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    Default Did I get it all?...Did I really want it??

    Last night I was in the VIP room with this guy for 2 hours. I was with him on the floor before that, he was the first customer I approached and was totally enamored ( don't u love it when that happens?!!!) Anyway, he was a generally good guy but after about 6 beers he was getting really handsy and kept flickering his tongue at me like a damn pervert and telling me how good his tongue would feel blah blah blah...

    The good - I got 1000$ out of him
    I only worked 4 and a half hours.


    My problem- I can't help but think I could have gotten more but I was just fed up in dealing with him. At what point does your annoyance, gross factor, etc cause you to give up when you have a feeling you could make more money??

    Who knows, maybe my intuition was on and I knew that was all she wrote but honestly he probably would have in time spent more but I just couldn't deal. Ont he one hand I feel like bravo for doing what I wanted to do and feeling comfortable (and I did make very good $$$) but my stripper self says- girl you know you could have gotten him to go back, you failed as a hustler. People have been harder to deal with.


    I attribute this to 2 things. 1- I consumed NO alcohol whatsoever. I'm used to having a few drinks at work.
    2. -I'm getting married in less than a month and my mind isn't in it. My tolerance for what is acceptable is very low right now.

    I just need to regain my focus for tonite!

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    Default Re: Did I get it all?...Did I really want it??

    I think we all have that. I've gotten fed up with plenty of customers when I knew there was more money... THere's a point where the amount of money isn't worth feeling icky in the morning. I've had customers like that guy you're describing though... I would just excuse myself for the bathroom, and take a shot back there or just a breather from him for a bit to work my patience level back up.
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    Default Re: Did I get it all?...Did I really want it??

    there was this one guy yesterday who i was talking to yesterday, and i told him that i didnt give dances yet (total lie, but this guy was GROSS!!!) i said that cause it was only my third day in. i went up on stage, and came back down and he still wanted a dance after my whole shpiel, and it was pretty much looking like he was gonna stay until somebody gave him a dance, i saw other guys checking me out that looked like they wanted a dance so i gave horrible guy number 1 a dance and he left right after. and then i continued on my merry way. i know that i couldve gotten more dances out of him, but he kept saying he wanted to see me privately and crap, and he just smelled HORRIBLE, so i gave him a horrible dance and let him leave after just one. i think i couldve gotten more money out of him, but that meant id have to dance for him some more and no way! horrible guy #2 just kept trying to touch my boobs saying that if i wanted to make money id have to let him do that. i didnt give him any more dances. if youre "stripper-senses" are going off id obey them. you get that feeling for a reason.
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    Default Re: Did I get it all?...Did I really want it??

    There are all sorts of ways to make money. Some people deal drugs, some sell ice cream. Be who you are, and deal with the consequences of the decisions you make. So you could have gone back and maybe earned another $1000 or $10,000. Then what? If staying with him wasn't worth any of the potential outcomes you could forsee, then that's the choice you make. Maybe someone will make some competitive 'hustle' issue out of it. Is that important? Live your life the way you want to live it.

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    Default Re: Did I get it all?...Did I really want it??

    i kind of get how you're feeling, pure. my money has dropped by half or so since getting engaged. i just can't get myself into the proper frame of mind these days. i need to fix that soon, heh.

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    Default Re: Did I get it all?...Did I really want it??

    Sometimes no amount of money is worth dealing with some of this crap. I think you sometimes reach a point where you've had enough and if given any more you'll explode. Some people are very enjoyable to be around and you could spend all night with them and then there are others that just such the energy right out of you. I don't think by it makes you a bad stripper or a bad hustler, it makes you a human being. I also think you should give yourself a lot of credit for having boundaries because you know that money will come and go but the memory will last a lifetime.

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