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    to those of you strip club customers who are polite, kind, respectfull, and caring: i want to give you a big thank you. i thought about adding the word generous to the list of qualities, but i wanted to clarify that generous does not have to mean you spend hundreds of dollars. to me it just means that you are aware that you're paying the girls for their time. some of my best customers don't have much to spend, but they are generous with what they do have and respectfull when the club gets busy and i need to move on. back to the point of this thread...

    i just wanted to let those of you men, who truly give a shit about us and see as human beings, know that you are appreciated. i also wanted to let the men who're reading this know that, in most cases (i know it's true for me) the "nice guys" get the BEST dances. the saying "nice guys finish last" is not always true. i'm not saying you have to be a doormat, just a respectfull gentleman. oh, and extra bonus thanks to those of you who actually try to not smell disgusting before you come to the club.

    i think you guys make up about 10% of my business, as sad as that may be. luckily for me, most of my "regulars" are this type of guy. i just don't find enough of them worth keeping around. one guy in particular, makes me smile every time he walks in. i even breathe a little sigh of relief because i know my next couple of hours isnt going to be spent with an asshole. it's not just because he spends a lot of money, it's because he's the type of guy i'm describing. we always have a great time, he never does anything i don't want him to. i'm incredibly comfortable with him (which means he gets the damned best dances i can give) and he never makes me feel bad about myself. anyway, i wish i could clone you guys, or that you would all move here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    to those of you strip club customers who are polite, kind, respectfull, and caring: i want to give you a big thank you. i thought about adding the word generous to the list of qualities, but i wanted to clarify that generous does not have to mean you spend hundreds of dollars. to me it just means that you are aware that you're paying the girls for their time. some of my best customers don't have much to spend, but they are generous with what they do have and respectfull when the club gets busy and i need to move on. back to the point of this thread...

    i just wanted to let those of you men, who truly give a shit about us and see as human beings, know that you are appreciated. i also wanted to let the men who're reading this know that, in most cases (i know it's true for me) the "nice guys" get the BEST dances. the saying "nice guys finish last" is not always true. i'm not saying you have to be a doormat, just a respectfull gentleman. oh, and extra bonus thanks to those of you who actually try to not smell disgusting before you come to the club.

    i think you guys make up about 10% of my business, as sad as that may be. luckily for me, most of my "regulars" are this type of guy. i just don't find enough of them worth keeping around. one guy in particular, makes me smile every time he walks in. i even breathe a little sigh of relief because i know my next couple of hours isnt going to be spent with an asshole. it's not just because he spends a lot of money, it's because he's the type of guy i'm describing. we always have a great time, he never does anything i don't want him to. i'm incredibly comfortable with him (which means he gets the damned best dances i can give) and he never makes me feel bad about myself. anyway, i wish i could clone you guys, or that you would all move here.
    You're welcome.

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    Default Re: to the good guys...

    What a nice post.

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    Default Re: to the good guys...

    With the rash of "stupid customer" threads I've seen in SG lately, this is certainly a nice antidote.

    Thanks Penny.
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    Those posts aren't aimed at guys like you, Doc--most of the customers here are pretty cool--and if they were all like you, there wouldn't be the complaints...
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    Yes, and that's why lately, what with it being summer and slow here in Tampa, I've been trying to keep a smile on my face in the face of guys out of school for the summer...but, I do agree with Penny that the one or two REALLY NICE custies we get a day have a way of making the day just soooo much better. Like, I have this one guy who comes in once in a while and being a licensed massage therapist, gives me this awesome massage after rubbing my back through half of the dance session...I end up spending more time with him sometimes because he's so relaxing to be around, and helps me be able to better on take on the rest of the day!
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    i agree, one really nice customer a night can totally make mine, so keep it up nice guys!

