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    Last night at work a customer wanted to rent out a VIP room for an hour... Initially I was excited about it, bc I had just gotten to work and I would have made $350 off the bat... So we go up and it was the worst experience of my life...The first dance I did for him, he immediately put his mouth to my nipple.. He did it before I could stop him... I pushed his face away and told him to stop, that he can't touch me.. Only I can touch him..... I decided to calm him down and said if you do it again our little private vip session would be over.... I guess I just feel disgusting, that some random tried to suck on my boob up there.. I know shit happens, but I have a bf whom I love and it sickened me.... I know I am not the one to blame, bc I didn't know this individual was going to lunge forward and unexpectedly do this.... Luckily the session was cut off early because I had to go on stage for four of the songs... I guess I'm just more upset bc these days guys expect a lot when they rent out VIP rooms.... I always am nervous up there and afraid of these kind of situations to occur..... I just felt so violated and dirty last night for something that happened... Any advice girls...

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    What a fun way to start the night! I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Does your club require up-front payment? It would especially suck if you lost out on the entire amount because of that! Also, do you get taken out of the rotation on stage when in VIP? My home club may not be perfect, but those two things always happen.
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    Sorry that happened to you. I worked last night and something similar happen to me. I was dancing for a really fat disgusting older man, and when I sat down I could feel his erection through his very thin pants. Completely grossed me out. I stayed away from his crotch, but he kept asking to kiss me throughout the dances. I wanted to vomit. Not as bad as boob suck, but I know that gross feeling your talking about. It makes you feel disgusting that a man thinks he can just do that. Just try to remember that he is the disgusting one, sucking on some strangers boob that for all he knows your BF nutted on right before work, or a million other custys before him sucked on. (of course they didn't but still)
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    A guy grabbed my kitty a few weeks ago and this was when I go completely nude so he touched it naked! I had nightmares about that! My club requires up front payment for VIP so at least I got his money & we were only back there like 10 min so I'm glad the f&cker lost money but no amount of money takes away that nasty, violated feeling! So sorry that happened to you! I've not had the boob sucked on yet. What a sick, desperate MF! Those types of guys I think are rapists and child molesters, those internet predator types! I'm convinced!

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    Sometimes , in the case of strip clubs, I think that VIP stands for VERY IGNORANT PERVERT
    because guys think hat when they get back there...they are going to get the full sexual treatment...and I guess maybe that is what the set up is supposed to make them think..but always get your money up front and if you're back there for a long time then just institute massages.

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    Do you think you may have been more in control if you made him buy a couple of dances before VIP?

    Just a thought - I prefer to establish a body english rapport with a gal for a dance or two to check out her comfort level before allowing her to take me to the VIP. Personally, I don't like being in the VIP with a gal who I can tell is nervous. I also think it's a bit presumptuous to ask for an hour session in the VIP up front.


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    Same thing happened to me, I was doing a couch dance and the guy's mouth was about an inch away from my nipple. Luckily I caught him and I moved back AND pushed him away and told him no. I too am very in love with my fiance and I felt really gross afterward. But the guy that tried to do it was super gross so I just went to the back and talked to the other girls about him and we all laughed at him.. I still felt really gross, but it wasn't my fault, just like it wasn't yours!

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    Its a common thing to happen here. I just push the guys head back and go 'Well I hope you enjoy the saliva of every other guy I danced for tonight' and continue on. It used to get me super upset but i've just learned to shrug it off now and go to the changing room after to wash my nipples.

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    I worked at a club where the Champange Rooms were so closed off from the rest of the club that I felt unsafe in them. I just never tried to sell them, unless I knew the customer for awhile and they were VERY aware of my boundaries. Otherwise, I stuck with $20 dances on the floor or 3/$100 in the couch room.

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    ^^

    Yes I know what this is like. At one club, I stoped trying to sell the rooms because the customers were expecting way too much and would try to grab my hooch -- in the first song back there too.

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    A lot of the time I don't bother selling them because they expect so much more and I therefore find it so much more stressful.

    I had a customer totally make me feel gross. We had just finished a dance and he had been extremely grabby and when we finished asked for a hug. Why I said yes, I don' t know *note to self, be more assertive* and as he went to hug me he grabbed my boob and squeezed hard. It was so slimey!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 242_fair
    ^^

    Yes I know what this is like. At one club, I stoped trying to sell the rooms because the customers were expecting way too much and would try to grab my hooch -- in the first song back there too.
    ^THAT is why you get your money up front, if they cross the line you kick them out & you keep the money.

