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    So I just started dancing a week ago (first time ever and I'm 29) and so far I've danced 3 night total. So far I'm loving it and have made really good money. On 2 different nights I've had a customer who I've danced for ask me "so how much would it cost to take you home?" WTF?????!!!!!!!! Are these men f-ing stupid? We are entertainers not prostitutes? Why the hell do they think because we take our clothers off for money in a club think we would go home and f&ck them for money? What do you say to them? What's your best come back line to them? I just said "no I don't do that but I'll give you as many dances as you want". Barf, gag me, nasty!!! I'd love to break their neck! I didn't take it personally, it just surprises me how rude some people can be! Like their mother never taught them any manners at all! I totally see what all you dancers have been talking about when it comes to these idiot customers! Tell me, how do you react to them? Do you just turn around and walk away or do you pretend to be "nice" about it to try to pry more money out of their wallets? I'm wondering what I should say or do? Thanks everyone!

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    My way of dealing with this: "Do you realize what you're saying? I'm not a hooker. If I went home with you and you tried to PAY me for it, I'd probably cry!" I think saying something like that puts it in the appropriate perspective for customers who get carried away. A variation of this for anyone who's still spending is to look them right in the eye, say, "If I go home with you, it'll be for free," and then proceed to extort more money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by red red red
    A variation of this for anyone who's still spending is to look them right in the eye, say, "If I go home with you, it'll be for free," and then proceed to extort more money.
    thats excatly what i say too now

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    I just tell them "Im priceless" then giggle and move to another conversation.
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    I pull the "You can't afford me or I'm priceless" too and if that doesn't work I just say "I don't do that I'm married, sorry". If they still hound me I walk away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    Do you just turn around and walk away or do you pretend to be "nice" about it to try to pry more money out of their wallets? I'm wondering what I should say or do? Thanks everyone!
    If you walk away from every customer who makes a remark like that, you'll go broke in no time. So, assuming the customer isn't being totally obnoxious and a waste of your time, a snappy answer like TigersMilk's suggestion, or "But I can show you so much fun right here!" or something similar, is the best course. Basically, brush it aside and continue pursuing your goal.

    Quote Originally Posted by red red red
    ... and then proceed to extort more money
    Um... can we not use the word "extort" in connection with our services? I know that's not meant to be taken seriously, but it's bad enough some of the guys think that's what we do without reinforcing it.

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    "What do you have in your wallet?"

    "xx.xx"

    "Well no matter what you have, it'll cost a dollar more than that."

    "....;-;"

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    I just laugh and say I'm just a dancer. Then I tell them either they get a dance or they can find someone else. Many guys get embarrased when they're called on their piggish behavior.

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    "I did that once and it turned out horribly. He tried to attack me. I'll never do it again because I don't feel safe. But I feel safe here."

    That way you don't make him feel like a PL for asking and you can extort more ITC (yes, I think "extort" is an applicable word since we're longer in an ethical arena the moment you proposition me for sex.)

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    Hell I just tell them I'm gay. I'm used to being solicited, I just have them booted out from the club. and yes men are retarded.


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    Okay, since LE don't hound the clubs here in Australia only liquor licensing... and most clubs know which guys are the LL guys too so I can usually be safe when I do the following:

    I look them in the eye. Get serious in my expression and say flat out/plainly
    It'll cost 5 million dollars and I require half of that up-front in cash with no refunds regardless of what happens I take that deposit with me. Hey, if I'm going to do it I might as well do is once and live off the proceeds then smile and most guys see the joke in it. It is always meant to be taken as a joke.

    Granted, that won't work for girls who work in clubs that have busts or are prone to have LE visit them.

    I usually get a variation that's "Can I take you home?" not how much to take me home. In reply to that since I'm petite and short is "Whilst I'm a pocket rocket, I'm not pocket sized so it would be hard for you to take me home" with a smile Or the other variation "When do you finish work so we can meet up later?" my response: "I have absolutely no idea to tell the truth as I may finish early or stay until closing.."

    Basically... try to re-direct the conversation.


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    What's weird is that most of the time when they ask questions like that,they don't even say "hello","or how are you" or even "what's your name".They just go ahead and ask "How much will it take to take you home","What are you doing after work","Come to my hotel after you're done",etc,etc.I'll try to say something polite the first time,but if they keep pushing....People asking questions like that deserve to feel like PL,simply because that's who they are.

