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    So...was super horny and drunk last night and tried anal for the first time.
    We were completely unprepared and didn't even have lube at the time...Like I said, i'm a butt virgin and he's had experience with anal sex.

    Everything felt good until he got all the way in, I freaked a little bit I think and couldn't relax and he had to pull out.

    Any pointers ladies? This is something I have a feeling i'll really enjoy once I get used to it.

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    Drink some more? JK Thats the only way I can do anal is being all liquered up.
    Also, LUUBBEEE is your best friend. Even if its a bit messy. My personal favorite I use is Astroglide. It gets sticky afterwhile though but just re-apply. If no lube spit works ok in a pinch (no pun intended lol).
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    64 Views. 1 reply. Go team go.

    Thanks though, TM (xoxo)

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    I totally get off on the idea, but... IT HURRRRRTS!!!! It hurts so damn bad!!

    I used to bite the pillow and give it up for my ex on his birthday. But my boyfriend now is just too damn big. Even vaginal sex with him sometimes hurts because he's got a cock thicker than my fist. I want him to give me a nice deep ass-fucking, but every time he even puts the tip in, I'm screaming blue murder. ONE time when I took half an Ecstasy pill, I got through it. It hurt, but I came. Ever since then I've wanted to try again, but even if I get drunk it's just more agony than I can stand. So for now, I just fantasize.

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    Definitely use lube. Without it, you could do some serious damage....literally! I've only done this a handful of times with my bf, it still takes a few minutes for me to 'relax'.....but once I feel ok, he can proceed






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    Found some funny LO threads that might help you too:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...highlight=anal
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...highlight=anal

    Bottom line for me: Alcohol 1st is my best friend when it comes to anal.
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    I've gotten so shitfaced drunk I can't even remember it the next day, and I still can't have anal with a ton of lube. I'll tell my boyfriend to go ahead, and the next thing the poor guy knows, I'm sobbing and screaming into my pillow. I even bleed. I think some women are just naturally tight-assed, LOL! And/or my boyfriend has a monstrous organ. I think it's a combination of the two.

    I have heard that it hurts less if I lie on my back but I haven't tried it this way. Can anyone confirm this?

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    Yes it hurts less since your cheeks arent squeezed together by you lying on your stomach. Lying on your back with your legs apart should hurt less and let you relax. Unless, youre the type of person that hates to see whats coming.

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    Suggestion: you might want to try a finger up there during sex so you can see what it feels like and how to relax w/o having to dive right into anal sex with a penis.
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    yea i think some girls are able to do that with no problem, and some arent! just like some girls have looser or tighter "kittys", its the same in the back!

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    Ooh, I love the finger. I love it when he does me doggy-style and puts his finger in my ass!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    I've gotten so shitfaced drunk I can't even remember it the next day, and I still can't have anal with a ton of lube.

    Tightass.
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    If you're really interested in this subject, you could check out some of Tristan Taormino's work. She's both written books and directed instructional porn videos on anal sex. I've only read some of her work peripherally, but in the sex-positive/instructional porn world she's considered quite an expert. Her website is .

    But for a short answer, yes, lube is definitely a good idea where anal sex is concerned.

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    Wish I could give ya pointers Tiff, but it kills me every time I try. I'm like you Yek, no matter how drunk, no matter how much lube, it just freakin hurts!

    But, I do have some experiences with vibrators and my ass Lotsa lube, and start with fingers, then move up to the bigger stuff. That way it's not such a shock to your system.
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    The Ladies Only threads should be of some assistance definately. Otherwise, purchase an anal vibe. No kidding. In order to really enjoy anal sex you must get used to something pushing in that hole... using your finger can only do so much.

    (My posts in one of the LO anal sex threads
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...6&postcount=16
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...5&postcount=74


    Lube specifically designed for anal sex is a definate must-have whether you are going it alone or with a partner.

    As for the anal toy, I still have it and use it occasionally now .... http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/prodimages/200/7600.jpg


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    Smoke some weed.

    Also, push like you're, uh...going. (As long as you don't actually have to go).

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    Thanks a lot ladies!

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    Damn, I just posted a huge long post in the thread about anal sex in the ladies only section. Can I repost it here? I don't know how to link it. If I can't feel free to delete it.

    Alrighty...

    I really enjoyed this thread and I'm glad I got a chance to read it since it was resurrected. I wouldn't have found it otherwise. I figured I'd share my limited anal sex experiences.

