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    Quote Originally Posted by pipermarau
    "i REALLY need a boob job *lowers shirt to expose really deflated depressed boobs* so every dance you get from me helps me save for my new titties *shows a picture of what she had in mind*"

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    A girl at my bar is doing a version of this.

    She starts with a $5 in her bra. THen she asks guys to donate to her boob-job fund. It works.


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    Thanks Girls! I appreciate all the advice. I think a new outfit is in order. I wear the same skirtS over & over again. They look hot, but it is time for a new look I think. I also just gotta remember that it IS summer...haha. XOXO ~Jamie

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    I think men really can smell the desperation...
    Well, it only makes sense, we can certainly smell it on them

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    i'm sorry hon. i wish i had advice, but i don't. it's been so slow right now. i work 3 dayshifts a week and normally make 500. or more in those 3 days. the last few weeks i've made about 350. each week. i know summers are slow, but this is ridiculous.

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    It's not summer here.

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    Also. I got a new haircut and did abysmally that day. I got new jewelry to be shiny, I wore a different outfit.

    And I don't need new scenery. I've only been in the HEMISPHERE 3 months. Nothing like changing scenery big time already.

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    Is it possible your psyching yourself out and going in to work convinced that you're going to suck? I've gone through phases of this...it's called a rut and it's hell to get out of. However, once you're out of it, everything goes back to normal.

    So you'd already tried the quick and easy solution of changing your hair and buying accessories. Hmmm...maybe take a few days off to rest completely and hit your psychic reset button?

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    A general comment I'd make on this board is that dancers are sometimes not good at seeing the customers point of view.

    A lot of guys see dancers as a stereotype - turned on by being nude, might just date customers, etc. Cos they want to believe the stereotype, they treat you just like it.

    I think a lot of girls also see customers as a stereotype - tell you you've got nice t*ts, more interested in your t*ts than you as a person, after your phone number, etc. Again, I think girls get conditioned to treating everyone like the stereotypical customer.

    It's understandable in a way. All your conversation in the club will be with girls who've just had the customer from hell - so they tell you about their stereotypical customer. All your conversations with customers will be with the aim of avoiding personal questions, so probably you get used to treating customers in a "standardised" impersonal way. You get conditioned into the "dancer" mindset.

    I think you've got to take a step back and try and see yuorselves through a nice customer's eyes. What do we want?

    (a) We want to escape from the real world into a dream one for an hour or two.

    (b) We want to see pretty ladies naked as part of said dream world.

    (c) Although we realise that you're not really interested in us outside of the club, we'd like to think you are interested enough in us inside the club to pay atention to what we say and respond accordingly. We especially like it if you remember our name and use it from time to time.

    (d) We'd like to think that although you're not necessarily attracted to us, you might at least find we're a pleasant person.

    (e) We'd like to think although you're not necessarily turned on by dancing for us, we're nice enough that it's fun for you in a light hearted way.

    (f) We'd like to think if we turn up in the club again, you'll remember us cos we're a nice person.

    So ladies: look at things through a customer's eyes and say: "am I the sort of dancer that behaves in a way that would make a customer like me?"

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    Lillith, Melbourne isn't the solution right now believe me. I did Melbourne through the winter. It's damn cold in Melbourne and generally due to the colder weather less is happening and thus less patrons in the clubs... yet the same if not more dancers are working or doing more shifts due to the less money. Everywhere is generally not so great.

    This is why from now on I'm going to start doing the Skimpy work during the winter. Yes it costs me around $1000 to do a three week trip ($600 return airfare perth/brisbane incl. any nights I have to pay for accommodation plus meal and other sundry expenses) yet you can easily make that back if you work for 40 hours in one week.. therefore any tips you receive are pure profit. It can be hard work and a little boring/montomeous (sp?) since all you are doing is pulling beer each shift .... and you are "on your feet" for the 5-6 hours you are working each shift (plus sometimes the patrons aren't so nice)....

    Unfortunately, it is pretty much the same everywhere in the country (Australia) right now. It is colder and people don't want to go out so much. This is where saving your dollars when you have good shifts helps.


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    it's the way the business seems to be going. it's cos us girls (not specifically dancers) have embraced our sexuality so why would men bother paying to see something when he can screw someone similar from a local bar? damn cosmo - i blame them for our promiscuity!

    plus you can get porn really really easily now.

    some of the girls i work with say they were making 3 times what they do now 5 years ago because of the changes in society

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    So Western, ny is not the only place doing bad,huh? i can't take it anymore. this is not a regular job for us. we are taking our clothes off to have some nasty guy touch us everywhere (even the places hes not suppose to) for next to nothing. thnk god i'm not alone!

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    That thing about the desperation is what Im going with! I have until the 21st to save up $9525, of which I had 4500 and had to spend on a true emergency. I have a DWI court date on the 26th and will have to fork over for a lawyer and fines at least $2000 (im sure it will be more). I have been making less the last few weeks than in my whole time dancing! I made 135 one recent sunday and just felt like giving up. Lately its hard for me to hit frikin 400! I am in awe, it's like everyone knows how bad I need the money, when it's all ove and I dont need it as bad Im sure I will go bk to my 1000 nights, my luck sucks!!! Anyways, lets smile and go to work like we dont have a care in the world right?

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