas he used to be in. Nope. So my next option is to call police. Thing is, I have a warrant (just for a stupid failue to appear cuz I was late to court by 15 minutes and they wouldnt reset it for me) so if i call the police,and they do find my car, im jeapordizing myself. I dont know what to do. I needed to go pay bills todday,and couldnt go to work last night. All my ID is in the car, along with all the money i made Saturday night. What am i supposed to do??? Part of me wants to wait till he comes back...get my keys and tell him to get his shit and leave. And part of me wants the police to help me. I dont know what to do. Its a beautiful day, we should be at the beach or something. Im all alone and I cant go out anywhere. Should i wait or call the police???

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    Please dont tell me "u shoulda known better" im in tears, i just need advice. I already know to get rid of him like the last guy,so i dont wanna hear that please. I dont even remember my tag number...

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    well, it sounds like he stole your car. Is he coming back? Probably not. soooo....I guess you've got two choices: a) call the police and hope that your car hasn't been sold to a chop shop yet (and hopefully they catch your EX bf and arrest him, or b) write the car off as a loss, report it missing (since you'll have to do that for insurance anyways.) I really don't see any way around calling the police because you're going to want to get your insurance to cover your car if they can, and also if your car is involved in committing a crime they're going to want to know why you didn't report it.

    so, yeah, you'll have to call the police unless you decide to do something unwise like ignore it for a really long long time (no insurance, and chance that you'll be implicated in a crime.)

    If I thought your ex was coming back, maybe the answer would be different.

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    fucking boys

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    Exactly what Fancy said.

    If he was going to come back, he would've by now. Call the police and take your chances. There's no other choice at this point.

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    How much was the car worth? That really holds the key, because if you have a warrant, an Ex that's willing to steal your car, and a child....

    I'd suggest moving first chance you get. :/
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    Quote Originally Posted by georgiapeach
    fucking boys
    Hey! I resemble that remark!

    AND DO NO SUCH THING!
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    First of all I am so sorry that you even have to go through this. Don't worry, I won't go into any kind of a speech, b/c we've all been there in one way or another.

    The one downside is that if you wait too long, the police may think there's something fishy about it that you waited, and it will make it less likely they'll find the car in one piece. So, that being said, try to weigh out the 'value' of everything.

    So....
    What is the car worth? Or are you making payments on the car? And what kind of financial/legal trouble will you possibly be in by going to the police? (i.e. will it just be a fine of, say, $200?) Compare the pros and cons.

    Obviously, before you do anything, you'll want to dot your i's and cross your t's...Call his friends, family, etc (if you have access to any of the #'s), drive past hangouts again, etc. Once you do that and come up with nothing, compare the financial ramifications of both options, compare the pros and cons and you will come up with your answer.

    Good luck. I hope your car turns up and you can kick his ass to the curb.






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    OMG! what a pos!

    I am wondering too... What will happen if you call the police? What kind of legal drama will you be in?

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    fuck... what an awful situation.. ummm what kind of guy would do that to their supposed girlfriend??? hopefully he will return the car... if he does by any chance call to tell u he's coming back with it, i'd call the police, so he could have a nice welcoming home present... a good old arrest will be the perfect ending..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    Hey! I resemble that remark!

    AND DO NO SUCH THING!
    there are boys and there are men, my friend

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    report the car stolen and then go sit the warrant out in jail for a couple days after finding someone to tend your kid(s) (don't remember how many you have) for the duration. it should take 1-3 days to pay off, depending on how your county works and how overcrowded the jail is. you might be able to get away with sitting out the warrant overnight.

    you will probably lose saturday's money or have already lost it, but you'll have your ID and a way to get to work, and a traffic warrant is honestly no big legal deal (unless *maybe* you're on probation or something similar, but likely not even then).

    now i may be just an unfrozen cave-stripper, but you should probably cut this bf loose once you get things cleared up with your car and your warrant. and for godsakes don't ever leave earnings in the car overnight for any reason no matter how tired you are when you get home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by georgiapeach
    there are boys and there are men, my friend

    I'm all man from the waist up.

    Xiomara: Any news?!
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    is this the guy?
    will keep a lookout.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mia bella

    now i may be just an unfrozen cave-stripper, but...
    Huh? What, praytell, IS an unfrozen cave-stripper? Do you make more than the frozen, grasslands variety and if so, where can I sign up?

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    Y'know I'd never say 'You shoulda known'... 'cause uh... why not lend someone you love your car? You've been dating them, you know them.. hey honey, yeah use my car real quick and go up the street... no problem. o.O;; It's not your fault.

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    News???

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    still have not heard from him. I cant understand y his phone is STILL dead. Im starting to think something happened beyond his control,and he cant call me. But I am going to call his ex wife (ugh, this is gonna be awkward,but thats the only number i know of his contacts,and hopefully she'll know his sisters number, who he talks to often) Anyway....im gonna go drive around a little and look for him. if nothing, im calling te police. I wish cell phone companies could track phones. thanx guys, ill keep u postes.
    Spacecadet: yes,thats him. I gotta feeling he headed to north carolina where his family is. Im in florida

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    Instead of playing Fight Club video games, he needs to be in Fight Club, getting his ass kicked by that girl whose booty he admired...
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    you guys im really worried. i dont know if i should be mad as hell, sad,or what. i keep thinking he's with another girl in my car,and it makes me cry. then i think how the hell could he take my car and lie? that makes me wanna kick the person in the knee whos standing in front of me in line at the ice cream shoppe. im kinda nervous about calling his ex wife(they divorced when he came down here, after he met me) so its kinda awkward. but hey its my car. shit, here goes...

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    You are getting ice cream instead of preparing to take care of your warrant and report this? He is in your car, with your money, and your ID, are there credit cards in there as well? How much liability do you need before you report this, or if something bad happened, how long will it take till you help him?
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    From previous posts it sounds like you have been really good to this man and he has taken advantage of you. Now you have anger and want somewhere to put it but unfornuately you can't place it where it needs to be placed, on him. I understand why you said you are afraid to go to police. If you do decide to call his ex-wife, you might just find out what you already know, that he's a jerk. Your license plate number should be on your insurance information. If you want your car back though you are going to have to go to the police and pay your dues.

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    Xiomara:

    Time to dump the drama.

    He stole your car. At this point you need to expunge him from your life and move forward getting the car reported stolen and do what you need to do. THEN greive. :/

    Sorry this happened to ya but you need to look out for you now.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    That was a joke a bout the ice cream. I dont eat ice cream anymore.
    I have been very good to him...thats y its so hard to believe that he would do this. I called his ex but she didnt answer.I need to call his sister. How could i find a number for someone who lives in NC by her first name only? maybe if i call the phone company? i think she has Verizon like me, im not sure. im trying everything else before i call police,which i will do if all else fails. the police might not even look into my background information, they might be more focused on him. I know my bond is $5000.00 but they proba bly will lower it if i just g ahead and turn myself in. I need to work tonight though,im sure not in the mood but i gotta do what i gotta do. im not trying to be dramatic, and u guys have helped a lot. i am acting on this right now....thanx guys. im gonna try to call her again.

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    Mastridonicus: i will have nothing to do with him after this. i hate selfishness.... funny thing is...he was THE MOST caring,genorous man ive ever known. how the hell do u know who to trust these days????????

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