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    the daughter of the lady i train horses for wants to waitress at my club. she's a nice girl and we get along well, hang out occasionally, etc. But i'm not sure how i feel about her working with me.

    she lives on the same property as i do and knows all my personal info - i don't know her well enough to trust her to be discreet with this information.

    she asked me to see if they're hiring waitresses and i hate to lie to her and just say no, but i also don't want to risk customers finding out where i live.

    am i being too paranoid about this or is this a reasonable concern? is there a diplomatic way to handle the situation?

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    Are you comfortable with her enough to have a discussion in which you explicitly talk about the potential dangers of your job and the potential she has to mess up your job? If so, then you should have that talk and see what decision she makes. If you're not comfortable with that conversation (very understandable!) then you should trust your initial gut instinct and fudge that issue (say you don't know, that the turnaround is very slow, etc).

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