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    Sad thing is, I know girls at my club that will take guys up on this. Hence, guys will never stop asking. It's just one of those disgusting things we get to put up with.

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    As a customer, I'd say the "If I do, it'll be for free" line is the right thing to say. Preserves the illusion that you like me, etc.

    And unfortunately for dancers, as Lyssa Lynn says a lot of dancers WILL take guys up on it, and guys will keep asking--for much the same reason that a dancer will ask every guy in the club if they want a dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    On 2 different nights I've had a customer who I've danced for ask me "so how much would it cost to take you home?" WTF?????!!!!!!!! Are these men f-ing stupid?
    No. Perhaps annoying annoying, and not conducive to the kind of business you want to do - and maybe they're stupid. I don't know.

    We are entertainers not prostitutes? Why the hell do they think because we take our clothers off for money in a club think we would go home and f&ck them for money?
    Hmm. Perhaps you need to reread that sentence? Look - we take off our clothes and simulate sexual activity. Even the prudiest of us. I'm not saying you have to go home with customers, or enjoy being asked, but there is no point is being shocked and appalled because they think we might, at the right price, do more than simulate.

    What do you say to them? What's your best come back line to them? I just said "no I don't do that but I'll give you as many dances as you want". Barf, gag me, nasty!!! I'd love to break their neck! I didn't take it personally, it just surprises me how rude some people can be! Like their mother never taught them any manners at all!
    I don't know. It only seems really rude if they are offering under $500.

    Tell me, how do you react to them? Do you just turn around and walk away or do you pretend to be "nice" about it to try to pry more money out of their wallets? I'm wondering what I should say or do? Thanks everyone!
    i say "no" and unless the guy is really, really into me (i.e. he is likely to buy dances even though dances are clealry not what he wants) I move on. If you feel like being cute you can try "No! If we do that we'll have to get married!"
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    at the club im currently at its happened three times in one week... we get a lot of out of town business men coming in, and they are always asking about escorts and such.... i immediatly exit the conversation and leave..... these types are often not even looking for so much as a dance......

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    A dancer I dated a while had this happen frequently--on her first night she was offered 8,000$. I suppose it's a compliment, irritating as it may be--and like Jenny says, it comes with the territory.

    Some of these comebacks are quite good...
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    Yeah, you have to get over the "shock factor" or ignore it. If I haven't work in a while and I come back I still get shocked at the things guys will say. But I try to remember they are drunk and in the presence of a beautiful woman. The combination isn't always a good one for some men. Just kind of giggle and say, well, we really don't know each other that well. That usually works at getting him to spend more money on you. If he wants to see you again after he finishes buying dances for the night tell him what days and hours you work. If you want to tell him you don't have sex for money or it is illegal, which is true, you can but he typically stop spending money on you at that point. You can also say that you will get fired for it, which may also be true and you can't afford to lose your job. He may or may not spend more money on you at that point as well. But generally it is best to act flattered and tell him you don't know him very well. Remember, it is acting job in a lot of ways.

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    Yea i've been asked that shit question before to. Some things you just get use to in this industry.

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    I imagine the things you ladies get asked when someone who is very intoxicated gets old at times. I've never even when drunk propostioned a Dancer. I've been asked to meet for breakfast and also told she was hungry for some meat. a friend whos wife worked there snaffued that breakfast. I think the suggestions given are very good and will tone down most guys who are pressing the let me take you home question.

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    I work in a club where there are a lot of hispanic guys who don't know the rules. If they ask for sex, they are usually not doing it as an insult, they seriously want to know if it's possible.

    I usually say "I'm priceless" (like the credit card commercial) and then I finish by saying something like "but thanks for asking" or "I'm flattered , but no thanks".

    99% of the time, they will apologize and tip a bit more. I feel this way, there is no drama created.

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    Quote Originally Posted by red red red
    My way of dealing with this: "Do you realize what you're saying? I'm not a hooker. If I went home with you and you tried to PAY me for it, I'd probably cry!" .

    YOU, are a SMART, SMART, SMART chick! I LOVE that line! It is friggin' Perfect!

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    I don't know. I generally find that whenever guys ask me this (before they have gotten dances) that they will not get dances and if they do, won't be happy with them because they are looking for me.

    I really like Red red red's suggestion, but where I live, all I'd get is, "great, so when do you get off work"? and would stop spending a dime assuming they could get it for free. Sigh...

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    He: how much to take you home?
    She: 15 inches.
    No more pressure.


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    ^^^BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA *writes that down*

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