OK...what CAN we say?
I have been reading the pink side a bit now and again and I have noticed threads about some things customer's say. The feedback, often in rant form, discusses specific statements and why they are stupid and annoying. There is often some pretty unique feedback from other dancers on flippant or smart ass remarks that can be used in response. What strikes me is that most, if not all, of the offending remarks are statements I have used, time and again, with success. Maybe all of the dancers I interact with are just exceptional actresses, but I don't get a vibe they they do not appreciate my small talk at all.
So sure, I can just go "my name is GenWar and I will purchase exactly 4 dances from you over the course of the evening. Please let me know when the best time for you and I to complete this business tranaction comes about..." I respect that you are working and not partying and I am totally sympathetic (to the point of being a PL) at how much you must put up with, but, honestly, that just ain't my style. I am seeking GFE and I am a connoisseur of SS and that is what I want. Further, I am prepared to pay for it and I take my time debts VERY seriously. Small talk questions, even slightly inane ones, open paths to allow you to work your game.
So, I ask...what should I say when I make small talk? What statements are considered acceptable? And how does one stimulate game or SS, without asking questions like the ones discussed? Just wondering...
-gen



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