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    I wholey agree with this post!! I have had some GRRRReat! custies.. It's the few dope dopes that drive me nuts.
    Last night I had a guy get a few dances, leave and then come back to do two rounds in the VIP with me. I didn't even ask him to since we were about to close and we don't usually have any business after the drinks disappear..
    So to him, and all the other good guys that know what it means to have fun and know that when us girlies are having fun, so are you.... THANKS!
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    i know there have been a lot of "horrible customer" threads lately. i started one and i've participated in most of them. seems like the bad guys are everywhere and in abundance right now. that's why i found it important to remember that not all of them are like that.

    just.. you know.. a lot of them.

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    I have to jump in on this. To all you respectful customers a BIG THANK YOU! Its guys like you that keep me from losing what little sanity I have left. Also its guys like you that keep me enjoying my job. You guys rock

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    Yes, a wholehearted thank you for those kind words ladies!

    It's nice to finally be appreciated!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    I wish i could clone you guys, or that you would all move here.
    I'll let you in on a little secret: We are all clones.

    I was cloned 10 years ago in a secret ceremony involving 12 dancers, an open-hearth fire, sterile blades and needles, 20 mg of Ativan, a small Xanax injection administered sub-Q, an autoclave mysteriously covered in glitter and this brilliantly talented but whacked-out genetic scientist in her early thirties who looked just breathtaking in this really incredible denim miniskirt.

    Come to think of it, I don't know if she was a scientist or not, but the Ativan, Xanax and the pleated miniskirt pretty much meant that I didn't give a damn.

    The procedure went well, as they inserted the polite, respectful, funny, engaging, helpful, physically strong, safe-haven, do-everything-a-dancer-could-ever-want genes. They found some dark-side genes (compelling, intense, focused, immodest, moody, unpredictable and less likely to be self-deprecating genes) and threw them in for S&Gs.

    Then the denim miniskirt girl started doing shots of Jagermeister and began toying around with the "tip like a maniac no matter where the dancer lives but she's gotta be smart" genes. She loaded me up just to see what would happen. (She also inserted a dominant "take care of the SW dancers" gene, which somehow mutated into an "including the site" gene.)

    When I woke up, I was seized by this overwhelming desire to buy a Gulfstream IV, cash out the stocks, bonds and real estate, and travel around the country and tip every single smart and sexy dancer like a maniac. It's worked out well so far.

    Oh, one other thing. Mast and CO are also clones, but they were created in a separate ceremony, long after the dancers learned all the mistakes they made with me.

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    LMFAO!!! That was priceless TOO!! I LOVE IT!!! Why cant we have some of those clones up here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    to those of you strip club customers who are polite, kind, respectfull, and caring: i want to give you a big thank you. i thought about adding the word generous to the list of qualities, but i wanted to clarify that generous does not have to mean you spend hundreds of dollars. to me it just means that you are aware that you're paying the girls for their time. some of my best customers don't have much to spend, but they are generous with what they do have and respectfull when the club gets busy and i need to move on. back to the point of this thread...

    i just wanted to let those of you men, who truly give a shit about us and see as human beings, know that you are appreciated. i also wanted to let the men who're reading this know that, in most cases (i know it's true for me) the "nice guys" get the BEST dances. the saying "nice guys finish last" is not always true. i'm not saying you have to be a doormat, just a respectfull gentleman. oh, and extra bonus thanks to those of you who actually try to not smell disgusting before you come to the club.

    i think you guys make up about 10% of my business, as sad as that may be. luckily for me, most of my "regulars" are this type of guy. i just don't find enough of them worth keeping around. one guy in particular, makes me smile every time he walks in. i even breathe a little sigh of relief because i know my next couple of hours isnt going to be spent with an asshole. it's not just because he spends a lot of money, it's because he's the type of guy i'm describing. we always have a great time, he never does anything i don't want him to. i'm incredibly comfortable with him (which means he gets the damned best dances i can give) and he never makes me feel bad about myself. anyway, i wish i could clone you guys, or that you would all move here.
    So very well put! As I get more established at my new club, I am seeing more familiar faces and have a couple of new regulars who are the good guys! What a relief it is when they come it!

