I work at an air dance club. It's not about who gives the best grind or FS. When I am rejected, it is for one of two reasons:
1. The customer does not find the way I look attractive.
2. The customer does not find my personality attractive.
It's not supposed to be personal if a guy doesn't want to spend an hour with me, but it is! When he says no, he tells me that he does not want me around for the next 10+ minutes. My company is not his idea of fun.
Logically, I know that it is impossible for me to connect with everyone who walks through the door. If I connect with 25%, I'm doing great. The prom queen is lucky to get 25% of the votes. A customer has to really like me, and at least on some level for me to like him, for us to have a good time in the VIP rooms or for a single dance. Otherwise, it's a labor for both of us. That said, rejection still hurts! I hate being reminded that not everyone finds me fun or pretty.



Reply With Quote
)


Bookmarks