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    About 6 months ago there was a thread listed "I like you". I thought it was interesting to read a lot of responses about how this makes the dancers feel. So I thought I'd share my experience when I had the occasion to say this.

    Well, I was in Vegas about 3 weeks ago and was at my favorite small club. I always find it interesting to watch dancers while the club is slow. There are about 6 dancers and 3 customers. I eat lunch, no one says a word, I drink a full beer and watch sports, not one dancer says a thing, and they just talk to themselves.

    Into my second beer a young Hispanic gal sees me alone and asked it I'd like company, which I said yes. We talked for a while and I asked her why she didn't come over earlier, and she says, "I'm uncomfortable approaching people". I own a business that involves sales, so we talk about how she could do better. Then I notice we've been sitting together about 45 min, having a nice time and think about she has not asked me if I'd like a dance. I'm ok without a dance but she hasn't made a dime yet. I was prepared to tip her anyway, but asked her about a dance to see what she'd say. She says sure all excited, we talk about this and she’s not comfortable asking for the dances. I make her practice asking before I'll go back for a dance. We had a very nice time.

    So after the dances she says, "I'm really glad I came over to meet you". I thought immediately of "I like you" from the thread and decided to say it and see her reaction. Now, I would never say this unless it was true, I wouldn’t just play a mind game and I don't mean anything more. So I say, "I'm glad you did too, I really like you".

    I expected her to be kind of shocked, nope. She looks at me, gives me the biggest hug, and then plants a big kiss. Made my day!

    Then she says she usually is nervous about approaching white guys. I just let it go, no more advise about qualifying your customers.

    Just thought I'd share,

    Rick

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    That sounds like a nice story. I hope the next time you're in Vegas you go and check that girl out again. Hopefully she has brushed up on the sales skills you suggested to her.







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    Keep up the good work Rick! One of my most favorite managers used to always say things like "you know, I really like you" and "You're very beautiful you know that?" I thought I was just his favorite but he sent out text messages to all the girls when nobody was coming in to dance and he'd be all "Have a beautiful day" and stuff like that. Too bad he either quit or got fired. It's so so important to be the most positive person you know and try to spread that energy to those that you think might need it. And lord do strippers need it. I would be satisfied If I never heard another "great ass" or "man...your eyes are amazing" and this is not just in the club but in life everywhere....

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    I always appreciate it when a customer says something to me like "You're a really cool girl" or "You have a great personality" or "You're really fun to talk to." It's a refreshing change from hearing "Hey sexy nice ass" and things like that all night. A sincere compliment goes a long way.
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    I have found the best compliments come after a show when mingling in the crowd. Especially if I get to have a conversation with a girl. They soon realise we are more than meat slabs to poke, prob and grab at! During the show it's all the same shit "show us your cock", "nice ass hot stuff" etc etc but after it's like, "wow, you are actually a really normal down to earth guy"!
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    Thats really nice to read! I bet the dancer feels more confidant about approaching people in future now because you were so cool too!!!
    Good on ya! (-:

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    Now I should look back and re-read the last thread "I like you". It seems it leaned towards the statement made the dancers uncomfortable. Kind of like hearing this made you feel the guy was more serious than he should be. Possibly the true meaning could be in the delivery.

    Rick

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    Very nice Rick. You brought back a very pleasant memory for me of the day I met my now retired ATF. She was always shy about asking for dances because English is her second language-the day we met we talked for two hours and she didn't ask me for a dance. She kept apologizing for her English and I kept telling her not to worry, she was doing fine. She told me how much she appreciated my patience with her English skills and I told her that she was a very sweet girl and it was well worth the effort. Of course I asked her for a dance-we did about ten- and I saw her nearly every week after that for over two years.
    Thanks for bringing back a pleasant memory.
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