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    ok, so happy freakin bday to me! haha

    i just got a call from my sis in law saying someone sent her an email..here's what it said (btw, it had my maiden AND married names!...) her "email" address started with "[email protected])

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    To: Summer (insert maiden and married last name here) Brother & Sister

    For now, just mild stuff. Please let me know if you would like the swingers profile link, or maybe just ask Aaron and Summer?

    http://myspace.com/hotsummer76

    www.mypolecat.com

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    Ok, so apparently I'm doing something horrible?? And a swingers profile??!! We are NOT swingers! And neither of us has a profile to our knowledge?!

    My sis in law did not know about the pole biz..mainly cause my dh's family is pretty religous and were worried that they might get the wrong idea. so we just never told them that i sell poles on the side..

    so i have her isp addy now and am gonna try to track her/him down...i have to wait for my neighbor to get home though..in the mean time, any tech savy people here that can track things down for me??

    anywho..what i want to know is how in the HELL did someone get my sil's email address, we don't even have the same last name since she's married too! So someone has her maiden and current name, my maiden and current name and i wonder if it got sent to other members of the family..

    i honestly don't know what this person's issue is. I'm a nice person, I don't "think" I've pissed anyone off. So why would someone try to cause problems...on my birthday no less!

    So after thinking, I decided to have my sil respond..i need to know if there are fake profiles of me out there, especially on sites that I wouldn't put profiles on, ya know?

    any suggestions? I certainly don't need any of this getting back to my mother/father in law (pastor btw).

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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    Ah that's shitty, I'm sorry sweetie. I am not tech savvy, so I can't help you with that though. Good luck!
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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    Identifying and tracking someone down using their IP is an enormous undertaking.

    If the message came from their home, then their IP address likely belongs to their ISP and was loaned to them from a large pool. Only the ISP knows which account was using that IP at the time the mail was sent. They won't give you that information either. Legal action would have to be undertaken.

    They might have even sent the mail from an Internet cafe, in which case there's no way to determine who sent it.

    I don't do Internet detective work myself, so don't take my advice as gospel. There may be a way to do it, but I don't know how.

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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    this is just weird. i was talking to my neighbor, and

    1. either this person has WAY too much time on their hands to track my sil down

    or

    2. it's someone that knows me and her and would think that that side of the family would object somehow

    i love researching/investigating...so this will just be my new project! lol

    who knows..maybe their reading this right now...duh duh duunnnn lol





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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    email back a very legal-sounding letter with "cease and desist" etc in it...family harrasment, etc....

    PM me for more ideas

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    Pro, i will, once i get a little more info on this sad little being. lol





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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    This isn't really blackmail... if they wanted money or something else from you personally this would have been sent to you way before it was sent to your sister-in-law. It seems to me that the only kind of person who would have a motive to take action against you in this personal and vindictive manner is someone who specifically wants to make trouble in your marriage. You need to talk to your husband about this, especially if you're drawing blanks as to who this could be... they seem to know an awful lot about your situation to be a random stranger.
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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    ok, blackmail wasn't the right word...lol i just couldn't think of a better one haha

    this won't cause ANY probs with the marriage at all. I am very open with him, he knows everything that I do..he thinks it may be her too (it's his brothers wife). he will fight for me over his family ANY day. So I'm not worried about that in the least.

    I did do a search on the isp..it's coming from chandler, az...she used to live in az and knows quite a few people due to her boys' ice hockey. plus having a friend do this would keep it off of her, kwim? she tends to play the "i'm innocent, woe is me" card A LOT. I just ignore her now after having issues in the past. I'm am soooooo not dramatic/catty, so i just leave her be...but i think that pisses her off! lolol





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    I know this is seriously to the side of the issue, but it's a pretty profile, so that's kind of nice. I wonder how they got 142 friends. have you put your name into myspace and had this profile come up? This has taken awhile....odd.

    ooooooOOOOooo! she's mean if she did this. especially saying your weakness was talking too much and your fear was losing your family.


    ^oops. sorry. I thought someone made a fake myspace profile pretending to be you.

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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    I was going to suggest that you consder those who know you. It takes a lot of time (and I do mean A LOT) to identify someone that you don't know!!

    If someone tracked you down, based on a web page, then they knew something about you, or perhaps a lot about you. If they knew enough, they won't even need the web page!

    Now that you have identified them, it's time to deal with it. I'm not sure what to suggest, but I'm sure I can come up with something!!

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    lol fancy, no, that's mine profile. i had to make some of my blog stuff private yesterday though, because there is some stuff i don't want my parents in law seeing (like going to to sc's, bi-curiosity, etc, etc, etc...)

    ncl, after sleeping on it, it has to be her.. this woman is NUTS! i've been ignoring her for a while now because of all the issues she's caused with me and the rest of the family. it would seriously take a LOT of research to figure out that me and my other sis in law are related...if not impossible since we don't run in the same circles. plus, i talked to my mom and my sister and niether of them got this email...so it HAS to be someone that knows me and my family in law. it just has to be her...but i'm gonna play her game a bit..just cause i find it somewhat amusing that she'd go this far. plus i need to see if there are profiles of me out there that were made without my consent.

    i even changed my passwords on my emails..just in case





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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    sassysummer, i'll take a look at it if you wish. Pm me if you wish.