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    A similar situation happened to me last year. I was dancing for a very old oriental man that was a regular to our club and I had danced for before without any problem. As I was dancing his mouth latched on to my nipple. I was freaked and tryed to pull away but he was sucking so hard that when i pulled away, his mouth came with me! I actually had to bash his head away!! The worst thing about the situation was when I finally pushed his mouth off of me there was a big icky trail of saliva running between my nipple and his mouth!! I went a bit mad and slapped him in the face and screamed for the bouncer. I just couldnt believe that I had this little old mans spit all over me.
    Luckily nothing like that has happened to me since but I do find it funny now when i see guys opening theyre mouths trying to snatch my nipples. Im so aware of something like that happening again that i keep a close eye.
    We have a name for these guys in our club now. Theyre always known as "goldfish" or "apple bobbers."
    Im sorry this happened to you hon, its happened to us all, next time just imagine the guys head is a giant goldfish, at least you might get a wee laugh!



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    Quote Originally Posted by azcustomer
    Do you think you may have been more in control if you made him buy a couple of dances before VIP?

    Just a thought - I prefer to establish a body english rapport with a gal for a dance or two to check out her comfort level before allowing her to take me to the VIP. Personally, I don't like being in the VIP with a gal who I can tell is nervous. I also think it's a bit presumptuous to ask for an hour session in the VIP up front.

    well the person asked me for the vip for an hour.... i hadn't yet danced for him until we got up there...

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    Azcustomer it's honest to ask a performer what her boundaries are instead of attempting to "read" them. Are you afraid of the word NO?

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotisch23
    ^THAT is why you get your money up front, if they cross the line you kick them out & you keep the money.
    If you ask a guy for money up front in Toronto the customer will say 'Fuck you' and walk away. Its not a common thing here at all, same with stage tipping, tipping for dances etc..

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    Here too Cally.

    I have to admit, when I was a newbie I thought what the now referred to as extras girls were doing was OK (IE tame stuff like nipple sucking, not sex, etc.). I was clueless; I thought that wasn't that bad...

    Now I have definetly learned my lesson...yuck!

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    I've sucked on a couple dancers boobs during regular lap dances and they didn't seem to mind.
    One even offered me the other nipple when I stopped with the first tittie.

    Either you girls are really uptight or I'm really hot.

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    I love the ornate, jeweled rings that go around the nipple. If anyone tried to pull an "apple bobber" they'd feel like they had a mouth full of gravel.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten
    A similar situation happened to me last year. I was dancing for a very old oriental man that was a regular to our club and I had danced for before without any problem. As I was dancing his mouth latched on to my nipple. I was freaked and tryed to pull away but he was sucking so hard that when i pulled away, his mouth came with me! I actually had to bash his head away!! The worst thing about the situation was when I finally pushed his mouth off of me there was a big icky trail of saliva running between my nipple and his mouth!! I went a bit mad and slapped him in the face and screamed for the bouncer. I just couldnt believe that I had this little old mans spit all over me.
    That's fucking disgusting! Good lord!

    I hate when guys get their tounges ANYWHERE on my body! (Ugh, even their hands! Lord only knows...) I buy Wet Ones in bulk and keep them in my bag.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist
    Azcustomer it's honest to ask a performer what her boundaries are instead of attempting to "read" them. Are you afraid of the word NO?


    As a customer I agree. I find that the dancer is more relaxed and fun if I ask up front what the rules are and I show I am gong to respect the boundaries. It makes the dancing more about fun and less about games.



    Licking nips. Yeah sounded like fun until reading here several years ago made me think about the fact that if she is going to let me lick, I am probably indirectly licking the spit of every guy who danced with her that night. Makes be amazed at those customers that brag about more intimate licking they have accomplished.

    The whole problem with VIPs is that they are viewed as, and tend to get sold as, more intimate areas where customers can get away with more. I have met dancers who flat out tell me in the beginning that they will not do VIPS and others who suggest them and strongly intimate that a lot more will happen back there. When pushed some agree that not much more will happen but we can be more "private". Fair enough. Then we both understand the rules.


    Sorry this had to happen to you all

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    That's fucking disgusting! Good lord!

    I hate when guys get their tounges ANYWHERE on my body!
    Yeah, but you've heard the old wive's tale... dogs are supposed to have very clean mouths.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 8TJ
    Licking nips. Yeah sounded like fun until reading here several years ago made me think about the fact that if she is going to let me lick, I am probably indirectly licking the spit of every guy who danced with her that night.
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