    Thanks, guys! You put a smile on my face!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon
    So very well put! As I get more established at my new club, I am seeing more familiar faces and have a couple of new regulars who are the good guys! What a relief it is when they come it!

    Thanks, guys! You put a smile on my face!
    Thanks to all the ladies for such a nice thread! I try hard to be a good and respectful custy, and every dancer I've met is appreciative. I am primarily a dayshift guy, and I have the general impression that there are fewer jerk customers during dayshift than at night. My theory is that many dayshift guys are married, and are squeezing in afternoon club visits between meetings, etc., which means that they drink less than night guys, and are probably just more laid back. The downside may be that our visits are shorter, and that this combined with less alcohol may mean that we spend less overall. What do you think ladies, are my theories accurate?

    And to Ms. Glamazon - I would try to be a "good guy" at your new club if I knew where in Phoenix you were working, and when I could find you there! Drop me a PM if you're not afraid to meet a blue side junkie....

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    Hallelujah!!! Thank You guys!

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    Yeah, Pretty Penny... ! This thread was needed after all the negativity for the past few weeks!

    I'm going to add my sincere appreciation for the good customers out there... they undoubtedly are out there. The guys who tip for conversation. The guys who tip on top of the price of an hour-long VIP session. The consistently pleasant guys who don't get dances at all, but are always good for a quick catch-up and a cocktail or two when it's slow or I need a few minutes of downtime and always understand when I have to get up again. The guys who say, "You're the hottest girl in here," with believable sincerity, even if they're actually lying. The guys who notice when I get a new dress or cut my hair. The guys who roll in from out of town every few months and request me by name. The guys who laugh at my jokes. The guys who want to make things better instead of trying to get every last ounce of whatever it is they think I have for them.

    Thank you for making me mean it when I say that this job beats waiting tables!
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    Quote Originally Posted by red red red
    Yeah, Pretty Penny... ! This thread was needed after all the negativity for the past few weeks!

    I'm going to add my sincere appreciation for the good customers out there... they undoubtedly are out there. The guys who tip for conversation. The guys who tip on top of the price of an hour-long VIP session. The consistently pleasant guys who don't get dances at all, but are always good for a quick catch-up and a cocktail or two when it's slow or I need a few minutes of downtime and always understand when I have to get up again. The guys who say, "You're the hottest girl in here," with believable sincerity, even if they're actually lying. The guys who notice when I get a new dress or cut my hair. The guys who roll in from out of town every few months and request me by name. The guys who laugh at my jokes. The guys who want to make things better instead of trying to get every last ounce of whatever it is they think I have for them.

    Thank you for making me mean it when I say that this job beats waiting tables!
    Wow...so well put!!

    Again, thanks guys!

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    Quote Originally Posted by azdd
    I have the general impression that there are fewer jerk customers during dayshift than at night. My theory is that many dayshift guys are married, and are squeezing in afternoon club visits between meetings, etc., which means that they drink less than night guys, and are probably just more laid back. The downside may be that our visits are shorter, and that this combined with less alcohol may mean that we spend less overall. What do you think ladies, are my theories accurate?
    i'm a dayshift girl (i couldnt work nights, i'd HATE to be at work till 3am) and i have to say i don't completely agree. from what i gather talking with the nightshift girls at our club, they deal with equal or less bullshit. you're right about a lot of the guys being married, but many of them drink A LOT. we get a lot of guys who treat our club as sort of an "office" meaning they sit and drink and wait for their phone to ring (real estate guys.. etc) or they own their own place and don't have to be there when they don't feel like it. many of our customers are there for hours at a time.. some of them the entire day. i find that a lot of guys during the day are looking for a girl to start an affair with, or a gf in general. also, we get a fairly large share of really handsy and/or rude guys. the crowd is typically older (not exclusively, but on a whole) than the night crowd, but i think the bullshit level is at least equal. maybe it's just different types of bullshit.

