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    Default Ok here lets be honest... What do you look for in a guy?

    This is a two part question..

    1. Phisical- At one time the range has been from supermacho Tom Selleck to Sensitive guys like Alan Alada of MASH to Boy toys that you find in some of the teen mags. We guys are confused heck even Woody Allen was on the list of desireable men.

    2. Mind- Women today seem to be drawn to guys who blow them off and often have hard personlitys. The nice guys like Alan Alada and Classy Guys like Roger Moore would noty stand a chance today with women dating guys that have the attudues of proffesion wretsters then suave sophiticated gentleman.

    As for myself anyone who want to date me I would have to question there sanity.
    I would rather be the nice guy because it is more healthy then walking around like a jerk with a chip on my shoulders. However I have been acused of being a jerk because my actions often have unintended cosiquinces though I thought they were good to begin with.

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    At work anyone who smells like money.

    Personal life its looks 1st personality 2nd....but even if someone is really hot then they HAVE to have a personality or it wont work. Looks can be anything I find attractive at the time; this changes often. Oh yea and it has to be a funny one ...no flat line personalities.
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    Mind over matter. I prefer braaaaaiiiinnnns.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Mind over matter. I prefer braaaaaiiiinnnns.
    Me, too. If a guy is smart and funny and interesting, he can be borderline in the looks department and I will find him adorable. Luckily, my boy is both fascinating and devestatingly handsome.

    Honestly, the second I hear a guy pull out the old chestnut about how women only like jerks and never want to date him because he is too much of a gentleman and treats women too well, I start tiptoeing in the other direction. This is almost invariably the mating call of men who are not only jerks but also manipulative, emotionally unsatisfiable, pencil-dicked mama's boys. Just so you know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
    Me, too. If a guy is smart and funny and interesting, he can be borderline in the looks department and I will find him adorable. Luckily, my boy is both fascinating and devestatingly handsome.

    Honestly, the second I hear a guy pull out the old chestnut about how women only like jerks and never want to date him because he is too much of a gentleman and treats women too well, I start tiptoeing in the other direction. This is almost invariably the mating call of men who are not only jerks but also manipulative, emotionally unsatisfiable, pencil-dicked mama's boys. Just so you know.
    Better to say "Stay away from women who like jerks" because they are certainly out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
    Me, too. If a guy is smart and funny and interesting, he can be borderline in the looks department and I will find him adorable. Luckily, my boy is both fascinating and devestatingly handsome.

    Honestly, the second I hear a guy pull out the old chestnut about how women only like jerks and never want to date him because he is too much of a gentleman and treats women too well, I start tiptoeing in the other direction. This is almost invariably the mating call of men who are not only jerks but also manipulative, emotionally unsatisfiable, pencil-dicked mama's boys. Just so you know.
    God I -hate- when men say that. It's like, "Y'know, I fucking like a guy with a SELF-ESTEEM that's not wallowing in his own pity that wants me to make him feel like a grown-up when he's a little boy."

    OH WOE IS ME THE GIRLS DONT LIKE A NICE BOY AND I CAN'T GET A DATE.

    Maybe you would if you'd stop talking about your problems for just one minute. u_u

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    I like girlie guys (pretty boys that look good and comb their hair) and he has to make me laugh AND laugh at my corny jokes.. My guy of nearly six years says he's my biggest fan, enough said.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
    Honestly, the second I hear a guy pull out the old chestnut about how women only like jerks and never want to date him because he is too much of a gentleman and treats women too well, I start tiptoeing in the other direction. This is almost invariably the mating call of men who are not only jerks but also manipulative, emotionally unsatisfiable, pencil-dicked mama's boys. Just so you know.
    http://www.heartless-bitches.com/ran...eguys/ng.shtml

    You're not alone. Claiming to be a nice guy is counterproductive, it simply means that they're whiny and too lazy to have actual qualifications.

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    Exactly! Those who whine about what "nice guys" they are, are in fact, assholes. (love that article, by the way. one of my favourites.)

