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    PhillyDancer1982
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    Angry What is it with these bitches lately???

    OK as someone who thinks and acts similarly to a guy, I generally get in most of my fights with guys. I rarely get into "cat fights" with girls LOL. But this week, it seems that all of the most obnoxious asshole girls are starting trouble with me for literally no reason at all!

    It started a few days ago when I was checking the updates on my myspace site. Some stupid shithead that I used to be friends with but hates me now, apparently tricked her way onto my friends list(it was an accident that she ever got on) and left nasty comments about me on my blog. This was a girl, let's call her Whoria, who is petty, immature, and kinda a bum lol. I was good friends with her in high school and the beginning part of college, until she started hating me for made-up reasons. She tries to find reasons to "hate" people just so she can have drama and excitement in her mundane, unemployed lazy life. Yeah we've annoyed each other and retaliated about stuff before, but all of a sudden outta the blue? WTF? Now I didn't really care at all about what she wrote(it was some petty stuff, nothing witty or clever or original), but the idea that my most recent ex-boyfriend claims that she is his "friend."

    My ex-boyfriend claims that he still loves me and that it was "all my fault" that our relationship ended; yet he also insists that he will keep Whoria as a friend both in real life and on his myspace site? That is disrespectful to me. It shows that he condones what Whoria does, by flaming me and overall dissing me. Moreover, it makes me look like a fool. Plus, it was only a few weeks ago that he was bitching about the lesbian picture that I had on MY myspace site, or some of HIS anti-friends that are on my friends list, and so I changed those things on my site to appease him. WHY is this so one-sided? So the other day, I pulled the "trump card" by saying "It's me or her. You keep her, then I'm not giving you a ride to the job interview that you made me promise to you." He strongly disagreed. I got mad and threatened to hook up with his brother's friend and Whoria's guy friend(people who I've found attractive for a while but purposely avoided because I didn't want it to get back to my ex and hurt his feelings). But like an idiot, I still gave him his ride, simply because I felt bad that he didn't have a car that day.

    So after bitching and arguing with my ex during the whole car ride to his job interview, not to mention wasting 3hrs of my day waiting for him at this lousy interview, I go to work. I'm putting on a cheerful attitude, and whaddyaknow...another stupid bitch fucks with me. This dancer calls me over, where she's standing with another dancer and asks me who was my surgeon(for breast implants). I told her, and she slaps the other girl's chest and tells her, "Don't go to that doctor" and struts away. ASSHOLE! So I mutter under my breath, "A lot of guys like them, that's why I can get more ass than a toilet seat." Yes, I was acting overly egotistic, but for a reason. So as I sulk away to the DJ booth, I overhear the bitches goin, "Like, OMG like, what did she say? Did she actually say something?..." After that, a little rivalry broke out between me and this dancer bitch! LOL. She was very confrontational and bitchy to me for most of the night, and laughed at me in front of her friends, so finally I stuck my head out of the DJ booth(it was a dead night, and I was telling the DJ about how I was looking to meet new guys and I kept asking him if he had any hot single friends!), and said "I'm not fighting here, meet me at 3am at _____." At one point right after a confrontation with her, I entered the DJ booth and simply vented, "God, I'm so aggravated, I wanna break someone's neck!" Apparently this girl "Opal" was in the DJ booth and was friends with the bitch, and she scolded me with, "Shut up, that's my best friend you're talking about!!!" even though I didn't actually specify the bitch's name. In reality, I was referring to SEVERAL different people, not just the bitch, but Whoria and my ex too.

    OK that just angered me, the fact that this bitch starts shit with me, yet her friends STILL stand up for her. Yet with my own ex, who claims that I am one of his best friends, he can NOT stand up for me to Whoria!!! How's that for a so-called "friend"!(See why I want to stop talking to my ex and hook up with other people instead???) At this point, I felt like such a fool. I took a 5-min break to go outside to the designated cig break section, call up my ex and tell him how angry I was, how much of a jerk he was for taking Whoria's side insteada mine when she started stuff, how even some asshole dancer could get support and I couldn't. Our phone convo turned into a yelling match, and then who comes out, but The Bitch and she's already starting with me AGAIN! So here I am, having a 2-way yelling match, one with the bitchy ex, one with the bitchy dancer!

    Later on though, it actually turned from totally annoying to pretty funny though. I was dancing on stage and she said "here's something for you" and put two quarters on the stage and claimed it was a "tip." She repeated herself a few times too and made a big fuss over it, to make extra certain that I saw the quarters there. So later on when she was on stage, I picked up a bottle cap from the floor and put it on the edge of her stage! I saw a few girls to my left and a few guys to my right start laughing(they'd seen the quarter thing before). So she chucked the quarters at me! And I chucked them back at her! And a quarter-throwing war broke out, and she started yelling at me weird comments. She threw a dollar at me and said "here you need this more than I do" and I responded with, "Obviously not if you can't afford a breast lift." She was yelling 10X louder than me though, and the guys on my right side were cracking up!! LOL it was like an act from Comedy Central or something! But then the manager spoke to both of us separately and warned us that he better not hear anything else of our little rivalry ever again. So that ended it cold-turkey.

    But WTF? Why are all these bitches starting trouble with me? Especially GIRLS, who I almost NEVER get into arguments/fights with? Is it just bad timing, bad karma, etc? This is really annoying!!! OK LOL that's my vent for the morning.

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    What club did this happen at? I don't see how a dancer would make money if she is going up to the stage to give you quarters when she should be working the floor selling dances.

