Argh... I've really gotten myself in a bind here.
Ok, several months ago I had a customer that was traveling from Canada spend about $3000 on me in VIP area over the course of two days. He's a sweet, nerdy, geeky, rich guy with a failing marriage and two bratty kids. Anyway, I had some sympathy for him and he was so gracious with his money; so I gave him my "professional" email address and told him I would stay in touch. Within two of his return to Canada he sent me a $2000 check to my P.O. Box. He asked me to spend some money on myself and put the rest into my daughter's education fund. He thinks I'm a single mom, but I'm not...I'm very happily married.
Ok, here's the sticky. He's wanting to come back to Phoenix next weekend just to see me. So, I emailed him and told him that I would love to visit him and I was working both Fri & Sat night and we could spend the entire evening together in VIP. He replies that he has no problem staying inside the club, but hates that so much of the money in VIP goes to the club and not to me. He would rather have his money go directly to me if he is spending it. So he offered to spend one night doing VIP and suggested maybe Saturday taking me and my daughter to the mall for a shopping spree. I'm thinking this sounds pretty goodbut this is definately breaking my OTC rule.
I don't think he has any expectations of sex but I do presume that he thinks there is a chance of some type of relationship with me. I really, really don't know what to do! Should I be honest and tell him I am married and lose the opportunity for this type of regular custy? Or should I go along with it until it gets to be way too much to handle?![]()



but this is definately breaking my OTC rule.

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Not such a bad deal after all.

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