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    Okay, so I waited to get home until I started crying about this... But I'm pissed off that I'm crying about this! Okay, so this regular of mine comes in and blah blah blah we're doing our thing. Then he tells me (like, two minutes later) that this other chick (who's apparently some self-proclamed house mom... even though we don't HAVE a house mom) is super jealous and I should stay away from him when she's around. So, I do. Later on, I'm talking to this guy... who's sitting with this same girl... and his friend...and another girl... Actually, I just got off stage and I just want my tip but he starts talking to me (cuz we'd talked before). I start getting mean looks from the girls so I start trying to break him off... but he keeps telling me to stay. I still leave... I tell the DJ what that dude had told me... me and the DJ have always been really cool. He gets really pissed and tells me to tell the manager (I get the feeling he doesn't like her... and he told me she was drama). I'm like... no. So, HE talks to the manager. The manager tells him to talk to the girl... he does. I don't know what the fuck he said to her... but I dunno. She comes up to me later and was like "you know what was really fucked up, don't you". Like, really pissed. I'm like, "what"? Anyways, she's talking about it to this girl I always work with (who I had JUSt started to be friendly with). So, I was waiting for an opportunity to talk to this chick but the shift was long over, and she looked dressed to go and the DJ said she was drunk. So, I let it be.

    What should I do? I NEVER have this problem... I HATE that she made me cry!!! I just want to work at the other club I work at and spend some time with girls I get along with.
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    I'm sorry to here about this. Sounds like the girl is just a flat out bitch and taking her drama out on you. If you made good money @ the place, stick it out and go back. Ignore the bitch and if the subject arises with the other girl explain your side of the story. Avoid bringing up any accusations and just tell your side as innocently as possible. -(Because it is). Mean people suck.
    Wish you the best. Hope your night gets better.

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    **hugs**

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    Sounds like lame BS to me. I'm sorry she made you feel this way. Remember you are there to make money.. period!! If this bitch is messing up that goal, you need to have a chat with management. Hey, if they want your hot ass on their floor, and your house fee $$ in their register....

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    Sorry to hear that. But no matter where you go, they'll always be drama, always be catty bitches. Don't let it get to you and by all means, don't let it affect your money. F$ck her, if she has a problem that's her problem, not yours! Go there, make your money and she or anyone else that's mean or catty can piss off!!!

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    I heard her saying how I said "what are you talking about'' to said other girl when we were all in line for the blue light special (two for twenty) but I didn't say anything because I didn't want to start shit in front of five other girls... I'm wondering if I should have.
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    I can see that you didn't mean for anything to happen. From her perspective though (the manager goes to her and tells her that you told the DJ - ugh) you've just informed the management that a customer has complained about her. You can apologize or you can let it go - just gauge her character. Some girls really need the apology, and for some it would really exacerbate it (like: Gosh, I'm sorry, when I was running around telling the DJ that the customers were complaining about you, I didn't expect anything to happen. I believe you - but it doesn't sound good).

    I would say that if you were truly being as polite and respectful as you say with "her" customers (her's for the moment, I mean) and they insist that you join, you are free to do so. Some girls are really unreasonable about "their" customers, and there is no point in engaging with it because there is too much for them to lose - I mean in terms of personal validation, money etc., they have every reason in the world to be ticked off even if they are not reasonable reasons - if you know what I mean by that.
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    A guy asked me to come over after stage so I'm comin' over. That's it. He told this girl to take a hike--not my problem. That chick tried that with me. She must have thought confronting me in front of most of the girls would make me back down. They looked shocked when I stood up for myself and then they shut the f*ck up. So YES speak your peace for everyone to witness if that's how she sets it up. Let there be no doubt you don't give f*ck about addressing it with management.

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    That really sucks hun! Theres nothing worst than a bitchy girl talking bullshit drama just because she likes the attention! I would just TOTALY ignore her! I wish You well sweetie!*....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    when we were all in line for the blue light special (two for twenty)
    Do they seriously call this the blue light special? That's amazing.
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    Just ignore the drama and make your money.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist
    A guy asked me to come over after stage so I'm comin' over. That's it. He told this girl to take a hike--not my problem. That chick tried that with me. She must have thought confronting me in front of most of the girls would make me back down. They looked shocked when I stood up for myself and then they shut the f*ck up. So YES speak your peace for everyone to witness if that's how she sets it up. Let there be no doubt you don't give f*ck about addressing it with management.

    What Op said^^^

    Fortunately, I've never really had to deal with this kinda crap, but I'm one of those chicks nobody really "tries". I hate bullies though, and that's what this chick sounds like.

    You don't have to be a "hero", but please don't be a doormat. You have to stand up for yourself hun. If this was me, I would make NO apologies to her. You don't deserve to be intimidated, especially since you don't do it to others.

    She probably won't say anything else to you, sounds like she is on thin ice already with management. You just tune her out for now!
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