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    TOO, I'm glad that at least some of us know where we fit in!! A lot of custy's have no idea how to behave, never mind even getting along with anyone!

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    I was cloned 10 years ago in a secret ceremony involving 12 dancers, an open-hearth fire, sterile blades and needles, 20 mg of Ativan, a small Xanax injection administered sub-Q, an autoclave mysteriously covered in glitter and this brilliantly talented but whacked-out genetic scientist in her early thirties who looked just breathtaking in this really incredible denim miniskirt.
    ^^ You made my sick self laugh and now I hurt.

    Just want to add. I DO remember the good regulars and good customers who made me smile. I remember a very good one to this day. Though I never complained about my situations away from work with him the one day he asked if I had any kitchen ware I said no and he gives me some extra to buy some. I bough some right after work too.
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    how did i miss this?

    i feel the same way.
    i rarely post on the "what an asshole" threads. i take the bad guys as part of the job and move on. it's true... in my book nice and or sincere guys finish FIRST and will get extra attention/time even if the amount spent isnt so large.

    thanks nice guys!!!!

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    Nice guys DO get the hottest dances from me! I have to agree.

    Rarely do I go the extra mile for a grabby, price haggling, or cocky customer. Go ahead and tell me again how you want me to grab your cock. I'll make sure it doesn't get hard.

    But yes, I do think the decent guys deserve a lil' more love. I tell all my regulars how much I appreciate them, and how it makes me happy that I don't have to hustle and I can just sit and relax without talking to someone I probably won't like. They like to hear it, and it's true. You guys help me pay my bills and you seem to care about me as a person. That goes a long way.

    I salute you all with the cutest smilie I could find:


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    Guys come into strip venues with differing attitudes.

    I think you'll find the nice guys take it as a bit of escapist fun - you can have a pleasant conversation with a woman while smiltaneously seeing her naked.

    The key is never to forget she's an entertainer earning a living and that outside of work she could behave very differently.

    The "pain in the ass" customers are those who never learn to see beyond the stereotype of the dancer as a money grabbing, sleep around exhibitionist. They believe in the stereotype and behave accordingly towards the dancer.

    Dumb really, cos many of the dancers I know are seriously nice people.

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    To Pretty Penny and all the other ladies who posted here.

    Thank you very much for expressing your appreciation of good, polite customers.


    Quote Originally Posted by azdd
    I am primarily a dayshift guy, and I have the general impression that there are fewer jerk customers during dayshift than at night. My theory is that many dayshift guys are married, and are squeezing in afternoon club visits between meetings, etc., which means that they drink less than night guys, and are probably just more laid back. The downside may be that our visits are shorter, and that this combined with less alcohol may mean that we spend less overall. What do you think ladies, are my theories accurate?
    azdd - a true connisuer of the businessman's day shift crowd. The club you visit during the day shift is near the central business district, so it gets more gentlemen. (Accountants, lawyers, bankers, and other 'follow the rules' types)

    Other clubs aren't so lucky - I've seen some pretty horrendous behavior from a dayshift crowd in a club. I was embarrassed to be there and couldn't accept any dances until the handsy, drunk dayshift crowd left.

    After the 'bad vibe' left, and taking Pretty Penny's post to heart; I found a nervous newbie and gave her a gentle smile - I let her flirt politely with me and thought up a special way to compliment her unique and alluring looks. I enjoyed getting a couple of dances from her, completely ignoring her nervousness until it just went away - then made myself blush as I gave her a good tip.

    It ends up she was a friend of one of my regulars. Two dances after the newbie retreated to the dressing room, my regular came out of said dressing room and took me to the VIP just to elevate the good vibe in the club a bit more.

    I'd like to thank all the dancers who find ways to make polite customers feel special.


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