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    ok last week i was having a slow night and was starting to get in a mood .. when a table of 4 guys and 3 girls came up to me and brought a table dance!

    all was going good untill some random bitch and her friend that werent with in the group walked passed me while i was dancing and called me a slut..

    It was a shit night anyways and my reaction was to throw my shoe at her and keep dancing.. It hit the girl that didnt make the comment but as her friend picked my shoe up to throw back at me she got her friends mouth/lip caught on the heel .. lol escorted out by the bouncer straight away and all was cool.. the whole table thought it was great that i stuck up for myself.. i wouldnt normal do such a thing but i was having a shit night anyway

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    Well done girl, she totally deserved it! x

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    ok at my club, female customers treat the dancers like SHIT. im all for dancing for women, but why do they come in if theyre just gonna dog us out?!? ive never been targeted by a female customer personally, but if i was, u better believe i woulda done something similiar to what u did!

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    Why not ignore them, then have the bouncer toss them? They're being bitches but violence isn't a good response.

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    good for you.. what a bitch that girl is... prob just jealous.. it happens to me on a weekly basis at work.. i block them out...

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    yall are right...it is better to ignore them. but sometimes its hard to do that...for ex: my club keeps baby wipes in the bathroom. there was a dancer and the housemom in the bathroom. a woman customer came in and said to the housemom "and what do you do at work, just sit there?" and the housemom is like "um no im working for tips..." then the custy said "what do yall have baby wipes for...are the strippers f***in and suckin?" and the ladys friend was in there and it turned into this big altercation...theres just no need for drama like that from customers. its like some people are coming in the club for the entertainment of harrassing us or something

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    I know there are some women customers that are awesome and you just love dancing for and hanging out with them but then there are others that are such bitches, sometimes worse then the guys! Like the women that think the rules don't apply to them, I work in a strictly no touching club and there are female custys who think since they're female they can touch & do whatever. I think the reason these women do this is because they're jealous, they're intimidated and have a very low self worth and it makes them feel better about themselves to dog out dancers. I bet also that maybe she knew that her boyfriend thought you were hot so that's why she had to say that! As if we want any of your nasty boyfriends!!!!

    This girl who I'm not friends with anymore was really bad about that. Whenever we'd go into a strip club all she'd do is talk bad about the dancers like "she's fat, she's got cellulite, her boobs are saggy, she's ugly I can't believe these girls are dancers, blah, blah, blah..... All night long! But what the sad part of it is, is she used to be a dancer!!!! She danced for like 5 yrs! You'd think being an ex-dancer would have more respect for current dancers! She's a bitch. The reason I quit being friends with her is because I told her not to tell anyone I started dancing and if she did, I wouldn't talk to her anymore. Well, she did tell people so that was the end of the friendship. It was probably for the best because I bet if she came in the club to see me, she'd be saying all the same bad things about me!

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    We get so many women in our club sitting in the back just being assholes. I dont know what the big deal is - to come in and be bitches. Must be low self esteem. I just ignore them or wink at them sometimes. If they are close to the stage I will pull their chair in and dance on them (contact club). Its great to see the disgust in their eyes but feel their nipples get hard. HAHAHAHA

    Ok, Im sick. Sin-

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
    Why not ignore them, then have the bouncer toss them? They're being bitches but violence isn't a good response.
    Sometimes you can only take so much shit.. like i said i wouldnt normally do it my night was shit as it was and i had had enough .. plus what gives them the right to come into my work place and give me shit .. if you dont like it then leave plus it says on the door "if nudity offends do not enter"

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    I just "accidentally" knock drinks into their laps when that kinda' crap goes down. Prove I ment to knock your drink over biotch!
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    Yes I remember one bitchy lady customer making comments about a girl on stage. I told her to shut up. She was all frigid looking with arms folded over her chest, trying to prove to her man that she was 'cool' enough to be in a room with nekked chicks.

    On the other hand, I have seen so many cool female customers. We used to have this lesbo couple that would come in and they were lots of fun. And this older lady who wanted to slow dance (like as if it was a wedding), she would make her husband pay hundreds in dances. I dunno what their situation was exactly.

    But the bitches... let them catch some shoes in the head, maybe mine one day.

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    I seriously hope that when I'm an old lady, I hang out at the strip clubs waltzing with the dancers with my husband looking on admiringly.

    Sorry, off topic. That's just too good.
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    i agree with susan...
    Throwing a shoe is trashy and it could have gotten you into a huge ordeal. Take the high road and ignore the bitches.

