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    How do you ladies feel about custys complimenting you? When I go to the club lately I'm usually frustrated and overwhelmed (bad girlfriend right now) and I kind of give you the attention I'd usually lavish on a SO. I use my voice for one of my jobs and I do sound too smooth and practiced when I talk, but I really do mean it when I tell them all about how beautiful they are.

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    It's nice to hear, really, but we don't take it seriously.

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    Default Re: Complimenting the girls

    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    It's nice to hear, really, but we don't take it seriously.
    Ah, it's all part of the experience for me.

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    Keep the compliments coming. They hardly ever get old!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon
    Keep the compliments coming. They hardly ever get old!
    You really are cute, though. Adorable. That smile just melts my heart. I want to learn more Barry White songs and I'll sing you one after I buy two dances. (I actually do a few bars of "Can't get enough of your love, baby" after that)

    Yeah, I'm full of crap but I know I'm not a boring custy. My club has been pretty much dead the last few times I went, and I really like (who can blame me?) a cheerful dancer instead of one who's down because she's only gotten stage tips all night.

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    for some reason a lot of customers who compliment me then apologize for it. i can't imagine why. you should never feel bad about telling a girl she's beautiful, smart, etc.

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    Money is a compliment..
    Whenever I am chosen for a dance, I feel complimented, he he...
    I LOVE compliments.. I am vain and like to know that everyone else thinks I am perfect too.. he he
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    Well, that's good to know. I'll hold back on the singing, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
    Money is a compliment..
    Absolutely! That's the best kind! But if you really feel the need to spout off how beautiful I am or what a great ass I have, PLEASE don't follow up with "but I bet you hear that all the time." That gets really old.

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    I had a funny convo with a gal yesterday, she said her friend always gets compliments on her face, eyes, etc. so it makes her feel like she doesn't have a good body... and she always gets complimented on her butt so it makes her feel like she doesnt have nice boobs, etc....

    Me: so when you receive a compliment about one thing about you, you take it as an insult about every other thing about you?

    Her: yes.


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    I love it. One of the best parts of being a stripper is being told several times a night how beautiful I am. A lady can never hear it enough, LOL!

    Although there's a world of difference between "you have lovely eyes" and "hey mama, nice ass!" A bunch of Mexican guys kept calling me Mama late last night and I finally snapped back, "No soy su mama!" I expected it to piss them off but for some reason they loved it. Go figure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    "No soy su mama!" .
    You dont give any soy to your Mama? Its a very healthy food product, you know.


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    I don't like getting compliments unless the guy is getting a dance, tipping me at stage, or handing me $$ while saying it. If you don't intend to spend any $ on the girl don't compliment her. This is one of my biggest pet peeves at work. Guys will say "You are so beautiful, but I don't want a dance." Like that makes it better--it makes it worse...I don't care that I am attractive, but I do care that I can't pay my bills because you are too cheap. Sorry have had some bad nights lately.

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    Telling a dancer you just met "Hey, nice ass" is retarded. Your opinion doesnt mean squat to her beyond the money you are willing to spend.

    Telling a dancer that youve known for a while and have done good busines with "Hey, I can see youve been working out. You look gorgeous" does work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR
    Telling a dancer that youve known for a while and have done good busines with "Hey, I can see youve been working out. You look gorgeous" does work.

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    actually, i don't like it when some one compliments me on the improvement of my appearance, especially along the lines of weight/fitness. it makes me feel retroactively self-concious about the way i looked before. it almost feels like a carefully hidden insult. like, hey, you look good now and thank god because you were looking pretty shitty for a while there. heh. i know that isn't always the intention, but i can't help interpreting it that way. just a little insight from one girl's perspective...

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    Quote Originally Posted by georgiapeach
    actually, i don't like it when some one compliments me on the improvement of my appearance, especially along the lines of weight/fitness. it makes me feel retroactively self-concious about the way i looked before. it almost feels like a carefully hidden insult. like, hey, you look good now and thank god because you were looking pretty shitty for a while there. heh. i know that isn't always the intention, but i can't help interpreting it that way. just a little insight from one girl's perspective...
    If someone I hadnt seen for a while came up to me and said FBR, you been workin out or somethin? you look great..I would take it as a compliment. But I admittedly cant walk in your shoes so point taken.

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    ^^ I think it depends.. I have toned up and am now a darker blonde almost brunette, I don't mind being told how wonderful I look now, as long as I don't feel it is a back handed compliment.. I get enough of them from the dancers.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    Im an old fucker and any improvement recognized and acknowleged by someone is a good thing!

    I go on the assumption that most people like a compliment. I know I do.

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    well, my best friend told me that I am friends with anyone that tells me I am pretty.. *snuggle snuggle*
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    You are pretty



    Backhanded compliments are more likely to be in the dressing room than tableside. Most guys are straightforward.

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    I'm kind of stunned by the number of gals who are cool with this. I personally would get sick of it after awhile, essp. when you know most people are only saying it either:

    1. ...in an insincere fashion (think "Mean Girls")
    2. ...to get into your pants.

    I'd rather compliment a gal on her outfit, hairstyle or her performance, but thats just me. I mean if she was hot enough for me to spend money on her, then telling her that she's hot seems sort of redundant.
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    ah, but you should hear the multiple ways that guys can tell you that you are a hottie..
    example..
    him: that girl is pretty
    me: she seems nice, I haven't worked with her before
    him: well you make her look like a crack whore
    me: I love you..
    he he
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    And yes, it gets old...
    If you like me.. PROVE it.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
    ah, but you should hear the multiple ways that guys can tell you that you are a hottie..
    example..
    him: that girl is pretty
    me: she seems nice, I haven't worked with her before
    him: well you make her look like a crack whore
    me: I love you..
    he he
    Hahahaa...now THAT is a back handed compliment LOL

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    he he, just tell me I am perfect and you only want a dance with me and I swoon.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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