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    hiya

    worked my first shift least night.

    there was a guy who was continually buying dances form me, but between them he kept going on about how he wouldnt 'disturb me' he didnt speak much english but kept saying he would take me shopping and to dinner etc

    i dont know how to keep conversation going when im turning him down every 5 minutes. i didnt want to walk away cos i made most of my money from the night from this one guy.

    how do you girls keep going when you have to deal with this?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tikita_lew
    hiya

    worked my first shift least night.

    there was a guy who was continually buying dances form me, but between them he kept going on about how he wouldnt 'disturb me' he didnt speak much english but kept saying he would take me shopping and to dinner etc

    i dont know how to keep conversation going when im turning him down every 5 minutes. i didnt want to walk away cos i made most of my money from the night from this one guy.

    how do you girls keep going when you have to deal with this?

    thanks
    tikita xx
    Master the art of saying no, but making it seem like you are maybe about to change your mind and the art of changing the subject. I never tell customers I'll go out with them, but I don't worry anymore about convincing guys I won't go out with them when they don't want to be convinced. I say no, then when they ask again, I say no again, and we can go on like that for hours.

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    If he kept buying dances and carrying on, it sounds like whatever you did was working.

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    I usually just keep smiling and winking at them and many times pretend I don't hear them. Sometimes I'll change the subject or say "oh, I don't know, maybe some time, we'll see, blah, blah, blah... Sometimes I'll say, "well, I have to really get to know you first, let's go back in the VIP room so we can get better aquainted". Now I have absolutely no intention whatsoever of going out with him but he doesn't know that and if it get's me $250 for an hour and if he keeps coming in the club,then hey, his problem,not mine but I never did promise him or say that I would go out with him, I just said I wanted to get to know him better. Try that, see if that works.

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    My answer when a customer is asking me whether I'll go anywhere at all out of the club is always something like, "I've had friends who have had really bad experiences meeting outside the club because some guys are really dangerous. You seem really nice, but I'd have to get to know you and get a feel for you before I'd consider anything like that". It's a way of saying no but not saying no. It also can lead to dances, like leogirl said above about pushing VIP or dances at all. You can tell him if you spend personal time there at the club you may begin to feel more comfortable around him.

    I would never tell someone you are going to hang out with them if you are not planning on it. A dancer at my club did this, and gave a fake phone number, which I can admit I had done when I first started. Later that night, this customer and his friends waited for her to leave the club and shot at her when she was going to her car on a really busy and well policed street! You never know what kind of person your messing with, so it's better to mess with them as little as possible in less you really have your hustle down.

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    i get really sick of being asked out and having to say no, but keep the fantasy going. men don't come in to feel rejected like they do outside the club, so why make it hard and badger us for our numbers, or giving us theirs? these are good tips. if anyone has any more please post them. this is my number 1 frustration at work.

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    I also try to play up the dumb blonde act. As I said in another post I'll put this big smile on my face, flip my hair around, bob my head around while smiling and say "I don't know, maybe some time and then smile big and giggle." I NEVER make any promises, I only play that act if it's someone who's spending lots of money on me. If it's some guy that I know doesn't have any money that's asking me how much for a whole night, I'll flat out tell them that I don't do that but if it's someone who's coming in and spending lots of money on me, I'll just play up the dumb blonde act and say maybe sometime, I really like to take things slow and really get to know someone first, so we'll see, blah, blah, blah!!!

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    I have a system .. usually it doesn't go past the first rejection: Please forgive me as I really do not know you well enough to meet you outside of the club.

    If they still pester then I move onto "I'm busy enough with my friends, family and my own life that I won't have time to meet you outside of the club."

    If they are still persistant I will just keep repeating about how busy I am and that the best way to get to know me is within the club. I've only ever dated one customer outside the club yet that was under expectional circumstances... so there really is no hope for anyone to date me outside of work.


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    I was traveling on business and, bored in my hotel room, decided to visit a nearby club. Was fortunate enough to quickly find a terrific girl to spend most of the evening with, and we both got pretty drunk (at least I assume she was also drunk...hmmm).

    Anyway, as the club was closing, I found that I'd lost enough of my grip on reality and sense of perspective to invite her back to my hotel to, uh, "continue partying" (oh god that's so lame!). I'll never forget her response:

    "I can't -- I'd be naauughty," said in the cutest little voice you could imagine.

    Even drunk, I recognized this as Grade-A Premium Stripper Shit and just about the perfect counter-hustle to my proposition. It was soooo cute, I had to get a couple more dances.

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