I havent been dancing for long, but lately I have been getting more and more annoyed with people wanting (demanding) to give me their 'advice'.
Usually I would appreciate this sort of thing, but these people are pulling me off to the side to have 10 minute conversations with me about the same old shit (smile, talk to the customers, blah blah blah the most obvious, common sense stuff!). Many times they have done this WHILE I was in the middle of talking to a customer!
I wouldnt even mind so much if it were the dancers themselves advising me- but I'm getting all this from the MALE employees!
There is one DJ/Bouncer that I swear thinks he would be the worlds greatest dancer if only he were born with a vagina. I fucking hate this guy. He is constantly pulling me away from customers or making me late for my stage set by going on and on and on about the most obvious shit. He is one of those people that love to hear themselves talk, and can have a 10 minute conversation without the other person saying a word.
There is another bouncer who does the same thing, but the first one is just ridiculous. My last shift he did something which I found wildly ridiculous- what do you guys think of this:
I was giving a LD to a customer, and finished. On my way up to give the bouncer his (the clubs) cut, he came over into the LD area and told my customer to sit back down. The customer began to protest but he literally pushed his shoulder and said 'nah nah sit back down'. Then he proceeded to sit on the couch next to us and COACH me through a lap dance!!
He was actually saying shit like- 'now put your legs over him like that, go slower, no raise up, touch his head etc.'
!!!!!
Afterwards the customer was obviously freaked out by the experience (who the fuck wants a huge bouncer sitting right next to them during a dance?) and left soon afterwards.
At first, I thought he was just trying to help me out by getting me another dance. But then he didnt even charge the guy for the second dance, so I didnt get paid! I can understand not charging the customer for such a WEIRD and UNCOMFORTABLE experience, but I still did two dances. And the fact that he wasnt trying to be sly and make me more $$ makes it even more baffeling as to why he would do such a thing!
This guy is SO pushy, I didnt even have a chance to get out of this little instruction session. I am getting really sick of this shit. As if all that werent enough, I was actually up after the girl who was on stage at the time, which would have been ok if I had given one dance as I intended, but this second dance made me VERY late getting back on stage, and there was a long, awkward silence in the club until I could get my ass up there.
What an ass!![]()



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