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    So when I was working on Saturday night, I was walking past the stage where there were some guys standing up right at the stage looking at the dancers. First of all, I hate guys that just stand up there. If you're going to be standing up there, you better be tipping. Anyway, I walked past them, I was going to go dance for some other guys before it was my turn to go up on stage. Anyway, these guys that were standing up at the stage stopped me and asked me if I could give them change for their $20, they asked me if I had 20 $1's and asked me if I would give them change! Ughh, that just irritated me! I said, no I don't have 20 $1's. Like I have time to do that. I'm busy! So then they said, ok, I guess we'll get some from the bartender. WHat do they idiots think we are, cash registers? Oh, rant done!!!!

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    Maybe they would have tipped if they had change. Think about it. Why would they ask you for ones if they didn't intend to tip with them?

    Maybe if you gave them change they would have had money to tip you since you were next up, and then you could have used selling from stage techniques after they tipped you to get a few dances.

    It's easy to get frustrated in this business, but sometimes if you are friendly or go out of your way for a customer, they might really appreciate it and make it worth your while.

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    On a scale of one to ten I think this rates like a 2 or something as far as pigheaded behavior goes.

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    I know it's kinda petty of me to get mad it's just I get tired of being a cash register to them and I don't like to pumble with my money out there because I'm afraid it might get dropped or swiped out of my hand. But Tina, you do have a good point though.

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    Im really divided on giving change. Sure, if its slow. No, if the room is packed and I have less than 15min to see everyone else who is tipping me a dollar or more to count out your $20 in 1's which will take me about 5min to complete.
    I'll grab a waitress for a guy if Im walking around. Especially, if I was on stage and someone askes me that. I have to get off and get dressed.
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    my club bartender is forever out of 20's. i love changing out money for guys. they tip me on stage for it, and my garter is lighter for it. i hate going to the bar with 60 1's and the bartender telling me she doesn't have any 20's or 10's. i won't do it on stage though. thats evil.

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    I think you overreacted. If you had the change, you could have given it to them and I'll bet that they would have tipped you a few bucks extra on the spot or when you were performing your set on stage.

    many girls don't realize it, but men generally don't come in the club with a ton of 1's on them and they rely on the bartender for change. I know because I'm a dancer AND a bartender in the same club I dance in. As a strip club bartender, I'll be the first to tell you that I break as many 20's (for change) as I pour drinks and a lot of times men get irritated waiting for me to finish pouring drinks for another customer before I can give him change.

    As a dancer, help your bartender out and give up the change and do it with a smile cause in the long run you'll be seen as an easy going nice girl and you'll get more tips on stage from appreciative men.

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    That is a good point but I have to say sometimes you don't have that much time to stand there and count out money. When you're club is packed and you have many tables of people waiting on you, what do you do? I can't run the risk of losing a few tables to another dancer just for maybe a $2 tip and maybe another $1 on stage. If it was slow, I'd have no problem but these guys asked me right when the big night rush came in.

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    Hmm, I think I would've probably changed it and charged a $5 commission

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    Honestly, I can get annoyed when guys ask me for anything. Just honestly - like "Do you know where the bathroom is?" "I'm sorry, do I look like a docent? You're an adult - find it yourself." It depends a lot on my night - if I'm having a bad night, I don't want to help out anyone with anything, and I'm there for one reason - that is to take off my clothes and let me touch me for money, and if you are not asking a question related to that, you should be asking someone else. Even when I was in a good mood, though, I wouldn't make change. And I would be friendly, but I would do a raised eyebrow so they would know it is not something they should be asking me.
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    I know, it's irritating that these guys ask us ANYTHING & EVERYTHING!!! They think because we take our clothes off that we should be catering to everything they want. It's bad enough that they always ask us personal questions "how do you make, how old are you, what's your real name, where do you live, can I take you home, how much to have sex with you, blah, blah, blah.... And then we're cash registers, and banks and orientation people, and therapists and everything else. It does get irritating. In any other job, people wouldn't be asking these kinds of things out of people. One night I was talking to a customer and he said something "well, if you were a real person..." and I completely interrupted him from what he was saying and said "I AM A REAL PERSON" I said just because we're strippers doesn't make us non human. Ughh, it's just very irritating to have it done to you every single night!!! It's not so bad if these people are paying you, I don't care what they say as long as I'm getting paid well for it but when they want you to do things for free, that's when it really gets under your skin.

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    I always give them 15-17 ones back and tell them the rest is my fee for making change, they are always nice about it and let me keep my fee

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