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    Hi,

    I've been a lurker for a while, but now i have landed a job at an upmarket gentlemans club in england.

    Haven't had my first shift yet but a couple of things occured to me at the interview (which didnt require dancing/stripping btw)

    Talking to the manager, i asked him if my smoking would be a problem (have read previous threads - decided to not smoke at work neway). he replied "legal or illegal?"

    From the tone of his voice and the look, I'm worried that drug taking is common place in the club. I didnt think it would be because of the club's reputation. Now, I'm not planning to be a dancer that is high on shift, but will it mean the other girls/management will automaticallly have a gripe with me if i dont 'join in the fun'?

    More importantly, I have to do two songs in a stage set, 1 with clothes and 1 topless (not full nudity on stage). Checking out the club before my interview, one girl was talking bout how she didn't like her skirt. I'm not joking this thing was two scraps of lace (can't have been more than 3" length) tied around her waist. I can make taking off a costume last, but how am I meant to make taking off a bit of string last 2-3 minutes???

    Cheers for indulging me - website is the best thing eva btw.

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    Sorry, clarifying as realised i sounded silly b4.

    How am I supposed to make it look 'naughty' and sexily revealing something when, with wht im sposed to be wearing in the clothed song shows everything anyway

    Cheers

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    Default Re: newbie, new club, couple of drama-pls help!

    hi tikita

    i'm a newbie from england too, going to audition in the next few days

    can i ask you what club is this you auditioned at and in which city? i'm trying to collect info about clubs to hopefully pick a good one

    thank you!

    and let us know how your first shift went!!

    x

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    Okay first off.. no matter where you go you will always find girls who do some sort of drug. For the most part weed is the only major one you will come across. Its no big deal and usually girls are understanding if you dont want to smoke it, they figure more for them lol. So dont worry about that sort of thing. I mean hey... you could work at McDonalds and you will still have people getting high on break

    As for the stripping out of your clothes... watch the girls at your club and see how they do it... its not as hard as you think

    Good luck and congrats on da new job!

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    Yeah, it wasnt so much the drug taking that would bother me, its just its taken me quite a while to get clean. i can turn it down now, just thought anyone who didnt might have a hard time if it was commonplace

    Cheers for the reply, feel better now

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    You should be ok with the drug thing then. I don't drink or do drugs or even smoke cigarettes, and when girls find that out I have never had a problem with peer pressure or anything like that.
    As for the getting undressed thing, it takes a little practice to get used to. I will totally admit I am a klutz, and I have creative ways to not fall on my face while getting undressed. Most of the time I go slow and try and make it a little tease type thing. It works well for me.

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    There are ways of teasing with little scraps of fabric which work quite well, in time you will learn them all. It helps as Cally says to watch the girls at your club, or there are a few videos out there which you could check out at home. Beware the TV shows or certain movies which don't really show stripping as it's done in clubs, though this is more a problem with american television, I suspect.

    Relax and don't worry about it, guys love newbies--the whole 'innocent girl getting naughty' is a big kick for them. Whenever I work with newbies I actually talk them up for it, and it always gets a reaction.

    BTW, if that's you in that avatar, GL, you hardly appear to be a 'klutz', lol...
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    Okay actually the whole 'im a newbie' thing is a bad idea. Yes guys love newbies but they will also try and convince you that all girls give hand jobs or all girls grind all girls do this all girls do that. blah blah blah. Dont listen to them. Guys will try and take advantage of the newbie thing and its not cool. Just play it cool and you will be fine

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    Well, it always gets the guys attention, and whoever the newbie is onstage feels great--this is why I have always done it, and will continue to do so.

    Not that you don't have a very valid point--you sure do, but I always try to warn the newbies as part of the whole process.

    The way I look at it, they're going to get that whole scam anyways, and I'd rather they felt really great about dancing and start off in the right way as far as the stage is concerned, rather than being shy and intimidated--and they sure get the VIPs from it, too!

    The warnings I give them are sometimes helpful, sometimes not--you can't go overboard and scare them, or come off like some white knight idiot, but if you do it correctly, it usually helps.
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    I really wish my DJ didnt announce me as a newbie. I ended up landing one of the worse customers a girl could ask for because of it. When I came off stage he goes 'so this is your first day lets go for a dance'. I lasted 30 seconds with him before I slapped him and stormed out of the VIP. He was so grabby and going on about how all girls allow it. Little did he know I waitressed there first so I knew what went on in there.

    Im not trying to scare anyone away from starting. Im just saying that yes in some ways it may be obvious your new. Just watch other girls, and go for it. Dont say your new(though guys seem to smell it). Be confident but open to learning. Dont let any guy take advantage of it either. Im sure you will be fine. Good luck

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    The truth of the matter is, if this business were run correctly this sort of thing wouldn't be tolerated from customers.

    At the very least, someone (preferably an experienced dancer) needs to take the new ones aside and explain a few things--especially the kind of shit guys will pull on a newbie. I can try to explain, and usually it works to some extent, but it would be better if it came from a dancer.

    Sorry you had a problem with the asshole, but it's not going to stop me from making the stage thing an exciting and happy event for newbies, instead of a dreaded ordeal. Nothing works like guys showering her with money, and nothing brings them to the stage like announcing her the way I do.

    Maybe I should say "For those of you who are pervert assholes, I already warned her about you, so don't even try it!", lol...
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