I mean I have self confidence that I can do it but my first time on stage I will be a nervous reck! LOL
Were any of you like this?![]()
I mean I have self confidence that I can do it but my first time on stage I will be a nervous reck! LOL
Were any of you like this?![]()





Yes I was terrified and sick to my stomach. But everytime I got up there it got easier. Soon you'll get over the scared feeling. :-)





YES! I was shaking so bad before my first show I could barely hold a glass! But don't worry, it doesn't last long! Once they start cheering for you and the lights are flashing you'll forget how nervous you were! And every time, it gets easier.
Good luck!
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You'll get over it. My first night i refused to dance until my friend got there which wasnt until like 10 when arrived at 7and i was shit outta luck cuz she didnt come the nect night go figure!
omg girl, my first time on stage i was soo scared! i tried to do some stupid pole trick (id never even touched a pole LOL) and it looked so retarted! it ended up looking like some little weak spin around the pole and to make it worse i tried to spin down into a split but my boots slid to the side LOL!!! so it ended up looking very very funny!!!!!! just dont try anything new on the pole your first time! lol its not as easy as u think!




Just move slow and sexy! Stay on the floor if your knees are shaking. Last thing you want to do is fall on your very first set on stage. But if it happens just smile, laugh, and blow it off. You'll get over your nerves when you start having guys coming up to tip you!![]()
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Hey babe,
I remember my 1st time yes I was very nervous but I love 2 dance so if ur the same u will be fine just think ur @ a nite club & add the touching moves & ur there just feel the music. I spilt 3 guys drink & didnt take my bra off till the last minute lol but hey in the end it was all I wanted 2 do was get up there & strut my stuff.
It helps if you
a ) pick your own music
b ) wear an outfit that makes you feel like you own the place
c ) have a mantra that you say in your head.... (ie., I'm beautiful and sexy and I can do this!)
Good luck.
I'll bet there are hundreds of girls who think to themselves that they'd love to strip and be worshipped and showered with money - but that they'd be terrified. Until yesterday, I was one of them too. What separates girls for whom it is a reality from girls who just fantasize is having the guts to swallow your fears, take the risk and audition. There's no point delaying for a 'right' time, just take a deep breath and jump. Remember that things are NEVER as bad as you build them up to be in your head, so tell that negative, doubtful little voice in your head to shut the hell up, go out and live your life to its fullest!
Thanks everyone for your help![]()
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