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    Default Um..A question about aggresive girls....

    Okay,

    First let me start off by saying last night was the NICE!!!!!! I had been making less than $100 for like the past 3 shifts and was getting pretty pissed and discouraged (I can only dance 1-2 nites a week also). I'm still not anywhere near caught up to my average even with that good night, though.

    Anyway....

    I had a VERY agressive woman follow me around my club for a good half hour last night. She was very butch (no thank you, ma'am) and I guess since I'm brown she thought I liked it when a person approaches me like s/he came straight out of a rap video. I told her I haven't been with women (I am very curious, but probably too picky and scared to meet a woman that I could bed.) and this seemed to encourage her more. I mean, this chick was like, "Yeah, yo. You need to let me holla atchu so I can show you how a bitch like me put it down, naiiimean?" (Insert gang-like hand motions here.)

    No, I don't know what you mean and I speak the King's English, thank you.


    Luckily, I got 2 VIPs back to back so I got to hide out for a while. How do you stay professional and get rid of aggressive women?
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    omfg.. hillarious...

    lmao at "insert gang-like hand motions here"

    oh my god, if some girl started doing that crap to me i would laugh at her. It would prob loose me the sale BUT OH WELL!

    You got two vip's back to back with her or with someone else?


    Say..... sorry I am kinda busy WORKING right now. You will have to catch up with me when you are ready to spend some money on dances.

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    Not to sound mean or evil, just practical.

    While I'm not a dancer, one idea I've seen used in other clubs for obnoxious guys is:

    Try to find a dancer or dancers who are willing to dance for the butch gal. If they do and she's happy then great.

    If no-one wants to dance for her or she still insists on bugging you:

    Ask the servers to ignore her and get a couple of dancers to report her to the bouncers. They can find ways to make her feel uncomfortable in the club and chase her away. Or just throw her out.


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    No, I got VIPs with 2 other custies. I don't have a problem dancing for anyone, I like dancing for women, but this girl was like trying to bed me....

    tampafldancer, it was hilarious but I would have preferred she not have been trying to kick game to ME...
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    There have been instances where you meet some chicks like this. When I am really drunk, I'm like yeah, yeah give me your number etc.... but it's not something I would do either, to be with a woman.

    Another time, I just said what you said too... that you have not been with a woman. And I also said that I don't want to be either. I have a friend that is a dancer at the club I work at and she is a lesbian .... but she is pretty and nice and has a good personality, wouldn't go out with her or be with her, but I would hang out with her. I'm pretty sure she knows I'm straight too. I just talk to her like any other person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by francescadubois
    (Insert gang-like hand motions here.)
    ...maybe its time to learn various other gang signs. Then you could pose and motion back with their rivals sign "Yo Biatch, dis my hood". Might work on a few guys too.
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    Crazy... well, if she's too agressive to use her attempts to get some attention from the custys, I'd just get a bouncer
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    Quote Originally Posted by WiseGuy_TX
    ...maybe its time to learn various other gang signs. Then you could pose and motion back with their rivals sign "Yo Biatch, dis my hood". Might work on a few guys too.



    Good idea!!
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    I've seen this, but then all the young guys are doing it around here. "Yo' dog, whas' up?" being more and more common as a greeting. It's the evil that MTV works, lol...

    Some of the women pick up on it too, and it's even less impressive than when the guys do it. I suppose they think it's masuline and attractive, or something.

    Just take it as a sort of a compliment, I suppose--like the gay guy who has offered the manager and myself (seperately) 1,000$ to go in VIP with him in the new club. It's disgusting, but since the manager is possibly the most blatantly lethal guy I have ever met, I'm not feeling like I look bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by francescadubois
    No, I got VIPs with 2 other custies. I don't have a problem dancing for anyone, I like dancing for women, but this girl was like trying to bed me....

    tampafldancer, it was hilarious but I would have preferred she not have been trying to kick game to ME...
    Heheh well those types of women are the type I like Anyways, thats another story. To help you though, just treat her like you do every male customer who tries to pick you up. Explain to her that just because she is a woman, the rules are not to be bended anymore so than they would for a male customer.

    Some women do get the impression that since we are both women, they should be ALLOWED to get a little bit more. WRONG, and I'm the one to set them straight!







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    I had a woman like that in our club the other day. It was ok since we were kinda busy, until she smacked me on my ass. I told her no matter what her sex was she could NOT touch me, then the bouncer had her leave. I find out later it was anther dancers sister and she new I was kinda into girls. I guess she thought she was being helpful. I'm not into gangsta girls that look like guys.


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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    Heheh well those types of women are the type I like Anyways, thats another story. To help you though, just treat her like you do every male customer who tries to pick you up. Explain to her that just because she is a woman, the rules are not to be bended anymore so than they would for a male customer.

    Some women do get the impression that since we are both women, they should be ALLOWED to get a little bit more. WRONG, and I'm the one to set them straight!

    ^^^Yeah, I'm definitely into femmes. But even if she was Rosario Dawson (yummy), and acting like that I still wouldn't have liked her. Entirely too aggressive for me.
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    Dude, J Lo is waaaay hotter!

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    Sounds like a thoroughly unattractive girl who came into my club the other night with her even uglier boyfriend. She kept squealing, "You're so HOT! You're so fuck-en HOT!" She bought a topless dance for herself and spent the whole dance stuffing ones into my underwear (and not paying attention, apparently, as there were a couple of tens in the mix as well, heh heh!). She got a dance for her boyfriend too. So as we were all talking, I asked her what she did for a living and she squealed, "I'm a WHORE! I'm a little whore! And you're a STRIPPER, so we have something in common!"

    Um, no, we don't, sugar. Not by a long shot.

    A minute later she asked, "So how much for you to go home with us?" I just smiled and said, "Actually, I'm NOT a whore!" There wouldn't have been enough money in the world to get me anywhere near those two... <shudder>

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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist
    Dude, J Lo is waaaay hotter!

    JLO is sexy, but I don't know, I guess I like girls who look similar to me: Light to golden brown ( Amerie, Rhianna, Persia White) Also, Jill Marie Jones, Nelly Furtado, Natalie Portman, etc.

    Okay, this is turning into a thread about girls that I DO wanna do....

    HEY! Let's do that...
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    You know who's hot, Laurence Fishburne's wife Gina Torres. She used to be on Xena and she's a baddie on Alias. Muy caliente'!

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    OOOH!! I just looked her up!! She is fucking delicious!!!
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