Last night, I was in the shower thinking about a lapdance I got when I visited a club in Oklahoma (as a customer). This girl was really hot, totally my type, and since the club was really busy I asked her for a dance. I quickly realized that she used my dance as an opportunity to drum up business from the guys who were watching, rather than dance for me... she was putting on this wild, crazy show rather than the slow, intimate kind of dance that I like. A few times she would even get on all fours and just bump her ass into my chair over and over.![]()
Me being the PL I am when it comes to strippers, I bought two dances from her and tipped her afterward, but it was not an enjoyable dance for me. Of course our enthusiastic audience bought several more from her when we were done, but I definitely don't feel that I got my money's worth. So how do you tell a dancer to tone it down and be sexier??
I tried to think of how I would want to be told if it was me, and I couldn't think of an answer. I don't dance "crazy" anyway and I couldn't imagine doing some of those moves because they are just not sexy to me. What would y'all say to a girl who was using you as a prop for a show rather than giving the dance you paid for?


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