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    I know a lot of you hate this question, but I actually like being asked because that's when I can mention that I am an exhibitionist, that being naked turned me on etc. How can I bring this up when I am not asked this question. Any ideas?
    Same with going to fetish clubs. I'll often ask the guy what he likes to do for fun, but they don't always return the question.

    I know if I could bring these into the conversation more that I could do better because one problem i have is veering to far from the fun of dances and then I need something to pull myself back on topic.

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    When I first attempted dancing it was because my best friend did it. I saw how much money she made and how little she worked, while I was busting my ass waitressing working 40+ hours and didn't even bring in half of what she made in two days. Sooo I attempted it and failed...I wasn't driven enough at the time. I didn't need the money. It honestly scared the living shit out of me.
    About a year later, my mother and I had our differences and she basically kicked me out for her own mid-life crisis reasons. --I was 19. Moved to a big city, got a place and worked a few waitressing jobs 40+ hours and was still unable to pay my rent. My mother was a dancer when I was young. She basically had told me to do it. So my best friend came to visit and guided me along the way. It took about a week, once I made my first 5hun I was stuck. 3 years later..here I am.
    Now I'm addicted, not just because of the money..because that's never promising (alot depends on you, but without clientele, forget about it). I love getting all done up, and performing on stage, and being the center of attention. When I first started dancing I had zero confidence, it's not through the roof now but it's definitely exceeded signficantly. It's given me a whole new perspective in so many ways. But I'm afraid in a lot ways it's made me kinda lazy too. No, this job is hard work I don't care what anyone says. My legs hurt so bad after one night of work I can barely walk sometimes. But it can be well worth it.
    This job is kind of gamble in some aspects...maybe that's why it's so addicting. Kinda like the Price is Right..haha Unless you already know what to expect from certain customer.
    Damn that was long... sorry

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    Default Re: what got you into dancing?

    Hm, maybe you can just start talking about yourself... kind of how you got to... live where you're living right now, or something like that. Or, you can just blurt it out. I don't think they really would care HOW it comes up.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Default Re: what got you into dancing?

    if you're fairly new to dancing or at least new to your club you can mention that in conversation and it will often prompt customers to ask why you decided to start.

    sometimes i'll ask customers if they've been to my club before. if they say it's their first time, i like to joke around and say, "really?? me too!!!" this invariably leads to them asking how long i've really been working there, how i got started, etc...

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    Default Re: what got you into dancing?

    Quote Originally Posted by Izabella
    I know a lot of you hate this question, but I actually like being asked because that's when I can mention that I am an exhibitionist, that being naked turned me on etc.
    Ask the guy what he does for a living to get the conversation onto jobs, then when you get a chance say; "Well, this is my dream job", and go on to explain you're an exhibitionist.

    You're right in saying you'll sell more dances cos customer fantasy No. 1 is that you'e getting a kick out of it - it helps if you actually are.

    I don't think you'll actually have to tell some guys - your body language will probably make it obvious during a dance anyway.

    Phil.

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    Default Re: what got you into dancing?

    Try this when they don't return the question of what they do for fun:

    You: So, what do you do for fun?

    HIm: Drink beer and watch TV. (Long, dull pause)

    You: Well, You'll never guess what I like to do! I like to get nakid and dance in public! I'm truely an exhibitionist, and being nakid in public turns me on like you wouldn't believe!


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