    Please understand that its fairly easy to find info on people when they leave internet trails. Which makes me think.... with all the goings-on about Myspace, perhaps StripperWeb should rethink their policies about what certian kinds of info is allowed to be shown.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    yeah..anyone can find me..but not my sis in law...she does not spend really any time on the internet..no web pages, doesn't belong to groups etc.. connecting us would be damn near impossible without spending lots of money for a pi.





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    You should hire a lawyer to find out your options.

    I did in exactly this situation. He ended up reporting numerous harassment incidents to the FBI cybercrime division. The perp was not informed of the investigation. These things may seem stupid and minimal, but once you report them to the feds they are somewhat duty bound to go nuts. They didn't before 9/11 and they are paying for that mistake.

    Identity theft is no joke. Maybe the perp had no malicious intention, but the feds won't be taking any chances. Document suspicious online sites.

    Even if in the the Feds take no action, the perp's prank sites will forever put them on an FBI watch list.

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    Default Re: i think someone is trying to blackmail me..

    Gosh, Sassy, you're famous! Now the tabloids are coming after you to "expose" you hidden secrets!

    Is it really that big of deal if your in-laws learn about you selling stripper poles online as exercise equipment? Are they like Shi'ite Muslims or something?

    Of course your private sex life should remain private. That is your business and yours alone. You probably have no desire to hear about their sex lives either.

    You should let your sis-in-law know she isn't so sneaky, and laugh in her face over it. People do things like that to get you freaked out, and if you don't care, that is the worst possible reaction for the petty person starting the BS.


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    Quote Originally Posted by WiseGuy_TX
    sassysummer, i'll take a look at it if you wish. Pm me if you wish.

    Please understand that its fairly easy to find info on people when they leave internet trails. Which makes me think.... with all the goings-on about Myspace, perhaps StripperWeb should rethink their policies about what certian kinds of info is allowed to be shown.
    In this case I'll agree with you WiseGuy.

    However it isn't always easy to find and/or deal with this type of thing. Going after someone in a foreign juristiction can be next to impossible. In this case we're on-continent (US and Canada), so it can be taken care of.

    It sounds like this woman is crazy, or is carrying a grudge. So she's probably not being too careful about covering her tracks. Taking her down should be straightforward. You never know though...

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    Of course I'm famous...haven't you heard!! lol j/k

    no it's not a "big" deal about me selling the poles..wait till I start teaching it! HAHA. BUT, they are gonna see that I'm friends with you sinful strippers off of myspace and i'm sure i'll get a "lecture" or some kind of looking down upon me for it...that's the kind of shit that irritates me!

    well, so far we haven't received an email back. if we don't get a response back by wed, i'm gonna call them out on it and report her to the email company and her isp...

    it has to be her..there is just too much pointing to her.





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    SON OF A BITCH! IT IS HER! I am LIVID right now!

    So i had a bit of time and decided to go find the ip addy in my web site tracker...i have the best tracker, it gives me all sorts of info..

    anywho..first i found the one that sent the email and gave her a label..then i remembered that my husband told me that my crazy sil has some local company (they are in alaska btw..so that was EASY) for their isp..lo and behold, right next to the one that sent the email was HER ALASKAN ISP!! So I labeled hers...she has been sitting on this for almost a month! I know it's her cause she mostly spends her time in the "about me" section and then viewed the video..

    I don't know what to do! I think my husband needs to talk to his brother about her! She is FUCKED UP! What is wrong with her. I swear I don't even talk to her except during holidays! She's fucked with me before and I forgave her..but I don't think I can this time. Why is she messing with me? I have done NOTHING to her!

    I need to call her out. I don't know if I should email her and say "so you want a pole? huh..all you had to do was ask.." lol or just be a bitch right back and tell her she needs to watch her step cause I can fuck things up even more for her (she's on thin ice already with the family) with the family.

    This is just WRONG! She is 32 years old..she needs to fucking GROW UP!


    GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR





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    D'oh! That seriously sucks...hope you get it all figured out!

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    Let it go.

    Chances are she's in far more pain than you understand.

    Walk away.

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    Soooo uhhh since you found out who's blackmailing you... Can I start?!

    I'm just saying.... if the position's open.... I'd love to apply...
    I wont tell anyone about your erectile dysfunction tho... I promise!



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    sportsfan..that's true..she is messed up big time...but someone HAS to confront her on this! she has run all over my mother in law, blaming her for stuff...

    my crazy sil is "never" to blame..she always turns things around so SHE is the victim. Someone HAS to call her on it. Everyone has been scared because she's unstable..and "what if it puts her "over the the edge"? I am sick of it...she has made it personal now and is trying to hurt me and my relationship with my inlaws (which is just fine and she's jealous up)...so she has made her bed and now she needs to lie in it.





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    LOL MAST! you can apply..but i'm sure the position will be filled by my crazy sil for a while! i'll let you know when the position comes open.





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    Ok, cause all those I blackmail get free spankins!
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    hmmm...maybe i can open a blackmail assistant position??

    however, the stalker position is still open if you'd like to apply..





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