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    PhillyDancer1982
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    OK I already wrote about a few bitches(one from work, two from my personal OTC life) who were starting shit with me earlier this week when I didn't do anything at all to them. Here is a link to the thread: . The one bitch at work was very rude, but after our little "quarter-throwing fight" from the stage, I started to find it all humorous and laugh about it afterwards. I was hoping that she'd realize how silly it all was and laugh about it too, but no she had to start trouble with me AGAIN on my very next day of work...only half an hour after I arrived!

    Here is what happened. I'd just gotten to work, and one of the people I was talking to was a flirty freckle-faced guy who was part of a bachelor party for his friend. I kept trying to sell him a couch dance, but he was more concerned about who would do the on-stage hot seat for his bachelor friend. He asked me if I liked whipping guys, and I said "yeah, I love dominating men!"(I do) so he firmly said that he was adding me to the hot seat. He asked if that was ok and went over to the DJ booth to tell them to add me on. Meanwhile I was urging him to tell the DJ to play Weird Al's "All about the pentiums"...this is an inside joke b/t me and the DJ, where I always want him to play the satire "All about the pentiums" insteada the P. Diddy version "All about the Benjamins" so I thought it'd be cute if the customer asked the DJ because then the DJ couldn't refuse to play it! LOL. But yeah, that's my extent of involvement.

    Well, right after that, whaddyaknow...the DJ informs me that I'm doing the hot seat with The Bitch! LOL what are the odds of that! I start cracking up and telling the DJ and his bouncer friend what a "comedy act" this is gonna be, because they're both full aware of the problems I had with this girl the day before at work. But the manager told us girls to stop arguing with each other, so I was determined to not start trouble and just do the Hot Seat civily. Then the DJ tells me that if I want to take that cig break(we have to smoke outside the club), to take it "right now" because I'd be doing the Hot Seat soon.

    So I'm out there smoking, talking to a bouncer friend of mine, and I hear The Bitch yelling and screaming in the dressing room about how mad she is that she's gotta do a Hot Seat with me! She was also bitching because apparently the guy chose her and another girl before me, then changed his mind...I wasn't aware of this, because I generally do not concern myself with anyones' business but my own. She's bitching that I "stole Skipper's Hot Seat"(names have been changed) when the CUSTOMER stole it away, I was not involved in the politics of it. Finally, I go in to say "I don't really care, if it means that much to you, let Skipper do the hot seat like originally planned" but just as I was ready to confront her, she comes out to bitch and yell at me. AND she was telling the house mom gossip about me, and the house mom glanced outside with this snotty/nosy look, which made me feel uncomfortable around the house mom for the rest of the shift. I tell the Bitch's friend "Skipper" that she can have the Hot Seat if she wants, I didn't care at this point I just wanted to subside any drama because I knew the manager didn't want drama, but she was like "whatever."

    I pulled aside the manager and explained to him the situation, and he was like "Well, if the customer wanted to change it, then he wants you and you should do it. It all comes down to what the customer wanted, he's able to change the Hot Seat if he wants. YOU should do the Hot Seat because that's what the customer wants." So I ended up doing the Hot Seat, and luckily the bitchy girl was civil to work with during the Hot Seat. Yeah admittedly it DID kinda suck for Skipper to be taken off it, but looking back at it now, I've had a few instances where the same thing happened to me...guys say they want me to do the Hot Seat, then later on I see someone else doing it instead. And I never bitched, not even to the very customers!

    Although later on, I overheard some bitches in the dressing room STILL gossiping about me, saying that I "sabotaged the hot seat" when I had NO involvement, was unaware of who was involved with the Hot Seat, and was just doing what the customer wanted. Apparently the Bitch also said that I TOLD the customer to change the Hot Seat and put me on, when in fact he asked ME and the ONLY thing I begged him to do was to request the SONG to be "All about the pentiums" and that was more of a joke than anything. WTF??? It seems like no matter what I do, things always get screwed up. This situation up-and-out made me look bad, despite it not being my fault, and despite managers agreeing with me and the customer. How would you guys have reacted if you were me? Should I worry about what these girls think, or just care about my money? Should I have declined the Hot Seat entirely?

