Hey, I'm new here. This is a great forum, soo many helpful people and useful information, I didn't realize how lost I was before I joined. Anyway,
Let me introduce myself. I'm 18, want to start dancing in the fall. Right about the time when I start college.
I live in a 100,000 population town. There are a grand total of TWO strip clubs here. Wooh. Lots of choices, right!![]()
Now, I have not checked out these two places yet. No one in my life knows about my plans on this... Nobody.
Not even my mom.
I figure that eventually, someone that knows me will find out; it's pretty much inevitable. So when the time comes,
How should I tell the people closest to me about me being a dancer?
Also... I have heard to never give anyone your real name or address on the job, (obviously) but not even to your fellow dancers. Based on the theory that, potentially, it could be dangerous if someone 'sold you out' to a creep who is paying well to know. Is that being a bit paranoid, or is that just protocol?
How much personal information do you give to the people you work with?
I'm sure I'll have more questions later...But that's it for now. Thanks in advance.
xo
Aine Vui.





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I know she wont be happy about it, at all. But i'll have to suck it up.
Second, I don't want it to seem glamorous to other girls. It's not a game or a bunch of fun times, it's a job. And for me, its as a means for education, and predominately my future. Otherwise, I'm a straight-edge girl. I doubt anyone will be suspicious.
Also, i'm transferring out of state after this school year,(06-07) to a bigger city where the anonymity of it will be much easier.


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