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    Do you girls find it hard to be motivated to go in to work after you had a bad weekend night??? i walked out of my club with $50 fuckin dollars... My lowest in history... I had been steadily averaging at least 300 a night for the past month.. I guess i need some cheering up before i go in, lets see in one hour... Hopefully i'll come out making some decent money tonite.... Lets hope...

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    Did you have a bad night or did most of the girls you work with have a tough night as well?If everyone had a crap night you shouldn't let it bother you. If you go in and continue to have bad nights I would suggest a tiny vacation if you can afford a break. Go to the pool and work out and just focus on you. That is what I am currently doing! Don't forget the summer season can be slower than usual. It was just a fluke!

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    thanks girl!!! i gotta go in tonite.. but i worked out and tried to chill for an hour...

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    actually to answer your question danielle.. on fri night all the gross fat, extra types were making money... i got fucked...

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    Hm... It's both for me. I get pissed and think I shouldn't go in the next day cuz it'll suck to and there must be something wrong with the club. But, that doesn't usually last long and I go in anyways and try to make up for the shitty time so that I'll feel better.
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    Usually if I have a bad night it usually motivates me more to go in to make up for what I didn't make before. But I do know what you mean, when I'm at work and not having a good night, it is hard to smile and be motivated to want to stay. On nights that I'm having a bad night, I just want to go home but unfortunately in my club with all their rules, they don't let you leave early. I guess that rule in a way is a good thing because it forces me to stay and make more money. One night it was crappy all night and I didn't think I was going to break $100 and then about the last 45 minutes of the night these 2 guys came in who were really generous and I made $150 off of them in a half hour and then my very generous regular got me for the last 3 songs and gave me $100.

    I know it gets really discouraging, especially when the fat, nasty, extra girls are making money but you know why they are. Just try hard to stay positive and that it only takes one customer to make your night. Put on a fake smile and pretend you're having fun. That's what I did last Wednesday (the night that was bad all night except for the last 45 min) and low & behold those customers came up to me, tipped very well, and got dances. I bet if I had been up there looking mad, looking like I was having a bad night they probably wouldn't have tipped me.

    Don't let it get you down too much, we all have bad nights. A friend of mine at my club walked out with $40 last week and I walked out one night with $70. It happens to all of us. I'm sure it happens to the extras girls too!

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    P.S. Good luck hun! I'll be crossing my fingers for you and sending my hustling skills toward you through airwaves! Look yourself in the mirror tonight before you walk out of your house and say outloud "I'm the most beautiful girl in my club, I have the greatest body, I'm the best hustler and every man in there wants ME and wants to spend all his $$$$$ on ME!!!!!!" Say it out loud and mean it, and make sure to wear your favorite, sexiest, highest money making outfit. Do all that and you'll bank tonight!!! I know you will!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    ...One night it was crappy all night and I didn't think I was going to break $100 and then about the last 45 minutes of the night these 2 guys came in who were really generous and I made $150 off of them in a half hour and then my very generous regular got me for the last 3 songs and gave me $100.

    ...I bet if I had been up there looking mad, looking like I was having a bad night they probably wouldn't have tipped me.
    I can't count the times I have seen this happen. The more you have fun onstage, don't worry about the shit going on, just try to enjoy the music and smile, the better off you'll be.

    Don't worry about the ugly fat girls sucking dick--I know it can be frustrating and upsetting, I've seen this shit, trust me--but remember, they're ugly, they're fat, they're sucking smelly dicks--and you're not...

    I know you're at work right now, and can't read this, but I'm sending good thoughts your way right now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    Look yourself in the mirror tonight before you walk out of your house and say outloud "I'm the most beautiful girl in my club, I have the greatest body, I'm the best hustler and every man in there wants ME and wants to spend all his $$$$$ on ME!!!!!!" Say it out loud and mean it, and make sure to wear your favorite, sexiest, highest money making outfit. Do all that and you'll bank tonight!!! I know you will!!!
    ^^^^^ I used to do this!!! Say it and say it and mean it. It especially helps when you're stuck thinking of yourself as that girl with the pimple on her ass or dammit why do i have dandruff i never get dandruff!! or fuck where did that bruise come from? or what's wrong with me? hehe.... It changes your walk and talk i swear.
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    Thanks guys... I did really well last night.... I hate mental slumps.. rrrr..... I broke over 400 last night..... geezz i really needed that.... not bad for a monday night i guess!!!

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    Thats great sweetie! Now keep it up! I kno You can!

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