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    Okay well like i already posted i checked out the club last night and It was horriable I we so upset i cried when i got home. when i got there the first dancer (if that what you would call her) comes to the door she precedeed to whip her tits out to show the guys comeing in she is OUTSIDE. then i get in there and see that it is gross it only has a juke box no dj. The music is so loud I can hardly hear her talking to me and there is only like five guys in there. She is a real sweetheart to me and i appreacted that but while we were talking she was drinking a beer with a custy and he was grabbing her tits very obviously it was alful i look away from it becuse i don't want to judge or make her feel like i am a cop or would nark on her. she tells me not to worry that is normal. Then we go on stage with horriable music playing no lighting system just dreadful the girls just go on stage as they wish no order or anything then she shows me the dressing room and there is a middle aged ugly women in ther ewith obvious roles and she proceeds to tell me i need to wash my hands after touching the pole becuse its so nasty and tells me to smell my hands i did and they smelled like ass (i took a looooooooooooong hot shower when i got home) oh it gets better girls keep reading lol SHe takes me the vip room tells me its 200 and anything goes that your comfortable with . So then she shows me where the 20 lap dance area is and some other things. Well i don't know the local laws and i am not comfortable with anything goes. I can set my limits with the guys but i feel like there i would fighting with the custys becuse the girls allow so much. I don't want to deal with that and futhermore i have a family to think about and i do not want to go to jail. My better judgement is telling me not to show up and i think i am going to follow my gut what do you guys think Any adicie would be taken into considration. Thank you.

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    Default Re: i don't think I can do it

    Even my intiution is telling me you shouldnt go back there. Place sounds like a nightmare. No point in working in a place where you feel uncomfortable.

    Do you have options as to other clubs youd like to go to?
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    Default Re: i don't think I can do it

    if you hated it that much just going to check it out, then why the hell would you consider workign there?

    and your hands prolly smell from the pole becuase it was brass. brass does that.

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    omg thank you so much misskristina i did not know brass did that the pole at my old club was not brass this one was ahhh i am not diseaed lol I was only consiedering becuse we need some extra money but its not worth my digintity.

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    if you do a lot of pole work the brass can leave dirty marks on your hands too.

    i always prefer brass though becuase you get a maximum amount of "stick" for pole tricks.

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    Most poles will make your hands smell bad, metal does that.. I once worked at a club that had a closet pole as the dance pole.. yep, about an inch in diameter and 8 ft tall, yikes! It had to be rubbed down with alocohl frequnetly because it kept rusting.. ick
    As for a club where anytihng goes, um, it would be tough to make money.. I know this because I "tried" to work at one and it really was just silly. No one watched the dances, the men were not gentlemen by any means and I was lucky if I found a guy that didn't cop a feel BEFORE agreeing to a dance.
    what other options are there for clubs in the area?
    if you do choose this club, wouly you dread going to work?
    that's how I always view it..
    good luck in your choices!
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    Default Re: i don't think I can do it

    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99
    she proceeds to tell me i need to wash my hands after touching the pole becuse its so nasty and tells me to smell my hands i did and they smelled like ass (i took a looooooooooooong hot shower when i got home)
    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!! Hehe..sorry but thats the funniest sh#! I've heard all day!
    CARMEN IS HOTT 4 A BLACK CHICK!!!!!!!!

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    Why does he have a headset on his head, like Janet Jackson or some shit?
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    Oh yeah. I would not work there. The place sounds horrible, and if a lot of girls are prostituting themselves it really is not a good idea to work there. If you are going to HATE going everyday, then its not worth it anyway.
    CARMEN IS HOTT 4 A BLACK CHICK!!!!!!!!

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    go somewhere else. read what you just posted. would you tell yourself to go back after reading that? it isn't worth it. i hope you find a better way to makesome extra cash.

    i hear hit men make good money..

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    I can't see any reason to work there. Besides that it's just WAITING for a bust... You probably wouldn't make any money since all the girls are so... um... Yea. That's gross.
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    Thats not a "hole in the wall" well at least not my idea of one ! Thats dancer HELL ! Its unfortunate what some girls have to put up with to make ends meet ! Gesh..
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    Default Re: i don't think I can do it

    Uggh. Sounds like a nightmare. How far are you from other clubs?

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    sounds soo not worth it :{ get outta there, girl.
    and i only call you darling 'cause i know how much you hate it
    and darling, some habits are so very hard to break --
    think condescension is sexy?
    well, that's your mistake to make.


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    Thank you guys i decided not to go back there. I am not risking a bust becuse i know full well that i can go down with the rest even though i am clean. One of you called it dancer hell and thats exactly what i though it was. I live far from better clubs so i might not dance right now there is a peep show up the road i need to check out. thank you guys for your advice becuse i value the opions of this board.

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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99
    thank you guys for your advice becuse i value the opions of this board.
    smart girl, he he
    I never went back to my scray place either.. I always try to decide whether or not I would be able to stand a place, and how much I would need to drink to be there. I prefer drinking at work, but not getting sloshed and if I needed to be scary trashed each night, it wasn't worth it.
    check out that peep show.. I am always amazed at the idea of it..
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    you know i was just sitting here working on my discovery toys bussiness agine still upset about my experince last night and then it just hit me i am dam proud i know my limits and can say no when something is not right. So i might not be rich right now but i am holding my head high.

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    Exactly. You know your limits and you can make choices based on the best options available. Busting your ass as a waitress for 8-10 dollars an hour would be better than that place.

    Good luck to you.

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    i think a peep show would be worse.. i don't know though... i wouldn't ever set foot back into that club you went in to... if you belive you're better than that and want to make your money the legitimate way, i'd look else where.

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