^^my thoughts exactly. When all that happens maybe she'll realize its time to go. *flush*Originally Posted by tampafldancer





^^my thoughts exactly. When all that happens maybe she'll realize its time to go. *flush*Originally Posted by tampafldancer
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi
We should all face the facts, ladies. The biz, even the gentlemen's clubs, don't give a good goddamn about "class" and "sophistication" anymore. More dancers means more money in the owners' pockets. I used to work at the flagship club in my city, the world class premier gentlemen's club as well, for 2 1/2 years off and on, and the women they let dance there now are appalling. They ALSO had too many black girls at one point, and the crowd was changing into something I didn't want. It's just hard to find a good club to work at anymore...![]()
Originally Posted by francescadubois
It is not about color, it is about class. I know many black dancers that have it going on in comparison to other's.
OR she'll change the stakes by providing more or charging less in order to stay in the game.Originally Posted by tampafldancer
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too blessed to be stressed
It IS about class, but unfortunately, they were not hiring classy sisters. They were hiring the girls from the " 'round the way" clubs. And the truth is, you CAN'T have too many black/latin girls, because people equate that (albeit unfairly) with "ghetto"ness. I can't tell you how many times I will walk up to the whitest white guy, and he would try to talk "ghetto" to me. Hello? I don't speak that shit. But that is the American mindset and that's just how it is. I don't want to hijack the thread on the subject. I just wanted to point it out.Originally Posted by tampafldancer
^this thread's about fat bitches. let's leave it at that.
too blessed to be stressed
I don't mean to be a thread nazi...it's not even about veering off topic; that can be fun/informative at times. I'd just hate to see the thread deteriorate/get locked etc as it is already a touchy subject. sorry.
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too blessed to be stressed
^^^No harm done. It IS a touchy subject. Talk about weight AND race and someone's bound to get a little warm under the collar...
Welcome back, hope you had a great vacation! To answer your question..dayshift..however, I did not see her this week.Originally Posted by Lola Lee
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I must add this....
I have met many a dancer that SHOULD NOT have been dancing when she started. This was a club where it used to be mandatory that you had experience, and you HAD to make money to work there.. Then, the hiring process changed.. And yes, it has hurt our money.
But for all this, a few of the less than welcome dancers that actually stuck it out are now top dancers that look great and dance great.
When they started they were pulled aside and taught how to dance, how to dress (best dancer outfits for them) and really that they needed to get in gear with the toning up.
Thankfully these girls had the personality to keep it all up. I just ran into a few and although they are bigger girls than most (that's their body shape), they have toned up, have their hair and make-up done which way best fits them and CAN dance.
So, there is always hope. Unfortunately it might take a little while, and yes this hurts the club at first, but I am just happy to know that these girls really did care about how they looked and were perceived in the harsh club atmosphere.
Please don't lick me, it tickles..
Originally Posted by veteranprincess
That is a whole different type of offering. If men want extras from obese women then whatever... They prob wouldn't want me anyway.
Funny thing is men search for those type of chicks in the club thinking that will be JUST THE CASE.... Usually it is too. Management keeps them around too because they are decent earners.


IMO, as long as the not so good looking girls are balanced out by hott ones, it doesn't matter. and to be quite honest, the bigger ones where i work actually do a lot better than the ones more within the average weight range and skinny ones...yeah, some people leave the stage when they go up, but whatever...we don't make much money on stage...they seriously crank out the lapdances tho...it's insane to watch..i'm like...what is ur secret?! lol



This is mean..(Sorry If it offends anyone)
I had a friend who always hooked up with Larger women.. I asked him one day because he was a really attractive male "Why do you always hook up with fat girls." He told me "Fat girls will do anything and I mean anything..."
Over the years what he told me has been proven true over and over again in clubs at the bar or parties, low self esteem makes people easy to manipulate and when working in a SOB I have found they are easy targets to get to give extras.
It's good to hear about the bigger girls not giving extras and toning up and actually making it in a club full of toned beautiful women.
I wonder just how much bank you ladies are sayin these fat bitches be makin.
I used to work (at a call center) with this one girl who was a hell fuckin no, that said she danced quite a few times at a couple different clubs. Short than a mug. I'm talkin she said she is 4'11". She black (and ghetto). Why she told me one day she was 200 lbs. Wouldn't doubt that at all! Matter of fact, the other day, she said she weighs 215 lbs. OMFG.
She also has probably the fuckin hugest, enormous, abnormally, mutated big ass on earth. When I say big, I mean BIG. And for it to be on somebody so short, is ridiculous! I'm tellin you, one day Ima actually measure the width, height, and length of her ass and let ya'll know. Now don't go thinkin that all of her 215 lbs is in that ass. I will say that I think her ass probably weighs at least 75 of those lbs. No lie.
And she is no where near cute in the face. She also has a huge stomach, thighs, and arms.
I think she's part dwarf cuz her forearms are abnormally short for her arms. Hmm.
Anyways, she tells me (about a month ago) that she danced at a club on some Saturday night and made $400! I was like huh? Goddamn girl, you made how much? And then she said that that was a slow night!
Man fuck that shit. Even if she has hella hustlin skills, looks have GOT to be somewhere in the equation. I realize that the club she was at probably had guys that liked black chicks wit big asses, but stop it. Too much too much! Wow, I guess guys do like all kinda females.
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