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    topless dancer?

    Was talking to my boyfrienmd about stripping.,....he said he would be okay with me only being topless. i think thats okay, too.
    but whats the difference bewtween a nude and a topless bar?
    do u still get tips in your garter belt? do u still do lapdances? is there topless clubs without lapdances?? do u still make as much, or maybe a little less?
    does anyone here have any experiences in it?

    thank you SOOOOO much to anyone who cud give me some info. ill also do a search in the forums on topless dancing. thanks!!!!
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    Default Re: torn! would anyone lend a helping hand?

    What country do you live in?

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    Default Re: torn! would anyone lend a helping hand?

    u.s.a...moving to california soon. maybe in the l.a part. was wondering if there is any topless clubs with no lapdances..and if THERE is lapdances..then little to no contact?
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    Default Re: torn! would anyone lend a helping hand?

    You really want a club with lapdances. There are hardly any in the entire US with only a stage and it's depressing money. Lapdances are your main source of income. Don't depend on stage. I wouldn't go to california, it's bad money.

    And: Topless bars serve alcohol so you have to be 21. Nude doesn't so you can be 18. Other than a VERY few exceptions; this is pretty much law America-wide.

    You should always get tips in your garter belt. Advice: Put some money in there in the beginning of the night so it looks like you've already gotten tips. Money makes money.

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    Default Re: torn! would anyone lend a helping hand?

    oh..thanks but is there topless clubs with no contact lapdances?

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    Default Re: torn! would anyone lend a helping hand?

    Dear Windy,
    I personally couldn't do topless and the reason being in my own experience is the topless bar I auditioned at involves lapdances with grinding and some touching (allowed on the thighs, hips, butt & back) A customer wanted to go back in the VIP room for a lapdance and wanted touching, I just couldn't do it. Originally when I was researching everything prior to going into dancing I said that there was no way in hell I could or would do nude. Well, I'm now working in a nude bar that has strictly no touching at all. It's all airdances, tabledances and stage shows. The dancer is allowed to a very light minimal touch to the customer but the customer is not allowed to touch the dancer. I've heard, I don't know out of experience but I've heard that sometimes doing a grinding lapdance can cause a customer to cum in their pants. I know very pathetic that some loser can cum from a lapdance but it happens and you might really want to think about that. If you're really not ok with contact and you really want to dance, you might either want to reconsider a nude club and/or go with your boyfriend and visit all the clubs in your area or where you'd consider working at and finding out what goes on in the club. It would be a good idea to buy a couple dances from a dancer and ask her questions. Good luck!

    P.S. Working in a nude club is not at all what I thought it would be. It's so much easier than I ever thought. I honestly really don't feel nude when I'm dancing. I know it sounds weird but it's true. As long as I'm dancing, the nudeness doesn't bother me at all and you might actually like it too!

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    Default Re: torn! would anyone lend a helping hand?

    A typical nude club allows no contact. Dancers stand about 1-3 feet away or on a podium while they strip. Topless clubs are a different story.

    The rule of thumb is that the more you cover up, the more you have to do. If you work topless, you will be expected to grind (at least a little) and customers will be allowed to touch your legs, back, arms, and butt at the very least. You will put your boobs in a customer's face. I don't know of any topless clubs that are no contact. I heard there is one in Fargo, North Dakota. Unless you are willing to do the commute, I'd try nude.

    I work nude. I have worked topless. I find it strange that most topless dancers say that they would never work nude when all they wear is a thong! If they only knew that working nude has a lot less BS when it comes to contact and extras.

    The drawback of nude clubs is that most don't serve alcohol. This means that 18 year old high school boys can come in and watch you.

    Your boyfriend has 2 choices. Get over other men looking at your kitty or get over you grinding on other men's chubbies. But it's not up to him. It's up to you.

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