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    Ok so I've switched clubs as another 2 have opened by mine and its just not as busy as I'm used to so Ive been offered a job in a different town...which is great

    Only problem is, my ex lives in the same town and while i know he doesn't visit the bars often I DO know that he has frequented them.

    Now my predicament is what to do "if" he or his friends ever came in (i wasn't dancing when we were together)?!?!

    Do i treat him like a normal customer? or avoid giving him dances?

    We still speak but only through politeness and i dont want to tell him that im working there...

    Any advice girls? Thanks in advance

    xxx
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    Just ignore him if you see him... He might not even recognize you. If he ever DOES, just shrug it off. Don't make him think you're embarrassed or that you care. If you act like it's no big deal, he'll probably perceive it as such.
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    Default Re: Ex bf's town

    if it makes you that nervous see if your club has a list of people that can't get in at the door i have known some clubs to do this.

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    i doubt they'll not let him in unless you had some kind of restraining order against him, which it sounds like you didn't.. My advice, walk around with confidence, smile, be friendly.. If you act unconfident and afraid that hes there, you'll be frazzled and nervous and loose focus.... He might actually think its hot and sexy that his ex works there.. who knows.....Another question, is he even the type to go in to strip clubs... I know at one point I was deathly afraid I was gonna run in to my ex.. I had a plan and everything.... basically what i typed in up above about smiling and having fun and staying postive when he came... I wouldn't let it stress you out too much.. after all you guys aren't together, he isn't paying your way..... you have to make money somehow and this is the route you've choosen.. he needs to deal with that if he has any kind of problem.....

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    Thanks girls, yeah i thought about the smiling confident one and i think thats my best bet, thats what i do when im confronted with something anyway!! Thanks again xxx
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