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    Ok, so a few weeks ago, I'm chilling at the bar with the bartender and I say, "dam that looks like my teacher Mr. __________" Upon inspection I realize it is indeed him, so I retreat in the back so that I dont' have to get on stage. The rest of the night, I avoided him, and his "area" as much as possible.

    Last week in class was my last night in his class. My class is small ( about 15 of us) and we all sit in the same seats. Anywho, he just kept looking at me as he lectured . I look TOTALLY different stripper self vs. real self, but I'm starting to think he knows the truth.

    So anyway, I worked Thurs and sure enough he was in here AGAIN. This time I was talking with a customer about a dance, and here come the Prof walking up on me..I tried so hard to giggle and smile with my customer (while hustling) and I kept playing with my hair, to conceal my face to the teach.

    Don't you know this f***er came in again last night?! I was floored. It seemed like everwhere in the room I went he was, just at a distance. WTF is going on? I'm trying really hard to not let him know it's me. All the floor guys joke with me and say "hey maybe you'll get an A"







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    Sounds dangerous. Even if you did dance for him things can get ugly fast. You would hate to have to go through some my-teacher-gave-me-a-bad-grade-because-Im-a-stripper fight. Id still avoid his ass like he has the plague. If he brings it up at any time tell him you have no idea what he is talking about. I would deny deny deny.
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    Maybe you will get an A! Sorry but that is a pretty funny joke, don't get mad. Gosh, I'm sorry to hear that Cinn!!! I seriously don't know what I would do. Maybe the next time he comes in, you should just go up & say something. My friend who used to dance told me if someone I know ever comes in you have 2 options: You can either A) avoid them & give them the power or B) go up to them & take the power from them. I bet he feels just as weird as you do and maybe him coming in again was going to be a way for him to make things right with you. Maybe he felt weird in class just as much as you do or maybe he's not sure it's you and that's why he was staring. Maybe while lecturing he was thinking to himself, my student looks a lot like that dancer at XYZ club, and maybe that's why he went back just to see. I doubt it has anything to do with being a stalker or anything like that. If he comes back in, go up to him & totally play it off like "Hi, Professor ____! It's nice to see you, gosh you look so different than you do in class, I didn't know you come here, blah, blah, blah. MAKE HIM FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE!!!!! Take your power back & away from him because as long as you avoid him, he has the power but the moment you make him feel weird, he'll leave & you have the power. Remember, the custy's are coming into our home, they are guests in our place & we have the power in everything. We have the power to remove them, to make them feel weird when we want, etc. I guarantee when you do that, he won't come back in there and you probably will get an A anyway! Keep us posted on how it goes!!! Good luck hun!

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    Confronting the problem is the best solution. I know your a girl but if you explain to the man in a proffessional manner that this is your job you might even get a good inteligent converasation going and when he sees that you are a real down to earth person and not a sex crazed goddess you will be both better off. By the way is this full nude or topless? Also if there is contact at this bar and it is full nude there could be some ethics issues. Teachers are supposed to hold themselves up to a higher moral standerd then the rest of us by most states teacher cerytification laws.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    Sounds dangerous. Even if you did dance for him things can get ugly fast. You would hate to have to go through some my-teacher-gave-me-a-bad-grade-because-Im-a-stripper fight. Id still avoid his ass like he has the plague. If he brings it up at any time tell him you have no idea what he is talking about. I would deny deny deny.

    Come to think of it, maybe Tigermilk is right. I didn't think of it that way. Gosh, I don't know what I'd do, I'd be pretty freaked out too. Maybe avoiding him is the best thing. Is it possible that you can pay off or tip really really well the door guy from allowing him to come in the club? I know that sounds totally crazy but maybe you could tell him the circumstances. I don't know! Maybe you could have another dancer have him kicked out? Would that be a good idea or do you all think he'd know & it would back fire?

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    Maybe you will get an A! Sorry but that is a pretty funny joke, don't get mad. Gosh, I'm sorry to hear that Cinn!!! I seriously don't know what I would do. Maybe the next time he comes in, you should just go up & say something. My friend who used to dance told me if someone I know ever comes in you have 2 options: You can either A) avoid them & give them the power or B) go up to them & take the power from them. I bet he feels just as weird as you do and maybe him coming in again was going to be a way for him to make things right with you. Maybe he felt weird in class just as much as you do or maybe he's not sure it's you and that's why he was staring. Maybe while lecturing he was thinking to himself, my student looks a lot like that dancer at XYZ club, and maybe that's why he went back just to see. I doubt it has anything to do with being a stalker or anything like that. If he comes back in, go up to him & totally play it off like "Hi, Professor ____! It's nice to see you, gosh you look so different than you do in class, I didn't know you come here, blah, blah, blah. MAKE HIM FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE!!!!! Take your power back & away from him because as long as you avoid him, he has the power but the moment you make him feel weird, he'll leave & you have the power. Remember, the custy's are coming into our home, they are guests in our place & we have the power in everything. We have the power to remove them, to make them feel weird when we want, etc. I guarantee when you do that, he won't come back in there and you probably will get an A anyway! Keep us posted on how it goes!!! Good luck hun!
    What a most entertaining post! Yes, go play mind games with your professor - who is doing something perfectly legal.

