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    Okay, so I have this regular customer. I have had him for maybe five months or so... He comes in and hands me $50-$200... Talks to me for a bit, maybe gets a show, tells me how harmless he is and how he thinks we should go to Vegas (yea right dude)... Well, he told me the other day that if I ever needed help with money, to just call him because he's got plenty. My first reaction was to say "no, thank you though" and smile. Then he says "well, if you ever need ANY help paying bills or anything, just let me know". And I say "okay, thank you". But, now that I'm thinking about it... I'm wondering if I should say one day "I can't afford my _____ bill this month". What do you people think?
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    Hold on, I'm scanning and emailing you my gas card statement. If you don't want to take advantage, let him pay off my Cheveron card!

    Seriously, no strings??? Get the money!
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    I wouldnt do it., This is how some custys start trying to get you into an out of club relationship or activities.
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    As long as he's willing to give it no strings attached. But I question any guy who says how harmless he is, and how much money he has, plus he's already asked you to go on a trip Be careful.

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    ^ Lol, I know... like I'm going to hop in his car and drive across a DESERT with him!

    I'm thinking about taking him up on it... but i"m also kinda worried that it will speed up his expectations about seeing me outside of the club and shorten his shelf-life.
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    Not to bring this up again but this guy had a lot of money too.

    http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/1026053hull1.html

    And if he's got a lot of money to give a dancer, he's got a lot of money to sue her when he finds out that she isn't going to put out.

    When this happens, just remember what that creepy club owner from Showgirls said, "First I get you used to the money, then I make you swallow."
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    Hmm... the good old question. It really depends on you, but just remember nothing is free. I know girls that have accepted offered from money to shopping trips to vacations. Generally speaking, guys who do this want to get to know you on a more personal level and will start by asking for your mobile phone and then for dates outside the club. You may get some extra money, but you may be fending off multiple phone calls on your cell etc. I personally don't do it, because I believe in keeping my "work" inside the club and "not taking advantage of a customer". But plenty of girls accept this offer and have received much in return. It's a personal choice. But please becareful when giving out your personally information.

    An option is this. "I have some unexpected bills. (Fill in the blank.) Could I do some extra dances for you tonight to help me pay for it."

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    can i add just one bit of helpful info..

    DO NOT hand him your bills with your name on it, or personal info .. NOTHING. Just tell him how much the bill is., if he wants to see it ask him why he doesnt trust you etc etc.

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    Don't do it. It's not worth the ensuing drama.

    Once the guy thinks he's your savior, he'll feel the right to know more about you to 'take care of you'.

    I realized this problem I got hit with the SS about having trouble with bills, etc. I felt sorry for the gal but quickly realized: hey, once you help them out once, you feel responsible. Then the customer is caught either being an insensitive lout for not following up or the creepy stalker.

    Just tell him he's sweet for worrying, but if he wants to buy you some jewelry, you'd appreciate it.


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    Do it, just make sure the transaction takes place in the club. That way it is just another 'tip'.

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    Be very very very careful with it. Some guys are genuine and it really is no strings attached.., others well you can get yourself into some trouble. Start out with super small amounts here and there.... nothing to big to often and slowly work from there. Some guys just really enjoy spending money on hot girls. Also make sure its ALWAYS in the club.

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    There is a sex fettish out there called finanacial domination. He could be wanting something like that service. Since he rarely buys shows and tips generously, maybe look into this form of entertainment to see if it is up his alley. Try saying something like "you can't afford me". Nothing to demanding, but still enough to get a financial sub's juices flowing.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    Okay, so I have this regular customer. I have had him for maybe five months or so... He comes in and hands me $50-$200... Talks to me for a bit, maybe gets a show, tells me how harmless he is and how he thinks we should go to Vegas (yea right dude)... Well, he told me the other day that if I ever needed help with money, to just call him because he's got plenty. My first reaction was to say "no, thank you though" and smile. Then he says "well, if you ever need ANY help paying bills or anything, just let me know". And I say "okay, thank you". But, now that I'm thinking about it... I'm wondering if I should say one day "I can't afford my _____ bill this month". What do you people think?
    There's no reason to lie. Don't say you can't afford your electric bill unless you can't afford you electric bill. Chances are he wants to give you money - for a combination of the reasons given by others already - and doesnt really care whether you 'need' it or not. So you could probably just as easily say you want a new pair of shoes that costs $200.

