Leogirl,
Reading your posts, I'll guess your mind is on dancing a lot of the time you're not actually in the club. The money you're earning there is important to your long term plans, and hence I suspect you're forever thinking of ways and means to maximise your earnings. I'll also guess that because dancing can be stressful, you spend a certain amount of time reliving the less pleasant aspects of your job.
Looks like you're having trouble switching off from being a dancer cos you're thinking about it all the time.
Also looks like you're working a lot of hours: Monday to Friday job, then at least three nights in the club, (Fri, Sat, Wed). Have you set aside a bit of time for yourself? Everyone needs to have a bit of time to put their feet up, drink a bottle of wine and laugh with friends. Aare you giving yourself enough time to relax - have you got at least one "do-nothing-much" evening set aside for yourself every week?
Several dancers have become friends of mine. What I've noticed with them, is that when I give them a lift home, they have a good old moan to me about the venue, idiot customers, other girls, etc. They know I keep my mouth shut, and hence get the tension out of their systems before they get home - no need to bottle up their frustrations.
Have you got someone you really trust that you can confide in from time to time? Sometmes, just being able to talk about a problem puts it into proportion.
Phil.



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