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    Default Re: Stupid bitch at work tries to start with me AGAIN! >:(

    I would just ignore it.. yes, it gets annoying, but while they are harping in the dressing room, you are out there making money. screw it, let them bitch and moan.. Eventually it will all die down and they will find a new victim.
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    Yes, exactly!! During the point when I tried to play role of mediator/peacemaker and tell them that Skipper could do the Hot Seat, I even said "I don't mind if Skipper does the Hot Seat, it'll just give me the extra time to do a couch dance." Did I really care that much over $27?? No. But then again, why should I have felt the need to forgo $27 when I was doing what the customer and manager told me to do?

    I don't know what this girl's problem is. She seems like the type who likes drama, always talks very loudly(and that's considering that I'm a VERY loud person and she's louder than me!!), and at random times says comments like "I wanna rip someone's head off!!!!!" So weird.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
    I would just ignore it.. yes, it gets annoying, but while they are harping in the dressing room, you are out there making money. screw it, let them bitch and moan.. Eventually it will all die down and they will find a new victim.
    Ditto that! I always ignore the problems, don't talk to people about any gossip, and just work my @$$ off.

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    drama drama drama.. I heard it all on thursday night, not towards me, but towards another girl, honestly it didn't change my mind about the girl being talked about.. It gets old aftera while. As dancers, we see so many girlies come and go that we tend to forget the evil rumors and angry gossip each week. The topic of the week is eventually traded in for a new girl or new rumor..
    blech, it sucks when it happens to you (i know), but screw it, it just means you are making money and have the potential to make more..
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    That is true...last night was a very bad night(being that it's a holiday weekend) and I overheard the girl say to someone at the end of the night what she made, and it was literally half of what I'd made. (I wasn't being nosy, it's just that she talks kinda loud! LOL I'm loud too at times though so I can sorta relate) It's just that she made it seem as if I was "sinning" or doing something wrong, so I wasn't sure. I don't really care about her, I just don't want the workplace trying to make work uncomfortable for me, and I also don't want them to try and get the managers against me because at that point, my job is at stake. Oh, I guess it doesn't matter though, there are many other clubs I could get hired at...I just like the busy weekend shifts at my club though, because it's reputed to be one of the best clubs for moneymaking in the city...

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    Why do you continually choose to participate in the drama? Let them have it and just walk away. I know it's hard to do sometimes, but this just puts a damper on your night. The more drama you are involving yourself in, the less money you are collecting. If she comes out to yell at you, again, just say, "Excuse me, I have more important things to do." and walk past her. Let her expend all of her energy bitching, moaning, and gossiping. She'll be skipping out on all of the money that you can now make.

    Just stay out of the drama. It doesn't add anything to your work environment...it takes from your money, energy, and just your life overall. Just ignore and walk away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    If she comes out to yell at you, again, just say, "Excuse me, I have more important things to do." and walk past her. Let her expend all of her energy bitching, moaning, and gossiping. She'll be skipping out on all of the money that you can now make.
    Exactly what I was thinking. You go to work to make money, not bitch and moan. F*** the house mom, the evil chick, the other girls, hell even "skipper" just work and make your money and go home. Instead of arguing with those chicks about whose gonna do a dam hot seat, you could've been off to the couches in the meantime making more money.

    I strongly say just avoid it at all cost. Let them talk and gossip. If you hear about it, brush it off and keep moving.







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    Yup, what Venus said. IMO, dancer drama and bitchy co-workers are the worst part of the job. For what it's worth, I don't think you did anything wrong. Some people just need drama in their lives (for whatever reason, I will NEVER understand).
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    Thanks for the feedback guys. The reason I was debating about who would do the hot seat, wasn't because I was arguing with the girl, but because I was sick of the drama and I just wanted to appease them so they'd stop bitching and getting people against me. That, and because the day before, the manager told us both that he didn't want to ever hear about our problems with each other ever again, so I didn't want this girl making a big fuss and the managers mistakenly thinking that I'd done something to piss her off when I didn't. I realize now though, that I shouldn't of even worried about that and shoulda not even taken the time to talk to the manager about it. After the hot seat, the girl was civil to me and I was civil back, so maybe the managers talked to her about it. As far as Skipper, she seemed nice to me after that and the next day, so the problem was probably all with the bitchy girl lol. Hopefully though there will be no more drama! That drama was my first "cat fight," and hopefully my last!

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