obviously you didnt meet them in the club. so where? was it a friend of a friend? in a bar?
and did they approach you, how did you start going ouit?
obviously you didnt meet them in the club. so where? was it a friend of a friend? in a bar?
and did they approach you, how did you start going ouit?



Match.com we barely e-mailed at all and just set up a time for us to have lunch. It was magic and now we're inseparable but to a non-disgusting point. I swear to god in a few years they'll write a little blurb on us and our matrimonial bliss.
I met my boyfriend of 3 years at a party I went to while I was in high school. I went with a bunch of my friends, and he was there with a bunch of his friends, and we started hanging out. It turns out we were going to the same high school, just had never seen each other at school before.
Take the road less traveled- just make sure you have a map.
I actually DID meet mine at the club. One of my good friends and I danced together, and my friend's husband worked the bar. Occasionally my friend's brother would come up and keep the hubby company (not watching the girls, just talking to the hubby). I met him, we chatted, and it's been a year now! It's great for me, because since he's pretty familiar with the environment, he understands that I don't dirty mix and that it's all a game. It works out great!





At a convention in Philly. We were both being RPArtGamerMovieNerdGeeks with mutual friends.
Aint we cute? I think we were scoping a hottie.... could be either gender, though... dont recall.
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Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."
Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."




i met my last boyfriend at the saddle ranch bar in west hollywood (tacky, i know). he was visiting from n.y. to see a U2 show.
i walked by him and his friend actually hit on me. it was an amusing approach so i stopped to talk. the friend was cute but i was really drawn to my ex-boyfriend, for reasons that i can no longer remember, heh. yeah, the problem with long distance relationships is that it takes at least twice as long to realize someone's a complete prick.
Carnival, he was a carnie... heh.. He begged me to play his game or his boss would fire him, then he tracked me down to ask me back to his game (for free of course).. I brought him a cherry pepsi and it will be 6 years at the end of this month.
Please don't lick me, it tickles..




aww, that's so cute!Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
my boyfriend and i have been friends for 6 years, and niether of us knew the other had mad feelings for the other untill a couple of months ago. weve been together for 6 months now
myspace...been 6 months now.
I met mine through my other job. He hired me on my first movie when I was a little set intern. Over two years now.
Met mine online on a chainmailling forum. We hadn't really talked on there at all because he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend so we didn't flirt at all or anything. Life went on and I shadowed the board for awhile. 2 years later I had split up with my boyfriend and 2 weeks later he was killed in a motorcycle accident so I was seriously fighting depression and SI and seeing a shrink for months after that.
Checked back on the chainmaille forum and looking through old posts and I start reading all the funny posts by this same guy that I had seen 2 years ago. He hadn't been on in nearly as long as I had so I e-mail him and ask if he's okay and how things are going and that we at the forum really missed his funny posts. Five minutes after sending it I get an e-mail back. During a second e-mail back he IM's me on AIM and we talked for hours online.
The e-mail was March 23rd. He flew down to see me from AZ to FL mid May for a week. I fell in love with him the 2nd day we were together. He moved in with me in mid June and we moved to SC this past January and have been perfect ever since. After a week or two of talking every night online I stopped seeing my shrink because he was so much better to talk to and didn't cost anything and I haven't been depressed even the slightest since we've started dating.
Happily Ever After
-=Phoenix
"I will let you down when you finally trust me, finally believe in me." -Three Days Grace
This cute freckle-faced redhead boy started working at the camera store where I got all my photo equipment when I was in school. Every time I came in he would drop everything he was doing to help me find whatever I needed and stare at me all nervous and wide-eyed while he rung me up. One day I was looking over my receipts from the store and noticed he'd been giving me a 20% discount on everything I'd bought in the last three months. I went back to the store and asked him out, and the rest is history. It's been almost three years now.![]()



