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    need help with everything

    I work in at this club in a club where it is over populated with Military guys. Sounds easy huh? Not really! I feel like I can make more money or I Should be making more money. When I first started like 2 years ago I didn't have to hustle because I was the new Asian girl so guys just asked me for dances. And now I still really don't know how to hustle because I never had to. But now that i've been dancing for two years I feel like I should be making alot more money because I have 2 years experience. I'm not that kind of girl that can go from guy to guy and ask for a dance. Because I don't want to get regected and or i'm too shy. But i'm getting alittle better but i think that i could brush up on my hustling skills. Any advice would be greatly appriciated. I think i spelled that wrong?

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    After two years, you ought to have a thick enough skin. You will just have to accept that sometimes you will get rejected, and it's OK because it is all part of the game.

    Read through the Hustle Hut forum.

    Other than that, get some sales books. Try "Psychology of Selling" by Brian Tracy or "How to Close Every Sale" by Joe Gerard. Take them one chapter at a time and work through them.

    Take the next Dancer Wealth seminar or at least get the home study course.


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    One of my few dancer friends is similar to you (actually, two of them). Both are among the prettiest girls at my club- one is Indian, with hair almost to her butt, and very young looking, so she just sits at the bar and doesn't have to hustle to make money because she gets asked for dances by so many guys. It drives me crazy because, during the worst hours on a Tuesday (4-9) she'll make almost $400 giving less contact than any girl in my club, without approaching a single guy.

    The other girl is similar- so beautiftul, by far the prettiest black girl at our club, but though she used to never have to hustle and still doesn't need to (another bar sitter who just gets asked), she's been around for a while now and if it's a quiet night and none of the customers that favour her are around, she won't make money at all. I tell her "just go approach him! he's looking at you!" and still she's hesistant. I told her, it was easy at first because you're so pretty and you were new. Now they know you, so you have to sell it. I have to hustle every day to make money. It's not as hard as it seems. Make a game of it. Tell yourself- "I'll have a break and have a sit, or go to the changeroom after I get three 'no's", and then you have to ask at least three guys (sit and chat for a couple songs, follow advice in this forum for how to talk to them). Chances are, you'll be getting dances before you reach however many 'no's.

    I have trouble with motivating myself to stay at my shift longer than five hours, so I try to make these games. Good luck- it gets easier the more you do it, believe me. After a while, the words/sales convo just slips out of your mouth without much effort or thought.

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    military guys, gotta love them!! basically, you're gonna have to put up with them constantly talking with their battle buddies about military crap, and if you dont understand it, ask them to explain, some of it is actually interesting!
    there's a girl i work with who's husband is a general and she "borrows' his beret and has this ROCKIN' outfit made from bdu's that she wears with it. the guys go wild for the General! for her stage she'll make guys come up on stage and push. a lot of fun!
    you could try something like that, but pretty much just being friendly. they army guys around here know their being hustled, and generally dont like it. but some genuine friendly conversation works wonders.
    what i've noticed works really well is just sitting there talking to them and doing little things, fixing my garter, rubbing my legs really slow but keeping eye contact and still holding conversation, etc. after about 5ish minutes of that, they're ready for a private dance!

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    Default Re: need help with everything

    If you are just after what it takes to be a good salesperson (aka hustler) then just read this whole forum... go thru each and every post as even the ones you think don't apply to you .. sometimes one or two posts within them may give you some information or something that will be of value to you.


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