Hmm... yeah, I don't think so. The "fantasy" of a strip club is build into the strip club - that is the idea that guys are in charge, that they get to choose, that they get to command attention, etc. It doesn't translate into personal relationships. Or I don't see that it does.
I don't think it is so much about idealism, as a decision to live your life in a certain way - like, yes, some people lie. You cannot avoid it, you cannot get around it but some people don't. It's matter of deciding what will be your default opinion on people - particularly people with whom you are choosing to pursue an intimate relationship.



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...I don't know about you but I already have parents. While I value and respect my mans opinion, it is not the end all in my decisions! I don't like that HE was the one pushing you to get up and dance. I don't like that HE picked out the place for you to work. I don't like that when he said HE didn't want you dancing anymore, you quit. And the fact that he gets pissed simply because you talk about it..
WTF girl? Maybe this type of controlling relationship works for you? Please consider YOU taking care of you above all.

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