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    Smiley What are the rules for dancers & customers in San Diego, Cali?

    Hi everyone....I'm Lavender & I'm new here & I have questions that I'm hoping someone can answer for me. I've been dancing in NM & WA for a few years now & I want to move to San Diego California, but I don't know what the rules are for the dancers to follow & what the customers are allowed to get away with & what will get them tossed out on their rears. Can someone please tell me these things & maybe what the scenes like out there....I'm hoping to make good money...hoping???

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    Default Re: What are the rules for dancers & customers in San Diego, Cali?

    Dont bother moving here. If someone told me how hard it was in this money armpit of SoCal I would have never moved here. But that is just my opinion.

    1st you need a license thats 165 cash at the san diego downtown police department. No club will let you tryout w/o one let alone speak to you for long.

    After that, the rules are as applies:
    *No touching with in 6ft of the customer (not even one-way)
    *fully clothed lap dances
    *no sheer clothing
    *have ass and boobies covered at all times while on the floor

    There are girls that break the rules and every city has that. There are vice here that go around and make sure you dont break the rules. They are allowed to ticket and/or arrest you.

    All in all welcome to SW do a search for "san diego" in club chat for more info on certain clubs.
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    Default Re: What are the rules for dancers & customers in San Diego, Cali?

    Wow....you make it sound like a dump...he he he! What are the dancers usually pulling in for the night?

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    Default Re: What are the rules for dancers & customers in San Diego, Cali?

    First it depends on the club and how you hustle here but on average a girl can make anywhere from 0 to 150 to 500+ and thats not every night. Of course some nights are better than others. Its a hard question to answer.

    Its not really a dump. The city is nice and has a bunch of things to do. But dancing wise sucks b/c there are so many rules that most customers arent fond of. We also have a large military community which comes in and out all the time. Sometimes they come in drones and others they are completely gone.
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    If San Diego has any money, they're not spending it in the nudie bars! As long as I've lived here, for 6 years that is, I just have not been able to make anything compared to the clubs I used to work at in LA! For a while, I was living here and driving back and forth to L A on weekends to work. That's how much the money here sucks! When a customer can get more satisfaction staying home watching a porn ,what do you think he's gonna opt for? Girlfriend, either stay where you are, or have a plan B, as far as money is concerned! Goodluck.

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    Tiger'sMIlk, do you strictly follow all the rules? Or do many girls at a decent club bend them? PM me if you want, but what's it like at the club you work at?

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    ok so im not a dancer but im married to one here in San Diego and she makes bank 500+ a day. I also DJ here so I see the deal. It is all about the club you work at. She has worked in SD and in LA the rules arent much different. The thing to rember is vegas is close so you will deal with that all the time. Dancing is all about how you work the crowd. SD has a ton of money you have to know how to work the tight ass customers that you will get. The trend lately is the good girls are getting the bank not the ones that break the rules. SD has a different crowd.

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    I dance at Cheetahs in San Diego and it's really popular and it follows the rules to a point. I have to wear two bottoms and a top but you can have see through tops, and in the back room where the dances are, you can sit and grind on guys, just no straddling. Guys can touch but only a small amount or at your consent... I love the club I make between 400-800 each night and thats cool with me since I've only worked there 2 months..
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    Default Re: What are the rules for dancers & customers in San Diego, Cali?

    I worked in San Diego for five years and will never go back. Talk about your corrupt police force and city council.

    You can make "bank" (I hate that phrase) at Cheetah's because in that club guys are allowed to stick their fingers up your pussy during lap dances. If you don't mind giving finger-bang dances, then yes, you will "make bank." All the other clubs, no way because they don't pay off the city council and police force. If you don't believe me, check out the indictments against that club and the city by the FBI. And did you ever wonder why that club is packed day and night and all the others are empty? Why, because their girls are so hot? I don't think so.

    The girls who claim to make $1,000s a night without doing dirty dances are full of shit.

    I'd get a waitress job, or else drive to Vegas to work a couple of weeks every month.

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    I also work at Cheetah's and Expose as well. You CAN make money here, but it's not consistant so you have to be good at saving because while one night you may do awesome, the next night (even weekends sometimes) you barely make anything. This is why I work at more than one club - if one starts getting kinda slow I can just go to the other one.
    The customers at Cheetah's definitely expect more and it is hard sometimes to obey the rules when your customer is pestering you because right across from you in the lap dance room another girl is getting fingered in plain view. Expose used to be pretty bad too but they've cleaned up their act so if you get caught touching a guy there or letting him touch you they will not hesitate to make you go home for the nght or suspend you. It's a give and take - there are pros and cons to every club here. Expose is cleaner, but its less money.
    The bottom line is that, yes, there is more money to be made in other cities, but you can definitely make enough money to be comfortable here as well.

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    I work at Hustler Club in SD. I do like it there, can make at least $300/6hour shift without hustling. And yes I am a clean dancer, at worst there is light contact, and hell no would I let a customer go any further. To clarify what TM said, no touching during a lap dance, and when you are topless onstage, stay 6 feet away from others.
    It's all in your attitude, really. You can make good $$$ here, just have a good presence and be a good hustler and you're good to go.
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