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    Angry back down?

    O.k...I decided I want to be a dancer, so I went to a club to check it out it was really nice, I really like it and I was talking to the owner and she was really sweet and she told me to come in and audition whenever I was ready ( but to call first ) But as I was leaving one of the dancers working there told me that if I started working there she would make it hell for me?.....I really like this club and I want to work there......but I don't know if I can tolerate her.....I'm not the type to take shit.....so any Idea's on what I should do?

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    FTB ... go in.

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    ^^^^ ITA! Fuck her.. her saying that would make me wana go in even more. Seriously some women have no class.

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    Report her threat to management!

    The should know of unsafe working conditions




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    oh man if you can handle it go for it. But i 100% gareentee you she is going to make it hell. Just watch and listen for the rumers she may start and make sure your conduct is 100% clean to leave her comments unfounded i mean no lap sitting or anything till you get used to the place.

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    what a fucking jealous bitch... fuck her.. go in and work and disregard her comment.

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    The very fact she said that means you definitely need to go in!

    She was already threatened by you, before you even started working there...

    Odds are you are attractive, and will likely do quite well--or why would she be scared enough to react like that.

    She may be acting like the tough, mean bitch, but only someone who is afraid will try to scare off competition.

    Now, you may want to be prepared to defend yourself, verbally and possibly even physically. Hopefully the owner being female will help the situation--it wouldn't hurt to mention that this dancer had been hostile, and you weren't sure how to handle it. Don't act scared or defensive, but professional--like "how should I deal with this?"

    OTOH it could backfire and make her even more prone to mess with you, but if the owner liked you and is as supportive as she seemed, she'll probably look out for you.

    The experienced dancers here will have better advice for you, I'm sure, as far as dealing with the bitch--but I would stand by my theory that if you threatened her security just by talking about working there, it's for a good reason--that you'll do quite well.
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    Stand your ground! No matter where you go there's going to be people that try to bully other people around. The reason they're bullies is because they really are cowards who feel threatened. I'd go in and hustle my ass off and make a lot of money just to spite her. I've found people like that are all talk and no action. If you look them in the eye, talk to them like you're tough (even if you're not), they'll get scared and back down. People throughout my life have tried to pick on me and I've always stood up for myself and would talk all this shit sounding like I was tough and would rip their head off, etc. and they would then start stuttering over their words and say something stupid like "well, next time you do this....or this is your warning...or something like that". Go in a stand up for yourself, you have to especially in this business or you'll get run over by everyone.

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    That's just fucked up. Obviously she is just intimidated by you for various reasons. Go to that club and show her that your better and bigger than her. Hopefully she will be the one To BACK DOWN.....!!!!!!!

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    If she starts sh*t, her a* s will go out the door. She is old and played out, you are not. There is no such thing as loyalty in the SC biz.

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    i wouldnt bother b out this girl at all .. its your life and you should be able to work where ever you want .. call them go back in and tell them what she said when you audition.. im guessing shes just worried you would bank more then her.. dont let the little things get to you you wont last long if you do.. good luck!

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    jealousy can be a bitch..lol...dont let it bother u, u r better than that

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    OH, You have to go back!! Fuck her, every club has someone like that. Just for that reason alone I would go back in there! Stand your ground, and dont be pushed around!!
    " I've been a bad, bad girl. I've been careless with a delicate man. And it's a sad world when a girl can break a boy, just because she can." Fionna Apple

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    Thanks for your advice...I am going back!...My audtion is monday and she said if I'm good I can start that night!!!! I'm so excited!

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    I'm trying to think of a good song to play that would make your point, lol--but my brain doesn't function at top efficiency until nightfall. I know they are out there...

    Of course, that might be pushing it a bit too far--two wrongs don't make a right, but it would be funny.
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    How about "Bad to the Bone" lol, that's MY sony, not my song that I use in the club, just one that I've liked for me for a long time, ever since I was little.

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