
Originally Posted by
leogirl876
Maybe you will get an A! Sorry but that is a pretty funny joke, don't get mad. Gosh, I'm sorry to hear that Cinn!!! I seriously don't know what I would do. Maybe the next time he comes in, you should just go up & say something. My friend who used to dance told me if someone I know ever comes in you have 2 options: You can either A) avoid them & give them the power or B) go up to them & take the power from them. I bet he feels just as weird as you do and maybe him coming in again was going to be a way for him to make things right with you. Maybe he felt weird in class just as much as you do or maybe he's not sure it's you and that's why he was staring. Maybe while lecturing he was thinking to himself, my student looks a lot like that dancer at XYZ club, and maybe that's why he went back just to see. I doubt it has anything to do with being a stalker or anything like that. If he comes back in, go up to him & totally play it off like "Hi, Professor ____! It's nice to see you, gosh you look so different than you do in class, I didn't know you come here, blah, blah, blah. MAKE HIM FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE!!!!! Take your power back & away from him because as long as you avoid him, he has the power but the moment you make him feel weird, he'll leave & you have the power. Remember, the custy's are coming into our home, they are guests in our place & we have the power in everything. We have the power to remove them, to make them feel weird when we want, etc. I guarantee when you do that, he won't come back in there and you probably will get an A anyway! Keep us posted on how it goes!!! Good luck hun!
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