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    Hello..i was wondering whats the difference bewtween a low contact club and a high contact club. is there a MID contact club?

    what are the rules for low contact clubs, and high contact clubs?

    i am an aspiring dancer and was thinking bout working in more of a low contact club(thinking about my boyfriends feelings here..)

    thanks so much for any info!!!!!

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    From what I know...if you are looking for low contact, nude is the way to go. But then again it totally depends on where you are and what clubs you're looking into. Even if you find yourself in a high contact club, it doesn't mean you must do everything the rest of the girls are. Either way, if your man has any insecurities, this will NOT be good for your relationship.

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    I'll do my best to delineate, and others may disagree, but from my experience:

    Low contact = air dances, which means the customer can't touch you at all but you can likely touch him in a limitied capacity.

    Medium contact = the customer can touch you on the legs, back, and stomache area.

    High contact = the customer can touch your behind (the cheeks) and breasts.

    High mileage/extras = the customer can touch under your thong, you can touch his genitals, and any variation therein with any body part. Avoid these clubs at all cost, as you are putting your license and freedom in jeopardy.

    You can ask management which type of club they consider themselves, but it may not give you a fair assessment as they will likely plead innocent. You never really know until you work at the club for a bit and can observe the other dancer's behavior and what the customers are asking you for. You can be a low contact dancer in a medium or high contact club but you won't make any money.

    I've recently switched from high contact to medium contact and it's a veritable breeze in comparison.
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    A low-contact club by my definition is one where dances on the main floor do not involve grinding on a man's groin and where he cannot touch you.

    A medium-contact club has some grinding, and he can maybe touch you on your butt, legs, and arms, but not your boobs.

    A high-contact club is one where dances are nothing but grinding, where there is direct stimulation of the boner through the pants, i.e.. "stick-shifting" and rubbing it with your chin or face. He can grope you pretty freely, including your boobs but not between the legs (or maybe he can, and also put his mouth on your nipples).

    Just because dances are low or medium contact on the main floor doesn't mean there is not hard contact or more going on in the VIP rooms.

    Also, just because there is hard contact on the main floor doesn't mean there is anything going on beyond that within the club (like the GGR in New Jersey or Mons in Tampa).

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    ^^^I'm sorry, I didn't include the grind aspect. He's spot on, for the most part.
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    Actually, I'm a she. But thanks!

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    I can't think of any club in America where it's legal to give high contact lap dances. I'd stick with little to no contact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smartcookie
    Actually, I'm a she. But thanks!
    btw, love the new avatar. Borat needs to hit up a few SC's if there is a season 3.

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    I saw a pre-screening of the Borat movie! It kicks ass! It's even better than the show!

    We now return to your regularly scheduled topic...

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    Quote Originally Posted by smartcookie
    Actually, I'm a she. But thanks!
    Oops.

    My apologies, miss.
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    i work in a club where most of the girls just do the stick shifting. i do 5-10 seconds of contact and i do just as well as they do. i just dont see the point of high contact when you can make the same money doing less contact.


    its true i dont get as many champagne rooms though

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    My club is very very high contact. with lots of extras going on. I dont do what the others do but i also dont make the same money. what ever type of club you work in do what you feel safe with.

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    in some clubs you can make the same/more money offering less or no contact. in other clubs, you will go home with very little if you're not 'competitive'. you sometimes have to research clubs in your area and observe other dancers whenever possible. and being unique helps. girls who are the only blond in a club of brunettes, the only latina in a white club, etc, often don't have to provide contact because they are hot commodities in their clubs and always have a pool of customers willing to follow their rules re: dances.

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    Much like a lot of other things on this board trying to categorize what means low, medium or high contact is next to pointless because these definitions are subjective. They are also often relative to what goes on in one's area versus somewhere else. What would qualify as a "medium contact" dance in my state would probably go down as "high" relative to certain places, and "low" relative to others.

    Then there's the following word which seems pretty self explanatory to me, but apparently not everyone.
    Quote Originally Posted by someonesmiles
    Low contact = air dances, which means the customer can't touch you at all but you can likely touch him in a limitied capacity.
    I'd call that low contact, but not an air dance, as a true "air dance" IMHO would involve no contact at all by either party.

    I think this just exemplfies how some form of contact in lap dances has become the norm anymore, almost to the point where we look back on air dances like we do rotary dial telephones. What? They still have those?

    And while I can't speak for the phones, with respect to absolute zero contact dances...yes they do.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    i work day shift and the vip room is usually pretty empty, so i dont usually get to see other girls give their dances but today i saw! i had no idea any of these girls gave lapdances like that! i didnt even think it was legal! but now i know why alot of guys get mad grabby at first, but i just kinda let them down by telling them "i dont give dances quite like the other girls. im a good girl, and i like it that way" i know that i dont make as much money as the other girls, but then again i dont hustle half as hard as they do.
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    you know, honestly, when guys bust out to me with 'oh but susy lets me do this and that for blah amount of money', i'm like 'i am not susy, and i am worth x, just trust me'. you have to be secure enough in your dancing/seduction skills to make it work, but it is a good save for those types of situations.

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