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    thats the reason why i hate when girls come into the club. they chose to pick on us and call us names because they must think that we have some really high self esteem which is most likey not the case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer
    i agree with susan...
    Throwing a shoe is trashy and it could have gotten you into a huge ordeal. Take the high road and ignore the bitches.
    like i said b4 i dont normally around and throw shit but i had had enough of being given shit and that was that .. i consdier the girls were being "trashy" for calling me a slut and sorry but sometimes you have to stick up for yourself!

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    Nat ... I can empathise. I just usually then bitch about the whole ordeal online or in the dressing room so I can 'let go' of it and move on. On the issue of female customers, it is just the way it is these-days as alot of strip clubs are trying to be nightclubs not just strip clubs.

    Case in point: a certain club locally that allows females in for free which I used to work at last year. The letting the females in for free created waaaaay too many problems for me as a dancer plus confuses the male patrons looking for a stripper. Unless you are in costume (which isn't encouraged on the floor in this particular strip club as far as I can tell), it is truely hard to distinguish the strippers from the female patrons (as alot of female patrons are wearing nice dresses not just the strippers). ARGH!

    This is why I generally will not dance for female patrons unless they have shown express interest in me before-hand (tipping on stage is a must)... as the good female patrons are less common (in the minority) unfortunately.

    One come-back that I have heard used with good effect when called a slut
    Thank you for the compliment !

    It really throws the heckler off-guard as that isn't what they intended


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    I agree with sticking up for yourself - if the girl had come after you, it would be appropriate to throw a shoe. But think about it, you gave this girl exactly what she wanted. By throwing your shoe, you let her know that she had gotten to you. That was also a bad reflection on you to the patrons. It would have stung far worse if you had just smiled and winked at the girl. Some women can just be catty bitches, but that doesn't mean you have to entertain them. In most of the clubs that I worked at, a dancer would get fired for throwing a shoe at someone...

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    It was a slow night and me and one another girl were standing at the bar talking and laughing. In a lull in the music, we heard two female custies trashing our breasts (we are both naturally very large and perky) and saying we must have boob jobs and how terrible people we were, blah blah blah. My friend turned around and said "It's not our fault your boyfriends fantasize about us when you two are getting it on. Don't take it out on us." Their jaws about hit the floor.

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    i agree with the girl above to an extent - why the hell do some girls bother going?

    however, i am straight (never been with a woman) but find women incredibly sexy - ummm maybe confused?? but anyway, i have been to clubs for a dance because it's just a damn pleasurable experience - women smell beautiful, have soft skin, beautiful curves...

    the thing which makes me chuckle is the girls who follow their boyfriends in then sit crowing loudly "oh yeah she's sexy... what do you think of her?" it's cute, but tragically obvious, i think most guys have twigged onto the whole pseudo-lesbo thing by now!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by bumb7ebee
    it's cute, but tragically obvious, i think most guys have twigged onto the whole pseudo-lesbo thing by now!!
    I call them Bi-Spurious. The kinds of girls who will (if sufficiently drunk, natch) make out with another girl to impress their boyfriends, or might even call themselves officially "bi-curious", but have no intention of ever following through. Stupid "Girls Gone Wild" influence. mutter mutter disgruntled mutter

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer
    I agree with sticking up for yourself - if the girl had come after you, it would be appropriate to throw a shoe. But think about it, you gave this girl exactly what she wanted. By throwing your shoe, you let her know that she had gotten to you. That was also a bad reflection on you to the patrons. It would have stung far worse if you had just smiled and winked at the girl. Some women can just be catty bitches, but that doesn't mean you have to entertain them. In most of the clubs that I worked at, a dancer would get fired for throwing a shoe at someone...

    yeah i understand where ya coming form too .. it was just my reaction at the time and while i did feel bad for doing it i have never in my 6 years of dancing done it b4.. the table i was dancing for said "good on you " blah blah blah .. turst me it was just some random act in the moment and to be quite honest it wasnt a bad reflection on my at all as its not what i normally do and it didnt effect my money in anyway bad.. as for my boss she totaly understood why as she use to be a dancer herself and she wouldnt fire me over that! meh oh well it happened and really im not going to add it to my shows lol .. good thing tho i can look back and laugh *sighs*

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin
    It was a slow night and me and one another girl were standing at the bar talking and laughing. In a lull in the music, we heard two female custies trashing our breasts (we are both naturally very large and perky) and saying we must have boob jobs and how terrible people we were, blah blah blah. My friend turned around and said "It's not our fault your boyfriends fantasize about us when you two are getting it on. Don't take it out on us." Their jaws about hit the floor.
    I love that response!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    My favourite line is, "I don't go the bus stop and slap the dick out of your mouth when you're working, so leave me alone!"

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