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    Hey girls, another newbie with another problem. I am looking into dancing at pubs in my lingerie (I know of an agency who represents the girls) and decided on lingerie because I am also pursuing a career in acting and modelling and feel like anything more controversial could come back to bite me in the @ss!

    However the dancing does pay considerably less, for 3 sets of 4 songs it is $60 aussie dollars with a small opportunity to maybe make tips. I can't help but feel like this is a small amount considering a good probably 50 to 100 guys get a free perve and most of them are old enough to be my grandad.
    When I'm out at pubs, if I have a much older, sleazy man hit on me I feel like I can just say no and be totally unattainable but now its like, well he can just get a free perve at all I have to offer at the local pub.

    How do you get past these feelings, like you're losing your innocense and feel cheapened. I don't look at other dancers this way, it's just how I would feel about myself.

    Sorry about the big ramble, just looking for insight beyond the "maybe you're just not cut out for dancing" advice. Thanks girls.

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    I work in a lingerie club inthe states. What exactly do you think the custies are getting for free?

    If it't jsut that they get to see you in your skivvies for free, that can't be helped. And I have news for you. THey are looking at your ass at clubs, at the beach, at the mall, at the gym, etc, already, and in those situations, there is no hope of youmaking any money. Sorry, but that is jsut part of the biz.

    If it bothers yo that much, wear a gown or a robe or something so you are more covered up. I work in long gowns all the time and make good money. You don't have to walk around half naked in order to be a top earner, belive me.

    Also, the older guys are our bread and butter in this business. All the young hot ones know they are young and hot and think they are too good for lap dances. They don;t usually have a lot of money anyway. Old guys appreciate dancers and generally make better customers. Most of my best guys are older gentlemen who are not handsome, but they are very very nice. Don't write them off as sleezy just because they ahppen to be old enough to be your Dad (which would only make them in their mid-40's not old at all!) and still find you attractive.


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    Wow thanks colleen you really helped put things in perspective for me. I never really thought in real life terms about men checking me out regardless. What you have said really helped! Thanks again .

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    The guys just stare more openly at the shows, is all. They are always staring, they are just sneakier about it on the street.

    How you can make more money at these shows is bring a friend and a polaroid camera, and sell photos to the guys (pose with the customers) for $5-10 depending on what the market will bear in your area.

    Also try wearing a leg garter and wander around the room and pose in front of the customers and point or hold your garter in such a way that it would be easy for the customer's to place money in it. Start with your own $$'s in there, so then the guys will get the idea. I used to place my foot on the customer's thigh with my garter right in front of his face and and stare at him, holding it for 30-45 seconds staring and smiling. If you stare at a person's face for more than 15-20 seconds, the person feels a little uncomfortable (you will, too, it takes practice to hold the stare), and reach for his wallet to tip.

    With 50-100 guys in the room you should be able to leave with $200 easy.
    Good luck and congrats!


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    What a fantastic idea, I'm going out and buying a leg garter tomorow ! Thanks a million (or should I say $200) Paris! What would I do without stripperweb?? You girls have been the biggest help.

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    You're still unattainable, honey. In fact, I feel it moreso as a dancer. When I'm just out and about or working at my day job, I still get checked out and hit on... but when I'm at the club, HA! I'm a beautiful, sparkling goddess in 6" heels and they may look, but they can't touch. I get asked out a zillion times a night and they all get turned down. None of those guys have a prayer of a chance, whether they realize it or not. THAT is what it means to be unattainable!

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    Default Re: Unattainability...gone?

    I have to say something i don't see how dancing in a lingrea club will keep your rep better for your acting careere i think it will be looked on the same if its found out. sorry.

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