    As for what I like in a partner...?

    The ability to spell properly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by someonesmiles
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    Now there's an honest answer--I like that...
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    Looks are a bonus not a requirement for me to be attracted to a man. The things that are top of my list are as followed.

    Stability both emotionally and financially.

    NO MACHO BULLSHIT !

    Compassion for others, loyalty and a good sense of humor.

    I am blessed to have found a man who has all those qualities and many more

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    I'm going to use this post to pimp out Warren Farrell, Ph.D's book "Why Men Are The Way They Are." A wonderfully logical deconstruction of how society molds the Male Image as well as the Female.
    Why? One will find a miserable life if they spend it trying to conform to someone else's standards. Be yourself and you'll find the right kind of mate....."everyone is different."

    (My post about SF guys has to do with my life experiences.)

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    I'm a Gemini so i'm shallow, lol. Looks matter to me on the first impression. I'm being honest. I'm like a dude who needs to see a hot girl so he can get in the mood more than emotional. I have NO problem with dropping a man with the quickness if he does me wrong. So no, I wont stick around bc of a pretty face & he's got a shitty attitude. Ain't happenin'.

    And of course a sweet personality, great sense of humor/easy going, and brains to go with the package. I want it all, hence why i'm so damn picky.

    Ah, my bf is everything I wanted in a man & i'm totally satisfied.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka
    the package.
    Could you be a little more specific about 'the package' please?

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    I don't give a shit what woman wants or needs. None of what they say make sense. Even if it does, what am I? Her slave or something? Don't I have my life and my values? Why won't somebody come to me and say Dan, what the fuck do you want buddy let me give it to you. No, that doesn't happen, does it? So why am I even interested in what she wants? Sex costs 40-50 dollars a session. How much am I ready to give for a piece of pussy?

    I'm mostly interested in what I want and the way my life will be 100% depends on what I want, not what everybody else wants from me, neither what she wants. I don't give a shit what she wants. If she aint' Ok with anything about me, she can go wherever the hell she wants I ain't keeping her and my door is always open.

    Once you stop looking for a new mother, had a bunch of "nice-guys breakups" and realise the price and value of sex you stop giving a shit about it and most importantly you stop overpaying for it financially, emotionally, and energetically.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lunchbox
    Could you be a little more specific about 'the package' please?
    Vyanka only dates UPS delivery guys. She has a thing for brown.

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    I HATE that whole whiny "nice guy" routine. They're really just whiney little brats who want to cling to your skirt! You need to find a nice balance. Brains are also very important, and a sense of humor!!
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lunchbox
    Could you be a little more specific about 'the package' please?
    I just said it. Okay i'll add more.

    To me it's someone who doesn't lie, bullshit like hell. Doesn't play games, and lets you know straight up what he wants. Doesn't disrespect me. Isn't a loser, doesn't have a criminal record. Doesn't abuse drugs, ppl, animals, and alcohol. Loves his family, has goals in life. Is a gentlemen, not because he has to be but because he is & it comes out naturally. Be yourself, don't be fake. Confidence is sexy(no matter who, that's just the hottest trait in a person). Sense of style(isn't important, but it's nice). Personal hygeine. Cares about his health. Did I mention smart too? Yeah, love someone who can carry a good conversation. And that I can learn from as well.

    If there's more, i'll add on to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John
    Vyanka only dates UPS delivery guys. She has a thing for brown.

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    I think Vyanka put it quite nicely
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Nothing, really. Although I know that sounds like I have no standards, what I really mean is I have no criteria. Just whatever gets me, gets me.
    I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth

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    I have always wondered why people simply state "He/She have to have a personality" when talking about what they look for in a partner. There are many different types of "personalitys" so what exactly is this supposed to mean Or even when people say "good personality" this could mean lots of different things to different people
    sorry just somthing I have always wondered

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John
    Vyanka only dates UPS delivery guys. She has a thing for brown.
    At least someone took the setup

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