    My first ever boyfriend loved anal and it was his favorite. He and I did oral and then anal before I EVER did vaginal sex. I was still a virgin for months after our first anal sex experience. (My mom was kinda psycho at the time and I was under 18. I thought if she ever had a problem with my boyfriend and me and called the cops I could still proove I was a virgin and no one could prove that we'd had sex. What did I know at 17 anyway?)

    I never had any problems with anal sex... We always started with a lubed finger. His nails were always cut WAY short or it would have been painful. Nails hurt. He waited for me to become accustomed to the first finger then he'd move it a bit, twisting, in and out, and just stretch me out a bit more before inserting a second finger. Same thing, wait and then move it until I was comfortable. Usually a few minutes for each finger. It feels a little weird at first and it felt kind of embarassing. But then, if you are embarassed about anything with your partner why are you with them? I don't have this problem with my current boyfriend. We also do the finger preperations.

    We usually worked up to three fingers in starting with them in a triangle position with all the fingers tightly together and then with him moving his fingers slowly into a straight line (kind of like the girlscout pledge hand position) so that when he finally entered me we had no problems at all because I was stretched out all I needed to be BEFORE he ever tried to enter me with his penis. Lube was used generally this entire time of finger preperation and then applied again to his penis and the puckered skin of the anus. This, on me, is the only part that hurts for me as the friction is the worst there, if the puckered skin isn't lubed there's no hope. The inside doesn't really need lubed for me. (Same thing with vaginal, it's the outside skin that needs the lube because that's where the friction hurts, inside I'm peachy.)

    As for condoms with my first boyfriend we never used them for anal. He was circumsized (so infections for him weren't that much of a concern) and I trusted him. There were multiple positions for me to be in when it actually came to insertion. It could be missionary with us facing eachother as long as my hips were elevated with a pillow under my hips. This helped with the angle that he thrusted with and the spot that he reached as well as helping him not to slip out and get the wrong hole. We could also use doggy style but I had to have my legs spread to form a triangle and my hips had to be tilted... usually my ass was in the air and my head on the bed. You could also just layer some pillows under your hips and lay belly down with your butt slanted up and maybe legs spread just a bit.

    After we were finally able to get me comfortable and him inserted the movement always made me feel like I had to pee. I never did as I always went to the bathroom before hand. If you just ignore it that's the start to the most powerful orgasms I've ever had. They are quicker and MUCH more INTENSE then vaginal orgasms ever have been for me. They also come (hee, CUM) faster and closer together. I've never had any acident problems.

    I never did enemas or anything like that. He's in my ass, if he sees poop then tough luck. He's the one that wanted to try it. Cumming inside was always uncomfortable for me. I felt a pressure but it wasn't so bad. When he pulled out though there was a mess and I'd have to "catch" it with tissues or something. I always went to the bathroom after and pushed the rest out though there was still some discharge after that. The worst part was that I would fart the rest of the day and maybe the next because my muscles were stretched out and I couldn't hold them in.

    My current boyfriend and I have only done it once (soon to be again, maybe tonight cause this thread has gotten me worked up for it!)... I initiated him to anal as he'd never done it before. (None of his previous girlfriends ever swallowed before either what's up with that?) We use a condom for multiple reasons, he's not circumsized so infection risks are higher for him and he doesn't have to pull out when he cums. It's much better for him to come inside me and I don't have any of the mess to deal with.

    As for foreplay... I love to get oral sex first where he'll lick my ass too. (My boyfriend gives good... no GREAT oral sex. Sadly my first boyfriend sucked at it and usually I got no foreplay. It made the relaxing harder but not impossible.) Another thing that's fun is to do oral sex while you get stretched out with fingers, then maybe use toys vaginally and/or anally. I've kept a vibrator in my vagina while he was in my ass and he ould feel the vibrations.

    Anyway, that's all the experience I can comment on. Hope I helped a bit.

    -=Phoenix

    P.S. I was told that guys like it better because the rectum is generally warmer and MUCH tighter then a vaginal. Just what I heard from one guy though. My boyfriend still likes vaginal sex compared to anal and still LOVES handjobs (almost more then blowjobs though he doesn't complain about whatever he gets!).

    -=Phoenix
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    Also, LUUBBEEE is your best friend. Even if its a bit messy. My personal favorite I use is Astroglide. It gets sticky afterwhile though but just re-apply. If no lube spit works ok in a pinch (no pun intended lol).
    One can reactivate Astroglide (and most other non-silicone based lubes) with water, so just keep a spray bottle near the bed for ease of use when things get sticky. I mean, that's what my friend said; not like I have any experience in such matters, of course. Ahem. Erm...
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