Although still inchoate, I believe my junkie career has progressed to the point that a few emerging trends can be discerned. One is that virtually all of the SS to which I am subjected (particularly during and post-LD) revolves around some permutation of the "you're such a gentleman" idea. You know -- "such a pleasure to dance for you, after all the pigs today"; "you seem so genuine and gentle"; yada yada.
Such statements set the alarm bells to ringing, as they indicate that a) I am giving off white-knight vibe (they think I want to be described as a gentleman) and b) I didn't make them work as hard for their $ as others do (the "gentleman" statements being tantamount to an expression of thanks).
I think most of the misunderstanding (LOL) derives from the fact that I am not a groper. For a range of reasons, Dayzed does not seek to probe or pester the more sensitive anatomical areas of his stripper companions. Dancer-to-Dayzed contact, on the other hand? Yes, please. Bring it on. With extreme prejudice.
I have realized pretty quickly that there is no actual advantage to being viewed as a "gentleman" in a SC -- particularly given the possible degree to which the "gentleman' perception might relieve the strippers from any inclination to initiate higher mileage. So, getting to the point, finally -- any suggestions for breaking this pattern?
I have perused at length the Collected Works of the resident "maestros of mileage" -- you know, Mr._P, AggieEd, CP, and the like -- and have gathered that most dancers willing to go the extra mile will initiate such on their own. If this is true, the customer "persona" may not play as much a role (in mileage) as I am suggesting. It could be that I just haven't found the right dancer yet, particularly in Denver, which seems to pretty much be a mid-mileage town.
On the other hand, to the degree that the customer must be clear about what he wants, I admit to being hesitant to explicitly request, for fear of getting the stripper-clog upside the head. Are there more subtle methods that the mileage-hounds employ?



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... I wonder exactly how much hotter these hot dances actually become, when the stripper is rewarding the well-behaved PL for his gentlemanly behavior. When leaving the LD area, must the gentleman walk or run to the nearest bathroom?


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