    Heck, the dude is probably like "Is that who I think it is or not?!?!"

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    HOLY CRAP, girl!!! Did he seem to approach in an open friendly way or a weird follow you all night to get a glimpse way? If the former then I think leo and train are right because he probably means no harm and is just a bit curious or titillated. If it's the latter then it may be better not to interact at all. If you can have him barred then maybe you can suggest to him that it's innappropriate for him to come there while you are in his class. I have to say it sounds pretty creepy to me.

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    And being a teacher, he probably wouldn't want anyone to know that he's in there too! That could possiby put his job in jeapardy too, if not his job then his reputation could be at stake! So maybe, he's in there to get things cleared up & to make sure it is you. He can't pull you aside after class and say "I hope you didn't feel weird me seeing you naked at the club the other night......" Because if it turned out you weren't the one, he'd be faced with sexual harrassment, etc. So maybe that's why he's come in the club a second time to try to talk to you, see if for sure that is you & not your twin sister or someone who looks like you & get things on a good level. Now this is all a maybe, I don't know for sure.

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    A good friend once told me, "It's only weird if you make it weird."

    I would say, just go about your business and act like nothing's wrong. As another person said, he's in your office, not the other way around!

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    I would probably go up and strike up a conversation with him, but that's just me. I don't think I've ever had a professor that would care. Universities are famously liberal environments, and they understand we have to pay the bills without taking a 9-to-5.

    He probably didn't recognize you though and is trying to figure out whether it really is you. We do look VERY different with our warpaint on. Recently I freaked out because one of my bosses came into the club and I recognized him as I landed off the pole with my pussy right in his face! I had a huge conniption fit over what to do, and I finally approached him, and it turned out he hadn't recognized me at all.

    They're usually just looking at "strippers" and it doesn't even enter their minds that the made-up stripper could actually be a person with a life outside the club. And if they DO recognize you, then I wouldn't be worried about a college professor. They generally understand.

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    HAHAHA!!! I had that happen once after I had just graduated high school, my English teacher had come into the club where I was working. The others are right...go up to him and take the power and put him on the spot. Mind you I had just finished with my teacher's class, but I still went up to say hello. If I remeber right I went up to him and said "Hello Mr. XYZ. Just wanted to say hello and let you know that I had enjoyed your class. Now that your in MY "classroom" I hope you enjoy your lessons here."**WINK**.
    I think he shit his pants on the spot! It was too funny. He didn't know what to say or do! Relish the power girl....



    And yes...I had already earned my "A"......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist
    HOLY CRAP, girl!!! Did he seem to approach in an open friendly way or a weird follow you all night to get a glimpse way?
    Thanks for the responses guys. Yea, it is pretty weird and it makes me uncomforatable. I dont' know what do to. I find myself spending more time trying to figure out if he's in my vicinity than actually scoping out the customers. I'm constantly watching my back.

    Well, it's not like he's just following me around like some sick puppy dog, he's just in the "area" all the time. I think he checks me out, but I never let him just "walk up on me" either.

    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    Maybe you will get an A!
    Ha, I just went to the mailbox and my grades where in there. I DID get an A







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    Well, now that the grades are in and no doubt you earned your A as well. Im not much for comfrontation when stuff is on the line but now that you have your grades I would say something like the other posters suggested. Just walk up, speak, smile/laugh, walk away.
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    Hi Cinnamon:
    Hope you don't mind me responding even though I'm a guy. I work as a professor. I frequent strip clubs a few times a year usually when I'm away on business. Professors, somewhat like strippers for their customers, have a performance persona for their students. As a professor you're supposed to be wise, diginified, etc. Not a strip club customer. I would be extremely embarrased to run in to a student of mine in a strip club. There's nothing wrong with going to a strip club, it's just not the type of behavior associate with professors. So your professor is probably just as embarrassed as you, maybe even more so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon
    A good friend once told me, "It's only weird if you make it weird."

    I would say, just go about your business and act like nothing's wrong. As another person said, he's in your office, not the other way around!

    I agree he hasn't done anything threatening or stalker-like and you aren't even sure if he noticed you.

    I know everyone here is concerned for your safety, but a few of these posts may have 'jumped the gun'. Anyway, I'm sure you'll figure something out.