Met my hubby in high school and thought he was a little dork! I was a Senior - he was a freshman. Ran into him again after he graduated and thought - DAMN, what a cute butt! I had just broken up with the biggest cheating loser ever and wanted to just party for a while. Hubby had quite a rep for partying, so I went after him...took about a week to get his attention. Of course, since I just wanted to party - no strings attached - he (who never dated a girl for more than 6 weeks) was professing his love after two weeks of dating...scared me silly, but I got used to it!
We've been married for 16 years this november!
My hubby for forever now, was a custy, the ONLY custy I have ever dated or met outside the club. As for the boyfriends before him, met a few at work (non dancing), one was a new neighbor, one was my best friends brother, one I grew up next too, one I met at the swimming pool in my old apt complex, one I met at a night club, one I met on the internet. Yeah, all pretty normal ways of meeting guys. Amazing were so "normal" huh.
Originally Posted by p7eter
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Why in the world do you want to know? Are you looking to pick up or date a stripper? Are you here trying to get tips on how to do it with success? If so, there is your first mistake because we are women first and foremost, not just dancers.
People should focus on the character of a person rather than their job title.
I met my boyfriend 5 years ago in a peotry class @ my high school
Aww, this is a nice thread. Its nice to hear about people living happily ever after![]()
I met the b/f through friends. Two of his best friends where dating two of my best friends and we all hung out together with a big group of people. It seemed as if the whole group was always at either his house or my house.
One wend i went to Ireland to visit friends. Its a bit of a long story but i ended up missing my flight, having to pay for a new one and a hotel fot that night, managing to get back home the next day. Unfortunatly he cost of the flight and hotel totally wiped me out and i found myself at the airport without even the £3.50 for the bus home. I was calling everyone and no one could come pick me up and he was the last person i called. He was my knight in shining armour and came and rescued me from the airport. That night i cooked him dinner to say thankyou and 4yrs later the rest is history.![]()
I met my fiancee at my job. He used to be my regular. He never spent more than $45, but he came in about every night I worked and was so cool, sweet, and sexy. He was honest and I knew he was different from the other zillion guys that ask me out. He never pressured me, and he never told me I was for a black chick. Only that I was beautiful. Meant so much to me the night he said it to me too. Couldn't be happier!
I found mine on myspace a couple of months ago. He fucking rocks!!!
I'm going by serious boyfriends:
*The first dumbass was at a frat party
*The second dumbass (who I was dating when I started to dance) at a dance club
*The third...not boyfriend, but kind of stretching my wings after the first two, I met when he was bouncing at a dance club.
*The fourth through Match.com (Best sex ever, I'm telling you girls, so don't know online dating
*The fifth through a college dating site (great bf, shitty after bf...doesn't quite qualify as dumbass #3 but he's getting there XP)
*The sixth stretching my wings again was through a chat site.
so, for me, I tend to go through the online stuff a lot because I go to dance clubs rarely considering what I do at work.



Originally Posted by Vaughn
Judging by the last 15 posts or so I think the point of this thread is exactly what it played out to be- exquisitely charming stories from our sometimes interesting sometimes ordinary slice of pie...
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Isn't this somewhat of a character showcase anyway? no one is discussing work really..Originally Posted by Vaughn





Well, considering we are women, we meet our SOs where any other women do: at work, parties, bars, restaurants, stores, school, social events/organizations, gyms, concerts, online, etc.
I met mine on yahoo personals. I had an extremely specific set of search criteria (uh, yes I know what I like) and only came up with 12 guys in my search results for all of Phoenix. He was the first one on the page AND the best-looking. I winked, he winked back. I paid the $20 for a membership so I could email him. He IMed me the next evening, we went for drinks that night. That was last June. I just moved in with him this month and we are moving to Seattle together this June.





The first time I saw my husband was in September 1992 when we were both backstage interviewing members of Pavement at a show in Austin. I was 16, and I thought he was hot. He was 25 and I would imagine wondered what a high school student was doing there. We were later formally introduced at a show at the Hole in the Wall and were acquaintances and friends for six years until finally, one night in August 1998, we went home together from that very same bar after a Velvet Underground hoot night. We took it verrry slowly (emotionally, not physically), had a wonderful courtship, and were married in March 2005 in Austin with Robyn Hitchcock officiating.
moral of the story here (not that it isn't what Oprah would tell you) is that if you do what you like you'll meet people you like . . . or you can find them on the internet.





Been a while since I had a bf but here ya go: (I'll spare you most of the details)
from most recent...
*myspace meet up
*aol x 2
*through friends at a party
*at my house; just a random meet up through a friend
*at my school; was also my first kiss
Dont have my bf's. I date ALOT more than I have relationships though.
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi
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