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    Hello darlings,

    I stopped dancing 5 years ago, because I was soooo sick of it, I didn't have the patience & the energy to hustle and behave like "barbie at the strip club" anymore(no offense to anyone but you know what I mean, you kinda have to behave like doll, a fantasy and you can't really show them that you are smart... oooohhh nooooo !)
    It was just too damn exhausting for me and I hated the fact that sometimes I could make amazing money in one night and for the next 2 nights I would make 75 $, it drove me insane because! I was trying to plan my life according to a budget but I really couldn't, not with such an irregular income. ( Ok ! :: I admit that I am kind of high maintenance but still, I never exagerated... because I knew that sometimes I would get into a dry spell)..So I got myself a 9 to 5 job which helped a lot because I could finally make plans, have a real budget and more importantly live my life without being eaten out by the stress of not knowing if would make enough money to pay for my stuff and feel trapped. But here I am, 5 years later, deep in debts with my credit cards maxed out, trying to start a business with almost no money...and I am thinking of going back...Of course I would have to get back in shape, but that's a problem, my problem is will I be able
    to play the game again since I left the business hating it.

    Anyone had a similar experience and went back, or has advices to give, please share

    Excuse my mistakes, I am French so my English doesn't always come out right.

    Love and xx

    Pepita

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    Default Re: Thinking of getting back in the game...

    I don't have much advice, I have never taken off for so long.. I will say to always stay positive, even if it's just for show. Read hustle hut if you feel overwelmed and just get back in the game head first. And remember, you can always leave if you want to!
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    OMG, don't feel bad. I've retired twice in my lifetime. It happens. I think the money and the excitement calls me back. Dancing is quick money, especially if you're stuggling in bills and dead broke. Thos 9-5 are nice, but boring...very boring. I am a college grad and currently in grad school. I don't see myself doing anything in politics , so its cool to dance for now. It's great money and my hours fit into my busy schedule. I get to spend more time with my family and I like the club atmoshpere. I also like my flexible hours and not having to report to some lame everyday. I hate when someone tells me what to do. Ask your spiritual leader for guidance and weigh out the pros and pros of the two. Maybe you can do both. Dance part time!
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    I think if I were to go back I would keep the day job and strip part time temporarily. I think.
    too blessed to be stressed

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    Default Re: Thinking of getting back in the game...

    Thanks for your replies girls,

    I guess you are right, keeping a part time job would definitely take some pressure off...anyways if I wanna start my business anytime soon and get myself out of financial struggle I better get real, hit the gym and put my stilletos back on asap.... I am thinking of going to nyc or maybe not... maybe Vegas ? Any suggestion ?

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