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    He has far more to loose then you.
    I would not sweat it. Say "hi" if you want and let him know his work and your work are seperate places. Once you intorduce yourself the burden is on him. If his grade relects anything other then your performance his job is at stake.
    Good luck

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    No he doesn't have anything to lose, trust me. Mostly nobody cares what professors do outside of their job.

    And to the poster that mentioned certification. There's no such thing for professors. No certification and no license are necessary. The professoriate is extremely liberal-minded, meaning they have an open mind and being in a strip club is not a big deal. And, no it will not affect their job even if their colleagues find out. Remember they're not high school teachers.

    To Cinnamon: You probably look a little different in the club compared to real life. Your professor probably recognizes you a little but is not sure which is why he follows you around the club in order to get a better look at your face. You should just go up and say hello, but whatever you do, do not give him a private dance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    Recently I freaked out because one of my bosses came into the club and I recognized him as I landed off the pole with my pussy right in his face! I had a huge conniption fit over what to do, and I finally approached him, and it turned out he hadn't recognized me at all.

    Heh heh... I had told a friend who danced once "Don't worry - they aren't looking at your face!"

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    wow thats pretty crazy! i was going to say,, wait until you get your grade before you make it known to him who you are..

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    Be careful! An ethical professor who thought he saw one of his students working in a strip club would NOT return to that club. The way he keeps coming back makes it seem like this guy is not totally on the up and up. You don't want to be in postition where he may proposition you, or worse. Don't forget that in many cases, if shit goes down, no one believes what some "trashy stripper"says about someone in his position. Use caution here!!!

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    I agree with zabrina. Not so much with train. it's one thing if you KNOW the guy's a professor but something completely different if he was just your professor...
    I think that if any of my teachers (except for the known perverts) came into a club I was working at, and kept returning (while I knew he was scoping me out each time) then yeah--my spidey sense would be tingling too. This guy is NOT on the up and up and I bet that he probably will at some point either ask for a dance or hint that he'd like one.

    I'm extremely relieved for you though that you're done with the class. I would do my damndest not to take anymore classes from him.

    Here's a side note to address a variable that might be affecting this situation:
    When you're working and he comes in, are you the only African American dancer? Or one of the few? Perhaps he's looking at you because he's attracted to you more than the blonde, hispanic, or whatever girls and NOT because he recognizes you.

    If you are NOT the only African American dancer, I would enlist the aid of one of the other dancers and have them approach him to suss out what his "type" is. Who knows? Perhaps he'll start asking about you and saying he knows you and then you'll know for sure that he recognized you.

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    I would personally avoid him, but I am totally risk adverse. Sorry that you have to deal with this.

    Good luck.

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    I had a similar problem my very last semester of school. My chemistry prof kept coming into the Cheetah. I did the same thing I avoided, ran, ignored but it finally escalted to him asking me if that was me at the club after class one day. I tried to play it off but he was so insistant. I felt so weird. After about three more days of class and about two more trips of him in the club do the "shadow thing" I dropped the class. The bad thing is that it delayed my graduation b/c I dropped the class. I didn't want to get anyone in trouble at the time but now I wish I had spoke up to someone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fancygirl
    Here's a side note to address a variable that might be affecting this situation:
    When you're working and he comes in, are you the only African American dancer? Or one of the few? Perhaps he's looking at you because he's attracted to you more than the blonde, hispanic, or whatever girls and NOT because he recognizes you.
    I am the only black girl at my club. So far, I've noticed him get dances from 2 girls who have totally different looks.

    ***Side note*** He came into the club again tonight







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    So what do you want to do? Obviously he's going to keep coming in, but since you're not in his class anymore, you've got to do something. otherwise you're just going to stay tense and work yourself up over this.

    If you confirm that it's you, what could happen? Does anyone else at school know? are you afraid that he'll tell?

    I'm not necessarily worried on a escalating stalker type situation for you, but as a teacher, he's used to being in control. He's exercising very poor decision making in continually coming into the club and drawing attention to himself by focusing on you enough that you notice.

    If the analysis goes a little farther, here's a guy used to having power around men and women of your age. Put him in a situation where there's a lot of sexual power flying around and he probably thinks that he gets to exercise the same amount of power over you that he does in the classroom. I think that if he's coming in this often (and he didn't used to) then he's doing it because he gets a kick out of having that power over you and making you uncomfortable in a sexual environment (whereas in the classroom he has to worry about sexual harrassment all the time, in this environment he doesn't.)

    He could be totally innocuous, but either way, he's being an idiot and must know that his presence makes you uncomfortable. And yet he KEEPS coming in.

    What are you going to do about that so your workplace becomes comfortable for you to work in again?

    sidenote: if you trust any of the girls, have them approach him, pretend to be a student at the college, and ask him, "hey aren't you Mr. so-and-so? My boyfriend took your class last semester" and then go from there. Maybe having him recognized will scare him off without necessarily having to get yourself directly involved.

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