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    Lapdances- shoes on or off?

    Tonight I checked out the club that I am interested in working at. When I got a lapdance, the girl took her shoes off to do it. Is that normal? Is it easier to give a lapdance without your shoes on?

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    Some girls do that. I don't like it. I think it's tacky. Part of being a stripper is that we always have our sexy heels on! My feet STINK when I wear shoes, so there's no way in hell my shoes are coming off. But even if your feet don't smell, it's just tacky and rude to give a lapdance barefoot. Just my humble opinion.

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    Default Re: Lapdances- shoes on or off?

    the only time i've ever done it is when my shoes broke. i don't like it otherwise. we're not even supposed to do it at all at my club, but i know some girls who do.

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    Default Re: Lapdances- shoes on or off?

    yeah i totally agree, stinky feet doesnt really fuel a fantasy. the girl said she was kinda klutsy or something, but still.

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    If she's such a klutz that she can't give a lapdance in heels, then she shouldn't be stripping yet. She should practice on those heels first. Did she kick them off onstage, too?

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    Default Re: Lapdances- shoes on or off?

    hmm, no she didn't kick them off when she was onstage, but she didn't really dance either, she just kinda strutted around and tried to flirt with customers, so maybe she hadn't mastered her shoe skills yet.

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    When im in the back for longer then like 5 songs and im wearing shoes(I usually wear boots) I will kick my shoes off. Gives the guy more of an intimate feeling. I've actually had lots of customers compliment me for doing it. Plus the foot fetish guys LOVE it lol they get to look at yer pretty tootsies. Though I probably wouldnt do it in a classier club unless the customer asked me to.

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    A lot of girls do it at my club. IMO I think it's tacky. Plus I think about gross stuff on the floor i.e. puke, drinks, dirt, bacteria, etc. Also, the ring worm/athlete's foot deal. Yuck.
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    We aren't technically allowed to be barefoot, we can be shoeless at my club if we have on stockings etc.

    Believe it or not, I carry a pair of lacy ruffle socks in my money bag/purse. I HAVE to take my shoes off during a lapdance, my legs are waayyyyy too long to have the added drama of 6 3/4 heels!
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    Except for really tall girls like Jayda, there isn't really an excuse for going barefoot. Aside from the inevitable grossness of the floor (I don't care how often they clean it, it is a BAR!) there's the fact that you look shorter and heavier without your shoes. I wear 8 inch stillettos and I can RUN in those shoes. It's a tool of the trade, a succsessful dancer needs to be comfy enough in her outfits and shoes that they are functional.

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    Default Re: Lapdances- shoes on or off?

    There often seems to be a differing etiquette at different clubs regarding this. Dances here are done in chairs so most gals tend to keep them on. Some places where I've gone that had couches, the gals were more inclined to take them off. Personally I prefer on.

    I say if she has the option, a really smart dancer would ask the customer which he would prefer.
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    ^^^^^^^^ *giggles*
    Not that what you said was silly or anything, for some reason I just got this image of a sexpot bending over and whipering in a phone-sex kind of voice "Want me to take my shoes off?" LOL

    I agree though, there is kind of different ettiquette depending on what club you are in.

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    never take your shoes off... its filthy and unattractive.. i don't know where these clubs are located at that you're allowed to actually take your shoes off in the middle of the club... now vip or champagne rooms, thats a different story.... how weird...

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    Like Yek, I have fairly foul smelling feet. So. Shoes stay on; if there is a customer who really likes the foot odor (we've all met them) I will take them off only if nobody else is anywhere close to me.
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    Here's one big vote for shoes OFF during a LD. (Not on the floor, that does seem strange.)

    IMO it's the stripper shoes that are tacky, not the bare feet!

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    I think it's absolutely disgusting...between the smell and unsanitary stuff, it just looks "trailer park" to me. There's a girl on my shift that does this regularly on the floor...sooo not cute! We serve food, guys are eating, and she's sticking her big, floppy, smelly feet in the air...

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    Default Re: Lapdances- shoes on or off?

    well, just goes to show, different strokes for different folks. I think bare feet are sexy

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    I think bare feet are sexy too, and I'm always barefoot or in sandals when I'm OTC. Hell, I've been known to go out to eat barefoot before, and I'm a huge fan of barefoot hiking. But I think that stripper shoes should stay on in the strip club. It's just the nature of the environment.

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    Okay so many of you are just jumping in saying 'its tacky because your feet touch the floor'. Not ALWAYS do your feet touch the floor. One club I work at its couch dances, i'll sit down next to the guy kick my shoes off and throw my legs over his lap. They love it because it adds that extra intimacy feel. If at any time my feet hit the floor my shoes go on first because god knows whats on that floor lol. So yes if you have to stand over a guy its gross to have your shoes off but if your on his lap and the guy is all for the idea go for it. Just always say 'so baby you mind if I take my shoes off? It helps me feel more comfortable while dancing for you'

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    Default Re: Lapdances- shoes on or off?

    when it was my first night ( a while ago) some of the girls that were teaching me stuff told me to never take them off or else i would get in trouble and we also had to have one foot on the ground at all times? is that wierd? but no one follows that rule unless someone comes in the VIP area to check on everyone.

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    The one foot on the ground thing(or even two some places) is a common rule in a lot of states apparently. I guess its to prevent the dances from being to high mileage? I dont know lol.

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    i met one guy with a foot fetish who asked me to take them off. ive seen one other girl take her shoes off, but thats cause the move she does would probably make a hole in the wall. wearing those shoes all day, my feet end up hurting after i take the shoes off, not when theyre on. so i keep them on.
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    Default Re: Lapdances- shoes on or off?

    A lot of girls take their shoes off at my club when giving couch dances. It's actually easier to manuever this way. I don't take my shoes off very often because I don't want my feet touching the floor. It does seem a little unsanitary. But some customers do like it, and if I'm with a regular who spends $$ and prefers me barefoot then I don't have a problem taking my heels off.

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    I worked at a club in NC that we HAD to take off our shoes to give couch dances, it was the club rule. Never on the floor, but in the couch room we would get in so much trouble for keeping our shoes on. I never understood it, but I sure as hell wasn't going to be the girl to ask why the hell we had to take off our shoes.

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    This really varies from club to club; as someone else said, in some clubs you need to take them off for couch dances. But if you're in a dive with questionable carpeting and you do your dances on the floor it's best to keep them on. I don't think it's bad to take them off during a VIP or really extended dance session if your feet are pretty and smell nice . . . it's a judgement call. However, if you are going to take them off, make sure you have a nice pedicure and that you aren't dancing on a surface that will quickly give you totally unattractive dirty black soles.

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