    And I bet you have very nice boobs.

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    As far as the MySpace comments are concerned, just adjust your settings so that any comments have to be approved, that way nothing will slip by you that you don't want posted.

    As far as you and your ex getting mad about "anti-friends" being on each other's lists, think of it like this: You don't need your friends to tell you who to be friends with. Or do you? If something that is going to upset you might be on his page, then maybe you need to rethink visiting it, if you can't keep it to yourself.

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    im happyy I never went on myspace

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    Umm, not to make light of your feelings Philly, but having a quarter-fight is phuckin' hilarious girl!!!!!

    Like, OMG, where is this type of shit allowed???

    Seriously, you have to laugh those bitches off. You really don't need to let them know that they're bothering you. The term "hater" is over-used these days, IMHO.
    However, they sound like HATERS!!!!!!!

    And to answer you question. I firmly believe that when money is bad, so are attitudes. Even the nicest gals/guys, can be much more shitty, when they aren't raking in the dough they're used to. Could be the case with the quarter-slingin' whore at your club. The "Whoria" (that shit is classic) bitch, well, she's prolly always broke, and maybe jealous of you

    Easier said then done, but SMILE. I mean damn, you are in PHILLY, go eat a butterscotch krimpette!!!!!
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    You should've thrown a penny at her instead! hahaha

    I say just IGNORE the dumb bitch & DROP the ex. Fuck 'em. You don't need the drama anyway, right?

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    Whew girl, you got some drama goin' on! I agree with the others, and kick that sorry ass of an Ex to the curb. Sounds like the those other girls are just lookin' for trouble. Hard as it is, ignore them. You don't need them to get you fired from the club for fighting. High School is long gone, so should the drama! Your better than them!

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    she's gotta be jealous! to make a comment like that about your boob job and making it obvious like that in front of everyone, that's total intimidation! that's bluntly trying to make you feel bad. the quater thing, holy cow, if that happened at my club we'd be suspendid big time! girls are catty, especially in that business, we are all competing for that money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon
    As far as you and your ex getting mad about "anti-friends" being on each other's lists, think of it like this: You don't need your friends to tell you who to be friends with. Or do you? If something that is going to upset you might be on his page, then maybe you need to rethink visiting it, if you can't keep it to yourself.
    Yeah I now realize that I should change the settings on my myspace site so that all comments are viewed by me before posted, thanks for reminding me. As far as the "anti-friends" thing...I wasn't really mad at Whoria's content(it was inane and uncreative, nothing really offensive), it was the idea that my ex could bitch about MY myspace site, but expect me not to do the same. A few weeks ago, he was all bitching because I had a lesbian-looking picture on my site of me hugging a female friend of mine and we weren't dressed the most conservatively, even though we've been broken up for months now. He made his brother delete a comment I'd posted, simply because the picture next to the comment updated to the "lesbian" picture when I changed my picture to it on my site. His brother and I thought he was overreacting but I changed the picture, and his brother deleted the comment, just to shut him up. He's bitched about other things on there too, and even tried to delete a few people on my friends list that he dislikes. So yeah, after all of HIS drama, I expect the same, ESPECIALLY since Whoria started trouble with me, but none of the deleted friends on my list ever really did anything malicious to my ex. It's more an issue of hypocrisy and control. But you are right, we shouldn't visit each others' sites and I think that's what I'm gonna do from now on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JustJayda
    Umm, not to make light of your feelings Philly, but having a quarter-fight is phuckin' hilarious girl!!!!!

    Like, OMG, where is this type of shit allowed???

    Seriously, you have to laugh those bitches off. You really don't need to let them know that they're bothering you. The term "hater" is over-used these days, IMHO.
    However, they sound like HATERS!!!!!!!

    And to answer you question. I firmly believe that when money is bad, so are attitudes. Even the nicest gals/guys, can be much more shitty, when they aren't raking in the dough they're used to. Could be the case with the quarter-slingin' whore at your club. The "Whoria" (that shit is classic) bitch, well, she's prolly always broke, and maybe jealous of you

    Easier said then done, but SMILE. I mean damn, you are in PHILLY, go eat a butterscotch krimpette!!!!!
    Yeah, I was a little mad at the dancer at first, mostly because I was already in a bad mood already. I didn't need another party to be instigating drama with me AGAIN in the same two days! But during the quarter fight, I found it hilarious and the whole thing suddenly seemed like something out of Comedy Central! LOL! The girls and guys around me were laughing the whole time, they saw the humor in it, and I even commented to them that this was something out of Comedy Central, too! Trust me when I say that the manager's scoldings to us was NOT gentle at all! He didn't write us up or fire us, but he did vaguely warn us that if he had to speak to us again, that he'd make up the consequences and it wouldn't be good...it's not that hard to read between the lines with this one lol. And I agree with you and the other girl, who said that the girls are probably jealous and insecure because the money sucks these days. Lately at my club, the weekdays are very dead, especially in comparison to the weekends. A dancer friend and I were discussing all this last night, and we agreed that the industry just seems to be sucking in general lately...too many strip clubs, too many girls wanting to be dancers, economy going down, etc. IMHO I think the stripping industry's time is starting to expire...as many other past forms of entertainment did, such as vaudeville, the burlesque scene, drive-thru movie theaters, etc.

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    As an aside... I'm happy to say that it seems like burlesque is slowly starting to make a come-back, and the serious strippers who are becoming disillusioned with the integrity and class of the strip club industry sliding downhill might help that happen even faster.

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