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    Default SF club with minimal customer contact where I can touch myself/play with toys?

    Hi ladies-

    I recently got hired at Little Darlings, and the manager basically told me to tone down my stage show- I can't even run my hands over my pussy! I'm not talking 'spreading' myself, because I find that to be in poor taste (ah how different everyone's definitions are of poor taste, eh?), but a sensuous running of hands up my legs, over my pussy, then back up my body...that should be okay, I believe..... I was told by the manager that in addition to the club feeling that such touching was in 'poor taste', that some of the other girls were made uncomfortable by it.

    I am not allowed to take dollar bills out of men's mouths with anything besides my hands, and playing with toys is *strictly* out of the question. I love their policy on private dances, though- the customers are NOT allowed to touch me unless I allow it- and then, there's not supposed to be any skin to skin contact after the bra comes off, and touching is to be kept to the legs/stomach area. Grinding is to be kept to a minimum: and I am loving that policy......but I also miss getting down and dirty on stage. (Or in a private show, I like playing with my toys at a distance- I just won't touch the client).

    Basically, I'm having trouble reconciling myself to the clubs entertainment policy.
    I enjoy playing with my accessories (believe it or not, I have a routine with my nice long black dress and strand of beads which is really classy and just plain fun!), and although the majority of my show is actually dancing, and not just simulating having sex with open air, I think that sometimes openly sexual (penetrating) maneuvers are fun- not to mention them bringing in good tips. I came to LDs because they were rated high by other dancers as far as 'minimal contact expected' goes, and because I'd been told the girls weren't that catty (which I'm finding to be not as true as I'd hoped)....are there laws in SF against using toys? Would there be another club where I'd be allowed to fully express myself on stage, but not be expected to do the dry hump during private dances? Yeah, I know LOL I'm not expecting too much, am I?
    Thanks so much all!!

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    You're asking for alot, especially these days! The best suggestion that I can come up with off the top of my head is the Lusty Lady. It's a peep show, so there's no contact. It is not run like the rest of the clubs in the City, or like your average strip club. The ladies there work on a wage and have the option to be union members. There is also what's called the "Private Pleasures" booth, where is like a one on one show. The customer pays extra to have private session and can talk to the entertainer and make requests for what she should do. Some requests require a larger tip than others. The entertainer has toys, etc to use during this time...

    Just a suggestion...

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    Quote Originally Posted by EndlessSky
    I came to LDs because they were rated high by other dancers as far as 'minimal contact expected' goes, and because I'd been told the girls weren't that catty (which I'm finding to be not as true as I'd hoped)
    I find if very amusing that dancers now consider two way contact with grinding "minimal".

    You can do shows exactly as you described at several places in Portland and around Oregon. It used to be in the strict realm of Lingerie Modeling, but toy shows have moved onto stage at some clubs here.

    Most clubs here only offer air dances, but you could probably do some grinding at the places that offer toy shows on stage as well.


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    Default Re: SF club with minimal customer contact where I can touch myself/play with toys?

    ::grins:: I *don't* want to grind! I agree that 'two way grinding' is pretty heavy stuff. (Hells, so is one way, usually). Crap- it's known as 'dry humping' for a reason. That's why I'm not into it. I have a husband at home with whom I can do the real thing, and actually *want* to touch.
    I am very happy doing air dances in private- but would love to do shows with toys on stage at the same time ::grins:: I'm kind of wierd, eh? Or maybe not so much- I guess I just like the tips that toy shows bring in, but just am not really down to have a great deal of contact with the customers in private.....I can imagine many other women feel the same. Too bad I'm not in Portland. I'll look around SF- there must be someplace for me. Thanks!

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    Default Re: SF club with minimal customer contact where I can touch myself/play with toys?

    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon
    You're asking for alot, especially these days! The best suggestion that I can come up with off the top of my head is the Lusty Lady. It's a peep show, so there's no contact. It is not run like the rest of the clubs in the City, or like your average strip club. The ladies there work on a wage and have the option to be union members. There is also what's called the "Private Pleasures" booth, where is like a one on one show. The customer pays extra to have private session and can talk to the entertainer and make requests for what she should do. Some requests require a larger tip than others. The entertainer has toys, etc to use during this time...

    Just a suggestion...
    I've been over there before...it feels pretty seedy, however, if it lets me do what I want, I can deal. I don't suppose you know how much the girls make over there, do you? Thanks for the advice!!!

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    Default Re: SF club with minimal customer contact where I can touch myself/play with toys?

    The Lusty would totally let you do that stuff in the private pleasures booth.

    Also, when I was on my way OUT of the Garden last summer, they began having girls do toy shows on stage -- and I know some girls did them privately, as well. Extras are common there but I worked there for a year and never did any and made money (though not as much as those who did, surely). The Roaring 20s supposedly is okay with it late at night, but I only worked there for a shift and wouldn't know much about it.

    Also, Centerfolds was supposed to open a sex stage -- meaning toy shows, I believe -- but I'm not sure what's happening with that right now. They've totally cracked down on any extras there.

    Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AutumnLeaves
    The Lusty would totally let you do that stuff in the private pleasures booth.

    Also, when I was on my way OUT of the Garden last summer, they began having girls do toy shows on stage -- and I know some girls did them privately, as well. Extras are common there but I worked there for a year and never did any and made money (though not as much as those who did, surely). The Roaring 20s supposedly is okay with it late at night, but I only worked there for a shift and wouldn't know much about it.

    Also, Centerfolds was supposed to open a sex stage -- meaning toy shows, I believe -- but I'm not sure what's happening with that right now. They've totally cracked down on any extras there.

    Good luck!
    They had done a total clean-up at Centerfold's; I was friends with the old GM...but with his departure (which was very recent), it will be interesting to see if these changes stay enforced. I had heard, though that under his management (I didn't work there when he was there), there were girl/girl shows and, I believe, toy shows. I don't know why I didn't remember that before!

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    Default Re: SF club with minimal customer contact where I can touch myself/play with toys?

    The new GM - steve - was my old manager and he's fabulous... i imagine he'll try and keep centerfolds clean, but then again, he looked the other way at the Garden, so maybe he will again...

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    They're already looking the other way there. The stuff being seen in the camera room @ centerfolds is out of control (they have cameras in every lapdance booth), which is why I'm not going back. They know whats going on, and STILL do nothing about it. I like Steve too, but I don't agree with what's going on there. Oh, and those shower shows are disgusting! They go too far.
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    Btw, endlesssky were you working with Dez @ LD's?
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    Default Re: SF club with minimal customer contact where I can touch myself/play with toys?

    Never seen a shower show... what's up with that?

    I personally think any toy show is too much for me -- but that's me! I know that we all have our own boudaries and comfort levels.

    My friend got fired from Centerfolds about a year ago for being "naughty," but that was under the old management. Another friend worked there (with Steve) and had the girls themselves tell her they didn't appreciate girls going too far in dances, etc.

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    That's such BS because they all go too far with dances. The majority of girls at Centerfolds do waaaay more in a lapdance than most of the girls that work at all the small clubs on Broadway. There's a few they don't allow to get away with it, but most do.
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    Lusty Lady peepshows. Peepshows sound more your thing.

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    yeah holy cow. i would look into more of private shows it seems that you would be making alot of money doing privates than working in clubs

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