    And of course don't let this morph into a situation where you are being pushed up against the boundaries of what you feel comfortable with....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    There is a sex fettish out there called finanacial domination. He could be wanting something like that service. Since he rarely buys shows and tips generously, maybe look into this form of entertainment to see if it is up his alley. Try saying something like "you can't afford me". Nothing to demanding, but still enough to get a financial sub's juices flowing.
    you make a good point.. been there.... i passed.

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    This is a tough situation. Who doesn't want to get taken care to some point? But nobody wants a stalker either. I have been contemplating on what to do with one of my good customers. He spent quite a bit of money on me and then wanted to take me shopping the next day. Fortunately I had to fly back home the next day so I had an honest excuse. Now he wants to fly me out to where he lives. I think I will just tell him to come back and see me in Vegas. I am too sketched out to take things outside of the club like that.

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    Dont do this. Get his money inside the club. If you bankrupt him there who cares. Dont open yourself to anything outside the doors.
    AmyLynne

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    I met a guy in a club Dec/05. The transmission went out on my truck in April/05. I mentioned to this guy that I needed a more reliable vehicle to travel in. Well... I went back to the state where I met him originally and he bought a '03 Denali and gave me the keys to it. Ok cool. To protect myself, I had him sign a written agreement. Then I went to B&N for one of those legal law forms books, had him sign another agreement before a notary public. In case anything janky, happened, my ass was covered.

    So, if any of you do decide to get with a customer for financial gains, get some paperwork to protect yourselves. I'll be damned if I get sued in court becuz some guy wanted to trick his dough off. I just mentioned it to him what I needed and he chimed right in for me to come to him and he would handle that, so I did.

    But let me add, this other broad who worked regularly at the club was salty. That was her loss becuz she never paid any attention to him. I worked at that club for 2 days total and got $1100 from him for the other 4 days I chose to not work.

    Sometimes it can be beneficial. Sometimes not.
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    do it! like someone says shelf life of regs can be short. dont however abuse it. if he balks say with "stipulations" forget it. if he hands you the money no questoins asked. you are extreamly lucky

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    Here is my theory on this. Chat with the guy and casually mention a few bills or that the club has been slow, but let him infer from your chatting that you could use the money.

    My wealthy regular always asks about money and tells me the same thing and he loves playing daddy.

    I went to the city with him one day before work (I have known him for awhile) I asked him if we could stop at the Sprint store so I could pay my phone bill. He went in with me and told me to put my money away that he got it.

    Now since he knows my cell phone carrier,(he obviously knows my name and phone number) when he is in town he puts money on my phone without me knowing. This has happened 3 months in a row.

    I have told him that I am not one to take advantage (I have this in writing) and wait for him to offer to give me money. I never ask so that he cannot come to me down the road and say I was playing him.

    Bella, if you get good at chatting about yourself and things you pay for, he may just come in the club and say, "Bella, here is money for your phone bill and car insurance."

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    Well, my take on the situation is that if a guy has to consistantly TELL YOU and reaffirm that he's "oh so harmless" then most likely he's actually just the opposite.

    Seems like the dude is trying to lure you into an "outside of the club" relationship. Don't get greedy - just keep taking the $50 to $200 he throws at you in the club. If that's not enough for him and he moves on then you know that he's looking for more than in club activities. There are PLENTY of other customers so be safe and be smart.

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    Thank you for all of your responses! I think that yea, I'll just mention some bills and see what happens.
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